Cuckold Your Husband: The Raw Marriage Deal For Men

[RealityBitesParticipant 2198]

from: http://dailycaller.com/2016/05/27/cuckold-your-husband-the-raw-marriage-deal-for-men/

Marriage is in decline throughout the West, so should we be surprised cuckolding your husband is now just a thing a woman might have to do?

New York magazine’s “Beta Male” fully lived up to its pegged name Thursday when it released an article entitled, “Women Are Now Cheating As Much As Men, But With Fewer Consequences.” The piece, written by a woman, aims to answer the question as to why this phenomenon is occurring in the most sympathetic light possible.

The takeaway from this article is that men, upon entering marriage, should be fully ready for the chance that if they fail to satisfy their wives, she will cheat, and there’s nothing wrong with that.

The article begins with a light-hearted anecdote about how multiple women in a New England soccer mom circle have cheated on their husbands, before mentioning the “milestone in the march towards equality” in that women are now having as many extramarital affairs as men. The writer, Alyssa Giacobbo, offers a variety of factors for this development — ranging from more female breadwinners and the prevalence of the internet — before reaching what she believes is the primary culprit: women wanting to “have it all” and feeling deflated at not attaining it.

“Women now are more aware of the alternatives to monogamy and more inclined to demand to have all their needs met,” anthropologist Helen Fisher told New York. “That’s because happiness is such an important part of marriage. Fewer women are marrying out of need; instead, they’re marrying to please themselves. But that also means when they’re dissatisfied with something they feel justified to go elsewhere.”

A self-described relationships expert says in the article this dissatisfaction is a result of the increasingly egalitarian nature of marriage, with all the sharing of chores and such. The familiarity with the husband breeds boredom and a desire for something more “spontaneous.”

So that desire is answered by the wife with late night rendezvous with the boss, according to the horrifying stories Giacobbo recounts.

One 41-year-old Brooklynite began sleeping with a co-worker she thought more her professional equal after eight years of marriage and a child with her “low-earning husband.” “A healthy attraction to a person does demand you have a little bit of intrigue and imbalance, which in male-female-empowered relationships is not a priority,” the woman admitted to NY mag, essentially saying the progressive ideal of equal marriage is bland. “A lot of women I know stick with [the empowered relationship] and suffer through it even as they have that fantasy of being with someone who is their equal, or even their superior.”

But the suffering, according to Giacobbo, is now the “man’s job.”

According to the experts consulted by the article, the cuckold is desperate to try to make things work out after finding out about his partner’s infidelity. The examples given by the article of men clinging to their two-timing wives are, like the previous anecdotes, males of an inferior status to their wives.

One man knows his wife is sleeping with the neighborhood “douche bag” while he does the menial tasks of cleaning the cages of the family’s bunny. He’s staying with her because he hopes it’s just a phase.

The “fewer consequences” part in the title comes with the woman facing hardly any backlash from her peers. Most women report that their friends are fine with their cheating and understand it’s just something that must be done in order to achieve full happiness. This contrasts to the social opprobrium that men would face if caught cheating.

The takeaway from this article is that men, upon entering marriage, should be fully ready for the chance that if they fail to satisfy their wives, she will cheat, and there’s nothing wrong with that.

And we wonder why young men are retreating from marriage like the plague.

A minor controversy erupted this month when the popular conservative education service Prager University published a video arguing for why men should marry. The presenter, University of Virginia professor W. Bradford Wilcox, offered numerous reasons for why males should settle down, including benefits to health and to economic security.

However, many viewers disagreed with Wilcox’s assessment and barraged the scholar with hundreds of angry comments. Wilcox wrote a piece about the experience and the responses he received, many of which stated men didn’t want to commit because they felt it was “emasculating.” Modern marriage, to the critics, amounts to giving a woman power over you and your income.

The professor interpreted the backlash as an indicator of how the divorce revolution has turned a disturbing number of young men into women haters and marriage despisers. He believes men are fearful of marriage because they could lose their children and possessions in no-fault divorce cases.

