Dating site for those who flaunt their hypergamy

[EGParticipant 1851]

https://www.seeking.com/

From the website:
“SeekingArrangement delivers a new way for relationships to form and grow. Sugar Babies and Sugar Daddies or Mommas both get what they want, when they want it.”

Also from the website:
“What is Hypergamy?
Hypergamy is the term social scientists use to refer to the phenomenon of women prioritizing wealth or social status in mate selection. Hypergamy is commonly referred to as trading or marrying up. There is a great deal of research that supports the notion that hypergamy plays a big part in female mate selection. Awareness of this female mating preference has caused a moral panic that upon consideration reveals itself as unjustified.”

Discuss.

(Oh…and THANK GOD I’M GAY)

[TaxGuyParticipant]

EG wrote:

Hypergamy is the term social scientists use to refer to the phenomenon of women prioritizing wealth or social status in mate selection. Hypergamy is commonly referred to as trading or marrying up. There is a great deal of research that supports the notion that hypergamy plays a big part in female mate selection. Awareness of this female mating preference has caused a moral panic that upon consideration reveals itself as unjustified.”

The best part of hypergamy is that women don’t even try to hide it. There are numerous articles out there about how women are having a hard time finding a worthy guy to marry. But now the college population is 60% women. Theoretically they are going to go out there and end up with a job paying more than their husband (no husbank b/c she makes more). In short, she is demanding a husbank not a husband. Well what happened to “You Go Gurl!” and equality? You wanted equality you got it. And now it’s just as likely that the woman will earn more than the man. Which should be great for her because when they get married and have kids, he can stay at home with them and do “the toughest job in the world” while she screws around at work all day.

Who knew that men didn’t have it THAT easy? It’s almost like they never cared or listened in the first place. ALMOST.

Order the good wine

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

EG wrote:

Awareness of this female mating preference has caused a moral panic that upon consideration reveals itself as unjustified.”

How is losing everything you have, so she can move on to her next victim, unjustified? A woman must have wrote this.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

“””Sugar Baby, what we call an Attractive Member, is an empowered individual with exquisite taste and an appetite for a relationship filled with new experiences and a taste of the good life. She’s not constrained by traditional definitions of relationships and is Seeking to create a Relationship on Her Terms that perfectly fits her expanding horizons, desires and goals. She’s ambitious and appreciates the value of Finding a Successful Member who can be a mentor/teacher, confidante, friend, and lover and even a business partner and investor in her future.”””

I don’t even know where to start on commenting about something that normalizes something so malicious.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

FrostByte wrote:

“””Sugar Baby, what we call an Attractive Member, is an empowered individual with exquisite taste and an appetite for a relationship filled with new experiences and a taste of the good life. She’s not constrained by traditional definitions of relationships and is Seeking to create a Relationship on Her Terms that perfectly fits her expanding horizons, desires and goals. She’s ambitious and appreciates the value of Finding a Successful Member who can be a mentor/teacher, confidante, friend, and lover and even a business partner and investor in her future.”””

I don’t even know where to start on commenting about something that normalizes something so malicious.

It’s just redefining the definition of a prostitute. The old saying is you don’t pay the prostitute for sex you pay her to go away. Now they don’t want to go away. Can you really blame them for trying to maximize the resources they extract for vaginal access?

They’re still whores. They’re just renegotiating a pay raise. Give them credit for trying to repackage the oldest product in the world.

Order the good wine

[Mr. SpockParticipant 10907]

A whore is still a whore no matter how you package it. In this case though it almost sounds like a marriage without the contract. The arrangement seems to entail a man paying via attention, money, gifts, trips etc. and she still has the option to say no. Since the website tries to make it sound like a dating website, the out for the woman is that they were on a date and nothing more was expected. In a traditional prostitute transaction you get services and she gets paid. Here, like a marriage she can say no or require more “gifts” and even if the guy cries foul she can claim that no sex acts were expected and that the gifts were for her time and attention. I can only imagine how many false accusations can arise out of an arrangement like this.

Feminism isn't about equality with men, it's about leverage over men.

[MonkParticipant 16975]

“Awareness of this female mating preference has caused a moral panic that upon consideration reveals itself as unjustified.”

Interesting phraseology. ‘Awareness’ concedes that is so. ‘Unjustified’ indicates that the writer is in a dilemma and is now trying to resolve conflicting positions.

At a guess, this was written by a mangina, rather than a woman.

[EGParticipant 1851]

She’s ambitious and appreciates the value of Finding a Successful Member who can be a mentor/teacher, confidante, friend, and lover and even a business partner and investor in her future.“

How can you guys resist???

[EGParticipant 1851]

The Seeking.com Sugar Baby is empowered, because she is unafraid of setting a higher standard of whom they want in a romantic relationship

They can have standards but if any of us get hit on by a trans person and decline them sex, we’re bigots. Got it! 😉

I’ve grown to dislike that word “empowered”.

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