Dating at 30?

[GrefParticipant 203]

I’ve heard some tidbits here and there about what the dating life is like for a man that is 30 years old. It intrigues me because doesn’t the SMV paradigm shift around that age? I’d really like to hear more from you who have been there.

What’s the dating world like as a single, no ties to any woman, earning a good living (60-80k?) , in great shape, and 30 years old?

I’m pretty sure that’s where I’ll be in 8 years, what should I expect?

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[FitzBonesParticipant 304]

Expect aged party-sluts looking to be a soccer mum who stays at home and lives off your largesse. Basically after 30 women start looking at having kids of their own; you might find a few professionals but expect them to judge you on what you earn and how you compare to them.
Dating isnt pretty at any age.

"If you can fill the unforgiving minute with sixty seconds' worth of distance run,"

[MerkParticipant 50]

From what I seen party sluts try to start looking for the “one”, their term not mine, at about 26-27. They generally start to behave better but when u hang out with them enough you see the slutty ways of her past. I turn 30 in a few months and dating was a thing of the past for at least two years now.  Wasted most of my twenties on girls who basically we’re wasting time until they WANT to settle down or get knocked up by some guy they date for two months. After the “wall” or whatever you want to call it woman remain the same until death I imagine…

My mother is in her fifties, still trying for the “one”. Not like she hasn’t had chances, she just stopped talking to a guy because he worked a part-time job…. That’s was it she said her type doesn’t need to work part time jobs…. she typically goes after the successful married lawyers she works for…. I try to stay out of business as it sickens me by what I see.

Woman use a lot of modern society as their hunting grounds… All these single mothers I seen at the community collage had no intention of going for themselves, just there to be in repeated situations with guys…. Stalking the victim if you will…. I had so many single mothers throwing themselves at me it wasn’t funny… Ones with boyfriends, pregnant ones, etc.

moral of the story: go your own way, but be prepared for the onslaught of vicious older woman. younger one have time to waste and know how make that benefit them. The older ones are impatient and have been around the block enough to know how to really f~~~ s~~~ up. ie lawsuits, disability for her work stress anxiety, etc….

[Zuberi TauParticipant 10606]

Expect constant irritation from beached whales and empty headed slut zombies who live off a steady diet of bourbon and c~~~.

 

 

[TheNinjaUWannaH8Participant 386]

Expect “Baby Rabies” from former “Fun Hoes” who are still in love with their “Super Saiyan Asshole” ex-BoyFiend(s) (ss) (sss+)

 

[…Spectator 1165]

A lot depends on what area you are in. In So Cal, you aren’t making jack in terms of cash. There are several late 20’s hens in my hood and all they are focused on is athletes and actors making over 1 mil a year. At 80k a year here you are barely able to buy dinner.

Sometimes going for an older bird works like for my friend Rex. He was hitting 30 last year and got a job at a swanky hotel. A 41 y o rich bitch took a liking to him. He went and spent the night at her place. He brought me the photos the next day. She was amazing looking, not an ounce of fat, brunette, solid as a rock, and loaded. He moved in with her and had a great run for about six months. He got to enjoy all the benefits of the great house and great dates she paid for plus she helped him clean up his bills. This was all thanks to the money she got when she f~~~ed over her husband of course. He’s now moved on to something fresher and is still having a blast.

[JimboParticipant 162]

Dude, most women at 30 have kids, psychotic, or have hit the wall if they are not taken by someone. You in your 30’s have just begun to hit your sexual value peak. Go after the ones in their 20s, just avoid getting forced into a relationship with them.

[Cap285Participant 6007]

Fuck this planet.

[GrefParticipant 203]

haha! Cap that was gold.

Jimbo:

You in your 30’s have just begun to hit your sexual value peak. Go after the ones in their 20s, just avoid getting forced into a relationship with them.

Hmm okay I’ll try and work with that. I’ve always looked 3-5 years younger than my actual age. At 30 I’ll have more experience and  $$$ so I can nab the 20 year olds from other 20 year old men easily, nice. I heard men don’t start to lose their vitality til around 45-50 while women start to decline at 30. I’m a gym rat and I plan to stay that way.

 

 

 

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[VileNordParticipant 766]

All these single mothers I seen at the community collage had no intention of going for themselves, just there to be in repeated situations with guys…. Stalking the victim if you will…. I had so many single mothers throwing themselves at me it wasn’t funny… Ones with boyfriends, pregnant ones, etc.