The devastation of marital separations has driven some men to reject the values a good marriage requires, like sacrifice, commitment and love. Additionally, Wilcox castigates an increasing number of men for falling prey to “Peter Pan syndrome” in withdrawing from adult responsibilities and trying to live a care-free life.

The perspective expressed here is the predominant conservative view of marriage madness. A deadly combination of liberal divorce laws, a changing culture and a rising tide of man-boys have put the sacred union for procreation at jeopardy. While knowing that it’s incredibly difficult to change long-standing laws and deeply-ingrained cultural norms, conservatives have encouraged a thriving genre of literature of shaming young men to “grow up” and marry.

The assumption in this advisory genre is that there are tons of good, wholesome young ladies who are 100 percent imbued with the necessary marital values, but there’s too many men who won’t put down the video games to commit. Thus, it’s up to the men to follow the manly call, sacrifice themselves before their Cinderella and help with the dishes and laundry in a masculine manner.

The gist of the argument is that while modern marriage may be flawed, it’s the man’s duty to accept it and make it work to the best of his ability.

The New York mag piece puts a different light on the issue. Rather than scores of women anxiously waiting around to be dutiful wives if only those man-boys put down their iPhones, we have a narrative of women expecting “it all” out of a marriage and reality not meeting expectations. They’re taught to believe they want an egalitarian marriage, yet they dump their nice husband who does the laundry for the alpha gym instructor who’s never done laundry in his life.

There was some very politically incorrect nuggets of truth buried between the lines in the “Beta Male” installment, whether its writer realized it or not. Rather than serving as an objective account of a social trend, it turns into an indictment of the modern marriage ideal. It’s nigh impossible for the super-empowered woman to be satisfied by her feminist husband, and to the man, the pairing encouraged by the upper-middle class is one hell of a raw deal.

More so than a divorce, there’s nothing more humiliating for a man to be cuckolded. It’s only worse when that affair was encouraged by your wife’s social group and condoned as a necessary act by social elites.

There’s not one, absolute reason for why marriage as an institution is struggling at the moment. There’s multiple factors. But the phenomenon of rising female infidelity shows that the new marriage seems like a terrible idea for all involved, and a return to traditional, imbalanced pairings may be a better model.

Either way, we can only hope NY doesn’t promote allowing your wife to cheat on you for the sake of your marriage…

Never mind, the publication already published that piece.

[Truthseeker82Participant 6406]

Nothing surprises me about this article. AWALT. The only difference now as opposed to a 100 years ago is there is no stigma in their perfidy any longer. They are free to have their cake (SIMP husband) and eat it (Chad T) too.
Men should stop giving in to this behavior and ignore them. If prostitution was legal – the marriage (and divorce) industry would go bankrupt.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

Why do I find it funny that men are shamed for wanting a stress free and care free life? And that’s a bad thing compared to being a cuck and ending up divorced?

If I gave you a pizza and a pile of s~~~ and told you that you could have one of them for dinner, which would you choose?

Women have turned marriage into a pile of s~~~ and now people wonder why a guy chooses the pizza.

Seriously, how does anyone write an article wondering why guys don’t want to get married when the same article makes the case for why it’s ok for your partner to cheat on you? Common sense doesn’t seem so common anymore.

Order the good wine

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

It has never been clearer, Men should never marry.

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[Anonymous 11]

If some c~~~ ever tried to cuck me, I’d punt her back into next week.

“Women now are more aware of the alternatives to monogamy and more inclined to demand to have all their needs met”

Exotic and antibiotic resistant STDs are alternatives to boring old monogamy too. Yet, they’re proud of getting STDs. How exactly do you meet a woman’s needs? Chad seems to have figured it out quite well.

the cuckold is desperate to try to make things work out after finding out about his partner’s infidelity.

There is nothing more pathetic than a begging beta cuck. I’m sure c~~~ and Chad have a hearty laugh at his expense.

F~~~ marriage. F~~~ relationships. F~~~ all these damn selfish c~~~s.

