"Dad will find the money"

[LionOnTheLooseParticipant 1315]

Why are so many women so hopeless with money today?

There was a phrase which often got used in my ex wife’s family when she or her mother wanted something new and expensive (as they invariably did): “dad will find the money”. (Referring to my ex wife’s dad.) Even in my blue pill days, it always part-amused, part-baffled me: where on earth did he find the money? Down the back of the sofa? Metal detecting? Start drilling in the garden and hope to strike oil? I subsequently found out: depleting savings, credit cards, unsecured loans, remortgaging the house.

I wondered how on earth the women of the family could have such an infantile attitude towards spending. Did they not know what it meant to budget for something? Did they not realise that “we can’t afford that” doesn’t mean “keep pestering me and in the end I’ll let you have it”, it means “no, we f~~~ing can’t afford that so we’re not buying it unless you go without something else”.

It’s a good example of how irresponsible women can be with money: relying on men to pay for things, used to nagging them for stuff, not living within their means. Women don’t have to be like this: my grandmother was amazing with money, super frugal and kept beautiful handwritten accounts for her and my grandpa’s household right through until she was in her 90s. So I refuse to accept that women are intrinsically bad with money. And I think our consumerist society deserves some of the blame.

If I had a daughter, one of my big priorities would be to teach her the basics of money: how to live within your means, how to do an income statement, income vs. capital, the problems with debt, rudimentary stuff. A Saturday job also helps, I think. So many women seem not to have a clue about money, are up to their eyeb~~~~ in unsecured debt and waiting for another “dad” to “find the money” at some point.

Thank God I gave that woman the boot. I now live blissfully debt free and no woman is ever going to be asking me to “find money” by magically pulling it out of my arse.

There aren't holes in your pockets. It's called marriage.

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22514]

Girls are not raised to be personally responsible for themselves. This is the core problem. No one trains them to be a functioning personally responsible adult. They see mom and other women in shows, movies and online manipulating and blackmailing men to get what they want and believe this is what a “strong and independent woman” is. It also assuages their rationalization hamster that allows them to disconnect from their complete dependency on men either through marriage husbanks or ex’s via alimony/chld support, or gynosocial programs paid for by men, and indirect tax money from men.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[TheSpiceParticipant 2644]

Blue pilled simps give away EVERYTHING for the pussy.

The funny part is that they’ll often hide all the crazy things they’re doing from the wife. They’ll empty their savings, re-mortgage the house, take out loans, empty the 401k, etc. all in secret.

Then, one day, the house of cards comes tumbling down and everyone is SHOCKED that a median wage earner couldn’t support the lifestyles of the rich & famous.

Well, duh. I don’t feel sorry for the women or men in that situation.

"I've been thinking about what it would be like if we got back together."
"You know it's too late for that."

[Anonymous 38]

Now that social media showcases all the highlights of cupcake’s friends’ lives, she has to have it all or she’s ‘not happy’.

[Anonymous 3]

My money is mine. I do with it what I want.
I live debt free also & that took some doing & I won’t fall into the debt trap again.
I like what MGTOW Taoist said.
Stick with the winners.
Stick with MGTOW

[TheSpiceParticipant 2644]

Anonymous wrote:

Now that social media showcases all the highlights of cupcake’s friends’ lives, she has to have it all or she’s ‘not happy’.

This has definitely exacerbated the problem, no doubt.

"I've been thinking about what it would be like if we got back together."
"You know it's too late for that."

[Anonymous 38]

This is so true though.

As a father your worth is primarily on what you provide. There is no way around it.

Wives and daughters will NOT respect a man who doesn’t provide them with a vast array of goods including houses, cars, house deposits. Your value as a human being and your happiness barely comes into it.

You spend a lifetime working to provide for women who only value you for as long as you’re providing. Chances are your wife will divorce you and your daughter will continue to sponge off you until you can be put in a home until you die, as a thank you for all your service. What a way to live a life.

I only know a couple of women who’ve provided things for themselves through frugal living and saving. Every single other one has had cars, car insurance, house deposits etc paid for by their parents (fathers).

Boys do not get the same.

MGTOW BACHELOR FOR LIFE (no marriage, no kids).

[Anonymous 12]

After being on Sugar Baby sites it is amusing to see these women try and make money. For a start they spend a huge amount on trying to make themselves better than what they are. This is ridiculous in itself. Strippers also spend very quickly because the money is plentiful and easy to come by.

And for the small percentage of women not involved in the sex trade they just don’t care because they think there will be a man somewhere along the line to take care of them. Sadly, they are right. At least in the short term.

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