Dating, is it worth trying at all ?

[CasualGuy227Participant 170]

Hello there fellas!

 

Figured Id get a second opinion from more older experienced peeps from on here, right since I have finished college and got some good amount of down time before I head to university a male friend of mine recommended that I could perhaps go on some dates or group dates with some girls with a small group of people he knows and says are good people nut I personally am not that experienced when it comes to the whole dating scene since I spent most of my time so far on education, gym and part time work to pay bills so left little time for stuff like that really.

 

Part of me things that perhaps I should go along with the whole idea mainly for some experience and see if I meet any new interesting people are worth meeting, but that being said another part of me is thinking that it will be a waste of time  going along with this in total and that  some of these women might just be looking for a free meal ticket.

 

Any thoughts or opinions on the situation would be great .

 

– Casual Guy
<p class=”__web-inspector-hide-shortcut__”>Part of me thinks would be nice to play along just to get some experience out of the situation and</p>

[Great-OzParticipant 226]

I’m 30 years old and haven’t had an actual girlfriend or even sexual partner for the better part of 13 years. Now, I’m not really wanting to take the monk route of MGTOW, because I still have those sexual urges and desires. However, since taking the red-pill I’ve become a great deal more discerning when it comes to the women I choose to message on the dating sites or those I speak to in person. If I do message a woman and she responds I keep my brain engaged and stop my dick from thinking for me. This results in me simply blocking some of those women who respond, because they just aren’t worth the effort, even for a simple f~~~.

I hope that helps you by giving you a look at how another MGTOW is handling the dating situation.

"Life is the future, not the past." Wizard's 7th rule, Terry Goodkind

[Crazy CanuckMember 4215]

Don’t do it at least on university campus. NEVER DATE A WOMAN ON CAMPUS, NEVER BE FRIENDS WITH THEM! The reason for this is because the false rape is widely used. You will likely to kicked out of school. Personally if I was you I would focus on school and your job because women will usually cost you money.

If you want to date do it once you finish school and have a good job. However never spend a dime on the whores, it’s either dutch or f~~~ off. Otherwise women will slowly use you. Don’t be an emotional punching for her either.

"If pussy was a stock it would be plummeting right now because you've flooded the market with it. You're giving it away too easy." - Dave Chapelle

[experiencedParticipant]

Dating, is it worth trying at all ?

By all means, anytime she wants to take me out on a date she can ask!

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[CasualGuy227Participant 170]

Thanks for the advice so far.

 

No need to worry about dating on campus  the dating situation that my friend suggested wont have anything to so with university since I am on summer holidays right now and soon as I go university it shall be all I focus on and my studies so I overall wont have to worry about dating on campus.

About the dutch comment I will ensure to follow that one to the letter since she can pay for herself.  Not too sure what you are meaning about the emotional punching for her, could you perhaps give me an example just to understand it a lil better that would be awesome thanks.

 

– Casual Guy

[Crazy CanuckMember 4215]

http://blogs.psychcentral.com/unplugged/2012/04/borderline-personality-disorder-emotional-punching-bags/

Btw you are not her therapist and shouldn’t be. You shouldn’t feel the need to save her if you do you need to bail ASAP.

"If pussy was a stock it would be plummeting right now because you've flooded the market with it. You're giving it away too easy." - Dave Chapelle

[CasualGuy227Participant 170]

Crazy Canuck wrote:

http://blogs.psychcentral.com/unplugged/2012/04/borderline-personality-disorder-emotional-punching-bags/ Btw you are not her therapist and shouldn’t be. You shouldn’t feel the need to save her if you do you need to bail ASAP.

Thanks will give it a read and don’t worry I don’t plan to save any one haha if I do go the main objective of the thing will be for me to have fun not turn any one into a saving project.

 

– Casual Guy

 

[treelville..miamiParticipant 893]

Nothing wrong with getting laid, thing is, s~~~ adds up and eventually and you have nothing to show for it but bedpost tallies, make sure you let them know off rip that you won’t accept a renig ( her withdrawing her sex offer while still accepting your resources) and if you date/relations~~~ the price would be immeasurable. Also if it doesn’t work out its back to square one and repeat, this gets old after a while.

"The wounds of honor are self inflicted"

[SMADParticipant 651]

I would personally say Yes to having a go at dating – if you don’t look for anything too serious before university, you can treat the whole thing as experience.  It would be better to make “life mistakes” sooner rather than later and with minimal damage so that you can maximise the experience gained.

The risk you have of not dating whilst younger is that later in life, your lack of experience may be you downfall and you might end up in worse traps.  As you are young now, I will assume you aren’t financially rolling in it etc, so any “woman damage” at this stage won’t be much.  But once you are qualified and a future CEO, or whatever, then you will have MUCH MORE to lose.

Not only this, but I truly believe that dating and “finding yourself” will help you in the rest of life, not just romantically.  In my early and mid 20’s I was a serial dater – even women I didn’t fancy, as I thought that LOGICALLY, I could still learn something.  Interacting with others helped me to learn more of myself and now, at 31, I feel like an absolute power house with well defined personality boundaries.  I know what I like and don’t like, I have established principles and belief system and it has an impact on EVERY part of my life.

It also gave me the Inner Courage to stand up for my MGTOW belief system as you *will* get more hassle as you get older – why aren’t you married, etc.  Build your “character” now, in your 20’s, as I believe 30+ is where the awesomeness of being a Man *really* picks up and I feel I am at my prime.

But of course, feel free to disagree 🙂

Marriage?  No thanks, i'm not ready to be THAT miserable.

[CasualGuy227Participant 170]

SMAD wrote:

I would personally say Yes to having a go at dating – if you don’t look for anything too serious before university, you can treat the whole thing as experience. It would be better to make “life mistakes” sooner rather than later and with minimal damage so that you can maximise the experience gained. The risk you have of not dating whilst younger is that later in life, your lack of experience may be you downfall and you might end up in worse traps. As you are young now, I will assume you aren’t financially rolling in it etc, so any “woman damage” at this stage won’t be much. But once you are qualified and a future CEO, or whatever, then you will have MUCH MORE to lose. Not only this, but I truly believe that dating and “finding yourself” will help you in the rest of life, not just romantically. In my early and mid 20’s I was a serial dater – even women I didn’t fancy, as I thought that LOGICALLY, I could still learn something. Interacting with others helped me to learn more of myself and now, at 31, I feel like an absolute power house with well defined personality boundaries. I know what I like and don’t like, I have established principles and belief system and it has an impact on EVERY part of my life. It also gave me the Inner Courage to stand up for my MGTOW belief system as you *will* get more hassle as you get older – why aren’t you married, etc. Build your “character” now, in your 20’s, as I believe 30+ is where the awesomeness of being a Man *really* picks up and I feel I am at my prime. But of course, feel free to disagree

 

No I think that very good logical sense in quite a good way and will happily admit I never thought about it like that in a bigger picture to be rather honest about it. I will happily admit I do have a lot of stuff left to experience in life but I figured it would be good to get another person view on the matter and will take it under good consideration.

– Casual Guy

[SMADParticipant 651]

CasualGuy227 wrote:

No I think that very good logical sense in quite a good way and will happily admit I never thought about it like that in a bigger picture to be rather honest about it.

This is why we are apart of a MGTOW community so that our wisdom is combined and shared =)

Marriage?  No thanks, i'm not ready to be THAT miserable.

[WrexgodParticipant 60]

Is it worth it…

No!

[Mango IngawayParticipant 2264]

I’m seriously thinking of going monk.
The more I see how women behave, the more I want to run away from this piece of s~~~ we dare call a civilization.
I still have sexual urges, sure, but I’d rather not dick the skanks we have around were I live, or more like the skanks we have everywhere, actually.
Female purity/beauty/whatever bs people call it is bulls~~~, feminism is bulls~~~, traditionalism is bulls~~~.
I’m outta here.

It is a common failing of childhood to think that if one makes a hero out of a demon the demon will be satisfied.

[FrankyParticipant 2338]

I’d say no but you shouldn’t really take people for their word.If you really want to ,try it for yourself. As long as you are aware that NAWALTs don’t exist you can’t be f~~~ed over that badly.

[BeerParticipant 11832]

Dating isn’t bad as long as you know what women are.  Don’t spend too much money on them, don’t be afraid to tell them no, and wrap your dick even if they swear to god they are on the pill.

[Anonymous 11]

I’d definitely date some before they hit The Wall and/or start having children. The dating scene gets worse the older you get. Just make sure you use our collective MGTOW wisdom in all of your interactions with them.

The second one starts trying to control or manipulate you get the hell away. Also, as CrazyCanuck mentioned stay the hell away from Borderlines even though the sex is off the charts crazy.

For myself, I don’t date anymore.

[WolfParticipant 890]

CasualGuy227 wrote:

Part of me things that perhaps I should go along with the whole idea mainly for some experience and see if I meet any new interesting people are worth meeting, but that being said another part of me is thinking that it will be a waste of time going along with this in total and that some of these women might just be looking for a free meal ticket.

They’re all looking for a meal ticket. They view men as financial utility. The key is to understand how they think and don’t fall into their traps. A lot of chicks will put on a front when first dating and actually be fun with lots of sex and BJs. Once they get their hooks in, that changes, and their true self surfaces.

My advice: date, but don’t take it seriously. And keep it short. It is possible to have some fun with dating.

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