ME, ME, ME, ME, ME, ME, ME, ME, ME, ME, ME, ME, ME, ME, ME, ME, ME, ME, ME, ME, ME, ME, ME, ME, ME, ME, ME, ME, ME, ME, ME, ME, ME, ME, ME, ME, ME, ME, ME, ME, ME, ME, ME, ME, ME, ME, ME, ME, ME, ME, ME, ME, ME, ME, ME……

[RedpillPrimateParticipant 1026]

Marriage is for gays and women. It’s a prison for straight men.

F~~~ marriage.

[globemasterParticipant 443]

There is nothing new in the article, this is going on for ages.

But the only difference is in no part of history, something like this can be circulated. If done in feudal age the writer would have been burnt. Now you can publish such dark truths and also encourage and spread the rot.

[anonymousyamParticipant 4605]

So let me get this straight women can cuck a man and it is promoted since the man was clearly the wrong one in the situation but if a man cucks a woman the man is evil while the woman is the victim? I wonder how women would react if one of the husbands who got cheated on found out then took a bat to the cheating bitch?

Because if i was to get married and then i got cheated on i would take a bat to the bitch then afterwards i would kick her ass out of the house giving her no forgiveness and start a new life after i get out of prison in south america.

Just an east coast asshole who likes to curse, If you get offended by words like fuck, cunt, shit, piss, bitch or any racial slurs then you just scroll down.

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

Marry betas, and f~~~ing bad boys. It’s tough life for c~~~s.

Cuckold are bunch of f~~s.

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

[Anonymous 1]

An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure.

Don’t get married.

I guess I just don’t care who’s getting cucked and who’s getting f~~~ed.

Gone fishing.

[Mr. SpockParticipant 10911]

In regards to the “Peter Pan syndrome”, refusing to marry does not mean that you are withdrawing from the adult responsibilities of life. Lately the feminists have been equating a man’s reluctance to marry as just that. In my opinion, having a job and performing a productive function in society, paying bills, meeting my obligations, treating people with respect, honor and dignity are what my “adult responsibilities” entail. I believe that every member of this forum meets or exceeds that. Putting your children, property and income at risk for someone who treats you like a utility is not a part of my “adult responsibilities”. Been there done that.

Feminism isn't about equality with men, it's about leverage over men.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

There’s not one, absolute reason for why marriage as an institution is struggling at the moment.

Wrong. Marriage isn’t “struggling”. Marriage dead. Over. Done. Finished. And their last minute infusion of gay blood into the institution hasn’t saved it.

a return to traditional, imbalanced pairings may be a better model.

Imbalanced? Hardly. This author is a moron preaching feminist doublespeak. The complementary responsibilities of old school marriage was the essence of balance. Compare that to the new feminists version of marriage where the woman has all the rights and the man has all the responsibilities. That’s imbalanced as all f~~~.

[Anonymous 1]

sidecar wrote:

And their last minute infusion of gay blood into the institution hasn’t saved it

Very true. Never realised what that was about. Makes a lot of sense.

[EtrangereParticipant 706]

Marriage is for gays and women. It’s a prison for straight men.

F~~~ marriage.

Well said brother

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Anonymous wrote:

Very true. Never realised what that was about. Makes a lot of sense.

Bar associations are the largest advocates for gay marriage. They need it to pump gay divorce money into the pockets of divorce lawyers now that their heterosexual divorce income stream is drying up. This is also why they advocate common law and civil union divorce legislation. Gotta keep those divorce lawyers in cake and caviar after all.

[Buller100Participant 2189]

I was at a wedding on Friday, the first one I attended since seeing the light, I was laughing to myself and thinking what a fool the man was .

It’s just training , being told it’s what one must do.

Why a man would marry I can’t see now, the cats out of the bag the game is up.

[Max PowerParticipant 2721]

“He believes men are fearful of marriage because they could lose their children and possessions in no-fault divorce cases.”

No s~~~? Ya think?

Wow this professor guy is a f~~~in’genius!

[Maraudrz1Participant 2250]

The Prager U. is full of fools They are blind as well stupid. If they see the facts and still think men should marry then what can you say? Man-boys! how ridiculous. