Cut the crap from your life

[Silverstone the SecondParticipant]

Had a female acquaintance from my life overstep her bounds. I hesitate to call her a friend, because women use men for something, so I wouldn’t call that a friendship any more than I would call a master and slave relationship a friendship.

Anyway, I’ve slowly been trying to distance myself from her, as she always asks for money and my help without offering so much as a thank you, or anything. She can feel I’m trying to distance myself, so she’s trying to dig her claws back in by trying to get me to come over more, always asking me to text and “check in” but she won’t text and “check in” to see how I’m doing. It’s like she’s telling me to text and ask her if there’s anything I can do to help her, which I won’t do because I’m not her slave.

Anyway, she tries to spin it like I’m the bad guy for not coming over. Her computer broke, and she asked me to come over, didn’t tell me what it was about, I thought maybe there was a death in the family. When I get there, nothing’s wrong, she just wanted me over to emotional tampon me.

So, I leave, and she says “You don’t have to rush off”. Except after a 16 hour work day, the last thing I want to do is listen to your problems, and I have to be up in 4 hours to pull another 12 so no, I can’t f~~~ing sit around all night and have to talk at me about your problems, especially of a woman that doesn’t work, and has everything given to her.

She used that “you don’t have to rush off” bulls~~~ before. It’s usually when I tell her I have to go, after she stares at her phone for 10 f~~~ing minutes and holding a half baked talk. I’m trying to keep the conversation going, and she’s not even paying attention. So, when my company isn’t entertaining enough for you princess, then yes I DO HAVE TO RUSH OFF. Texting and being on your phone for a good 10 f~~~ing minutes while I’m over here trying to talk to your ass is not going to make me come over more. And she always wants me to come over more.

So I cut her ass out of my life. I told her I have to be at work early, so I’m not gonna sit here and listen to you bitch. I calmly got up and left. When I got home, her mangina boyfriend sent me a passive aggressive text, talking about how “Didn’t mean to inconvenience you”

Making it look like I’m some selfish ass hole, while they are all self centered, wanting me to give give give my time, effort, energy and money to entertain them while they can’t even muster enough conviction to speak with me for 10 minutes.

Sorry for the long winded story, but the moral of the story is cut that crap out of your life. They will drag you down and leave you even if you aren’t dating them. What’s worse is her pathetic mangina boyfriend that doesn’t even work a job regularly, so I was in effect supporting their ass. No more. F~~~ off.

Feminism is a movement where opinions are presented as facts and emotions are presented as evidence.

[BoarParticipant]

Some bridges were meant for burning….

Untamed wrote: Quit complaining and Go Your Own Way in whatever manner suits you best.

[Mr. SpockParticipant 10917]

I would’ve texted the boyfriend back and said “Didn’t mean to do your job for you.”
Why should you play the part of a boyfriend without the perks?

Feminism isn't about equality with men, it's about leverage over men.

[AnthonyParticipant 2281]

I don’t have any female “friends” for reasons like these. The only reason they keep men around who aren’t their Chad Thunderc~~~s, is to take their resources, time, or attention away from them.

You can never truly be friends with a woman because they’re always using you for something.

Once you have a Fleshlight real vaginas become worthless.

[Anonymous 18]

Silverstone the Second wrote:

her mangina boyfriend

‘Nuff said, bro. Let him be the tampon and do s~~~ for her. I was hoping she was sorta polishing your knob but no. So yea a no-brainer.

[GrumpyParticipant]

Anthony wrote:

I don’t have any female “friends” for reasons like these.

Every friendship I have is reciprocal. There has always been the silent acknowledgement of the “you scratch my back, I’ll scratch your back” mentality. Every little bit of “assistance’ I put out for friends has been because it pleases ME to help them, not because they demand it without recompense, or use guilt.

There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

[The_Mad_PirateParticipant 1278]

You made the right choice. There is no reason why you should put up with that crap. Now, expect her to go into backstabbing bitch mode once she realizes you are no longer her slave. She will try to ruin your reputation by whatever means possible.