Haha! Merk, I had the exact same experience when I took a couple of classes at my local community college! I was 26, overweight, and a ginger. Once they found out I had a solid union job they couldn’t get enough of me. There were two women, each in a different class. One was a 20yo single mom with an infant, baby’s daddy joined the military and never looked back. The other was a 24yo with a husband. I had never been flirted with this much in my life and it made me raise an eyebrow. Good thing I wasn’t a desperate lonely man with delusions about women!

Lust for comfort suffocates the soul

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

I’d say that around 30 you’re going to experience a dip in your dating life for the following reason: When you’re young and horny, your criteria for what makes a female suitable for spending your time, energy and attention on is pretty simple. She looks good and she’s not too annoying. There are a lot of 18-26 year old females who meet that criteria. And if you’re a good looking fellow with some confidence and ability to talk to people, you’ll probably have plenty of them who are interested in you.

When you get to around 28-36, though, you start to realize that your time, energy and attention are worth a lot more than just hot and not too annoying. You start wanting females to be worthy of the value you’re bringing to the table by having some value of your own… so your standards go up and that cuts a lot of hot, dumb chicks out of your life. Furthermore, the hot young ones look at you and see an older guy and they think “If I’m going to give it up to an older guy, he’d better have a LOT to offer me.” At 28-36 you probably don’t yet.

But when you get to your late 30s and into your 40s, you realize there simply AREN’T any females that are worthy of your time and attention and now you’re willing to date the hot stupid ones again because you know how to control them and get rid of them when you’re done with them. Plus they see you as a man of wealth and taste (when you’re pulling down $150-300k / year) and are more willing to get with you because of what they think they can get from you. At that point, your options go back up again.

At least that’s been my experience.

[GrefParticipant 203]

They want that retirement fund!

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[James HunterParticipant 26]

Here’s the thing for me at least, if I’m 30 or older, `don’t have kids yet and/or am not married to my girl, ain’t no way I’m having kids. 30 is that age where sure you can still keep up with them while they grow up, but keeping up with a 15-17 year old in your late 40s? I have friends that were born after their parents were 30, they were the loosest kids I knew cause their parents gave them no restraints because they knew they wouldn’t be able to keep up.

[tsParticipant 109]

Here’s the thing for me at least, if I’m 30 or older, `don’t have kids yet and/or am not married to my girl, ain’t no way I’m having kids.

Well, until “your girl” suddenly decides to present you with accomplished facts. And even if it’s not your child, you will pay for it.

[JadedParticipant 27]

I’m 29, live in a big city, and it is the era of internet dating (Tinder, Plenty of Fish, jdate, etc …). You can order up a human on your phone basically whenever you want. A few good photos will get you dates with a countless number of cute girls. What happens from there is up to you. The only sure thing, is that you will be running through your money like it is nothing on drinks, cabs, dinners, shows etc … 10 years ago, this didn’t really exist in its current form. 10 years from now, who knows what the dating landscape will look like. If the MGTOW mindset continues to permeate through society, there may be a lot less of traditional dating in general.

[GrefParticipant 203]

ts said:

And even if it’s not your child, you will pay for it.

Only if you’re not smart enough to ask for a paternity test and let her put your name on the birth certificate for some other man’s spawn.

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[– Deleted on Request –Spectator 936]

30….. nearly half a lifetime ago for me…..

In my experience, when women get into their late 20s, they start considering themselves as reaching their expiry dates. They figure that once they hit 30, that’s it, almost like the renewal ceremony shown in the movie Logan’s Run (Unfortunately, most of the ones I knew who were that age didn’t look near as good as Jenny Agutter!)

I once dated a GP who had just finished her studies. She was in her late 20s and a nice enough kid but she was largely interested in looking for a husband. Her ancestral culture dictated that 30 was the critical age. However, there were other reasons I broke it off but we remained on good terms afterward. In fact, I attended her wedding.

Then there was the foreign grad student I knew while I was working on my Ph. D. I wasn’t sure why she started flirting with me, but it did occur to me that she might have wanted me to provide her with an anchor baby. Then there was her cultural background which, like the physician, made 30 her deadline. She eventually shacked up with and later married someone from her home country.

Several years ago, one of the janitors in my apartment building lived across the hall from me. She, too, tried to get my attention but she eventually moved elsewhere in the building. I didn’t see her for several months. When our paths crossed again, I noticed that she looked like she was well into her second trimester. The reason for her interest in me is now old enough to be in kindergarten. Again, she was in her late 20s, possibly early 30s. She now lives and works in an adjacent apartment complex owned by the same company and, as far as I know, there’s no permanent sperm bank in her live (otherwise known as husband or live-in boyfriend).

The common factor here is age and a “hello, sucker” attitude. Nice, huh?

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