Dating Options

[FunInTheSunParticipant 8283]

The dating options, for your average man in most Western societies, are limited. If his goal is to have sex, he has to develop a strategy for dealing with female minds—all their insecurities, fears, irrational thought processes, feminist ideology, and mood swings. He has to practice his strategy to overcome the female mind, get a woman feeling comfortable, kiss her and feel her up, and then get her clothes off without making her lose the sexual vibe—and it is extremely easy to say something or do something to make her lose this vibe! Some guys can turn a boring date into a lively one by feeding her drinks from the bar. Then she’s less apprehensive about getting physically intimate. He can’t “be himself,” or be a nice guy, because that’s not going to help him achieve his goal.

If he gets frustrated with developing a strategy, and being rejected for dates, his other options are:

1. Not dating.
2. Meeting women on a dating website, or paying for an introduction service.
3. Sex toys/love dolls.
4. Paying for prostitutes.

Some guys are just naturally attractive to women (CHAD), and they don’t have to try too hard. Some guys have high social value and wealth. And some guys live in countries where marriages are arranged, and no #MeToo social movement exists. So they don’t have much to worry about.

"I saw that there comes a point, in the defeat of any man of virtue, when his own consent is needed for evil to win-and that no manner of injury done to him by others can succeed if he chooses to withhold his consent. I saw that I could put an end to your outrages by pronouncing a single word in my mind. I pronounced it. The word was ‘No.’" (Atlas Shrugged)

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

That is useless, women are just crazy and chad is an idiot.

Im a chad prototipe, i got the violent looking face, a muscular body to match it, 84 kg of pure muscle 6 feet tall, but i got A BRAIN.

CHAD is stupid, chad wold wrap it up anf bang a sifilis infected monkey if he was horny.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[JB BooksParticipant 3182]

If a guy has enough status or is willing to lower his standards enough, there is another option: FWB. You don’t have to screw around with dating or trying to figure out the female mind. You invite them out for drinks only and then back to either your or her place. That’s it – oh, except for the sex. And if that doesn’t work, then there’s always others. Frankly, going monk or using escorts seem to be a lot more attractive.

We just don't realize life's most significant events while they're happening. Back then, I thought, "Well, there'll be other days". I didn't realize that that was the only day. - "Moonlight" Graham

[JustAnotherGuyParticipant]

Considering how casually any woman can destroy a man’s life, monk is really the only dating option unless he’s gay.

Cupcakes are Cold. MGTOW is Absolute Zero.
“Let us wait a little; when your enemy is executing a false movement, never interrupt him” –Napoleon Bonaparte, 1805

[TaxGuyParticipant]

FunInTheSun wrote:

Some guys can turn a boring date into a lively one by feeding her drinks from the bar.

And then the next morning cupcake can decide that she regrets having sex with our young male friend and spin the hamster wheel a few times and convince herself that she was raped. And we all know that women cannot consent to sex when she’s drunk. But our your male friend can. Think about that double standard for a minute. A woman is excused from accountability because she’s had a few drinks but a man is not excused from his accountability. Because, you know, equality.

Order the good wine

[narwhalParticipant]

FunInTheSun wrote:

The dating options, for your average man in most Western societies, are limited. If his goal is to have sex, he has to develop a strategy for dealing with female minds—all their insecurities, fears, irrational thought processes, feminist ideology, and mood swings.

Are you talking about dating or just having sex with a woman? I don’t consider the two synonymous as there are other reasons why men chose to date, and you clearly don’t need to date to have sex with a woman. Blending the two clouds things a bit.

I get your point though. Forgetting about dating for a minute, western societies make it difficult for men to just to have sex with a woman they find attractive. Every avenue comes with it’s risks. If you go by way of a romantic relationship, you are obligated to provide services (often legally) to her while the relationship lasts, and she is under no obligation to provide sex. FWB is different in this regard, but women will often try and push for services and pretend there was an obligation there. In both cases, she can claim rape/sex assault without proof if you aren’t careful. Straight bare bones sex for cash is deemed illegal, so there is the downside to that.

So no, it’s hard to say there is a good smart way to experience sex with a woman if you want it. In contrast, there are good smart ways to obtain a car, house, or boat if you want it. There are good ways to experience traveling to destinations, sky diving, and all sorts of other pleasure experiences. Really the best way to experience sex, without serious potential repercussions, are the various forms of masturbation.

And this is from the guy’s perspective only. If you’re a woman wanting sex, then relationships are still tricky because you have various obligations to provide services. FWB is a better option in this regard. Neither option has a threat of false rape or sexual assualt allogations. Prostitution doesn’t really exist for me, primarily because the above methods already work so well, few women are going to pay for sex directly. And of masturbation is always there.

Ok. Then do it.

[TronParticipant 285]

Fun in the Sun,
Well, I have another option. I do not date however, there are a couple of women that I do have lunch with occasionally. I do this because they have earned my trust and respect. I do not pay for them, unless I want to. They also buy me lunch to so it is a two-way street. I do not mind the company of women but I refuse to pay for it. I refuse to pay for sex with women or a doll. I refuse to go to strip clubs because I refuse to pay women for any kind of sexual encounter. Strippers enjoy seeing how weak men are. They believe that our sex drive and our penis render us powerless to make rational decisions. So why feed into this crap? women are experts in manipulating men whether you are at work or at a strip club. The song remains the same. Go Mgtow!!

[MonkParticipant 16988]

Dating options?

Put your dick in the painbox. Or not.

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