"We didn't start the fire. It was always burning. Since the world's been turning" "A world that vilifies men only breeds a generation of men that feel no empathy towards women" “In a woman’s mind , there is really no such thing as a ‘we’. In her eyes, earth allways revolves around her, not the other way around. So thinking that your needs , aspirations or desires are valid enough to be persued, or even that you are entitled achive such goals, is like asking your boss for a pay rise in your very first day at the job.”

[Mr. ManParticipant 2916]

I like that, “Cut the crap from your life.” Simple as that. Buh-bye.

Good work!

[DarkRyuParticipant 2354]

Stay the F~~~ away from women. Every time you interact with one, it’s just another potential problem. Now you tell me she has a f~~~ing boyfriend? Even if you’re not f~~~ing her, he’ll think you are. Or you’ll p~~~ her off one day and she’ll cry rape on you to her boyfriend (not to mention the cops).

I have never once in my life met a woman that was worth spending time with. They’re all shallow, stupid creatures that want to do nothing but extract your time and resources. Even if they’re not holding their smartphones, they still can’t have an intelligent conversation.

To be honest, I put women in another category altogether. I don’t see women as “people” any more than I consider a tree or a drinking straw to be a person. They’re a thing. A thing to be avoided. MEN are real people. They’re genuine and are capable of true kindness. They have emotions, but aren’t emotional basket-cases. They are REAL.

[rorickParticipant 682]

If not for sex, I wouldn’t recommend keeping a woman near you or even interact with them. They are f~~~ing creatures that leaches your time, energy and resources in order for them to live.

So please f~~~ing stay away from them, limit your conversation with women as little as possible and see the peace of mind you’d get from it.

[STORMParticipant 738]

DarkRyu wrote:

Stay the F~~~ away from women. Every time you interact with one, it’s just another potential problem. Now you tell me she has a f~~~ing boyfriend? Even if you’re not f~~~ing her, he’ll think you are. Or you’ll p~~~ her off one day and she’ll cry rape on you to her boyfriend (not to mention the cops).

I have never once in my life met a woman that was worth spending time with. They’re all shallow, stupid creatures that want to do nothing but extract your time and resources. Even if they’re not holding their smartphones, they still can’t have an intelligent conversation.

To be honest, I put women in another category altogether. I don’t see women as “people” any more than I consider a tree or a drinking straw to be a person. They’re a thing. A thing to be avoided. MEN are real people. They’re genuine and are capable of true kindness. They have emotions, but aren’t emotional basket-cases. They are REAL.

Indeed, I only respond to a female if i have to at work. I try to not look at them, not aknowledge them, and if i talk to them at all, i keep it strictly work related, and quickly walk away. It always reminds me of being in the same room with someone who has the flu, i want to get away from them as soon as possible, before they infect me with their illness.

If we listen to a female at all, It's no longer to find out if they're crazy, we know they're crazy, It's to find out what flavor.

[RhinoParticipant 3477]

You did good buy cutting the bitch out of your life. Next is anyone else that is negative and doing the same thing including guys. Get rid of all of them and start over if you have to that is the only way you will take back your life and feel good about yourself.

You’re the plane fly free.

[MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To GiveParticipant 6635]

If your not f~~~ing her she has no purpose,Go Your Own Way…

Never lose sight of what brought you here.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

You already know it’s time to start making “NO” you’re new favorite word. and turn off the tap to the consent flow of attention she needs.

“You don’t need to rush off” is an insane statement. That’s like Obi Wan Kenobi in Star Wars projecting “You don’t need to see his identification”. It’s a cheap Jedi mind trick.

When a woman tells you anything about YOU — and she doesn’t phrase it like a question — tell her if she has any questions, she may ASK. She can ask you to stay a little longer “won’t you stay a little longer?”, but saying “you don’t need to run off” is reason enough to high-tail it out of there.

Is she holding you prisoner? You’re not “running off”… you have just decided to leave. The only acceptable (and polite) way to get you to stay is to ASK or offer an incentive. Anything else is rude.

Does she ask or care what you need?
Then she’s not in a position to tell you what you DON’T need.

All she cares about is herself.

Silverstone the Second wrote:

Except after a 16 hour work day, the last thing I want to do is listen to your problems, and I have to be up in 4 hours to pull another 12 so no, I can’t f~~~ing sit around all night and have to talk at me about your problems, especially of a woman that doesn’t work, and has everything given to her.

No justifying or explaining. Just “no”. Or even a silent smile like you know her angle and it’s not working.

Silverstone the Second wrote:

always asking me to text and “check in” but she won’t text and “check in” to see how I’m doing

“Checking in” is the one thing I refused to do. Even when she lived with me. I once left my own place to go wash the car on a Sunday afternoon without making a grand overture, when I got back 2 hours later, she actually had the nerve to be MAD AT ME. Because I didn’t tell her where I was going. Like I need a f~~~ing permission slip to leave my own place.

“GET THE F~~~ OUT OF MY LIFE” is the only response to that.

Silverstone the Second wrote:

Anyway, she tries to spin it like I’m the bad guy for not coming over.

So?

When in the history of f~~~ did the “nice guy” ever get rewarded or respected? Have the b~~~~ to let a woman think of you as “the bad guy”, and wear that badge with pride.

Silverstone the Second wrote:

So I cut her ass out of my life. I told her I have to be at work early, so I’m not gonna sit here and listen to you bitch. I calmly got up and left. When I got home, her mangina boyfriend sent me a passive aggressive text, talking about how “Didn’t mean to inconvenience you”

Making it look like I’m some selfish ass hole, while they are all self centered, wanting me to give give give my time, effort, energy and money to entertain them while they can’t even muster enough conviction to speak with me for 10 minutes.

I know a couple exactly like you describe. They only contact me when they NEED something.

Silverstone the Second wrote:

Making it look like I’m some selfish asshole

When you don’t permit others to treat you like a disposable utility and demonstrate any iota of self-respect/esteem, you will be regarded as an “asshole”. Enjoy it.

Self-esteem and self-respect are called that for a reason.
Because they come from yourself. Nobody else will give it to you.

When you’re a man with those things, people aren’t going to “like” you.
But you will like yourself a WHOLE lot more.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Dirtydog73Participant 232]

Doing it now.After going trough the emotional ringer ….having to sort out all the finances and even then look to be losing almost everything,I am cutting the crap that was a succubus out of my life.
I still have some s~~~ to deal with regarding her ,as we have two sons (20 & 14) that I need to consider.
Walking away from the drama and the crap hasn’t been easy after a 21 year relationship with her…..but within a couple of weeks of ending it ,she has found herself a new bloke to start sucking dry already.She is currently at his house,asking him if he wants to play “house”with her, and riding the c~~~ carousel,so she can get her own place setup and be able to take on the responsibility of looking after our two dogs,and our sons who will need somewhere to live.
The bloke is 29 , she is 44 ,and he is a beer swilling loser at best.He is welcome to her and all her s~~~ ,I am trying to get out as clean and with as much as possible at this stage.It wont be much as I currently dont have a job (looking hard tho) , so will lose the 2 cars I have been paying off,My Harley which i only got 6 months ago,and half the furniture ,plus splitting whatever profit we make on the sale of the house.
He can have the blue pill of doom ,I will walk away knowing I provided for my 2 sons in every way possible ,while she sat and drank ….and eventually decided I wasn’t good enough for her any more.
I will pay child support , but the funniest thing will be finding out if he is willing to step up and support her ,or if its just a fling that has allowed him to get some old tired pussy and for her to be able to relive her youth .AWALT. Either way ,she is getting the bad end of the deal I reckon.
Go get em Chad Thunderc~~~.
If it works out ,and lasts ,she will be 50 in 5 years and he will be 34.

Fed, Fucked, Appreciated. The three simple things men want, but women will never grasp.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Dirtydog73 wrote:

The bloke is 29 , she is 44

Dirtydog73 wrote:

she will be 50 in 5 years and he will be 34.

…. and when he’s 34, he’ll be dating 21 year olds.
She may be laughing now, but tick tock, tick tock.

Good for you for getting out while she’s distracted.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

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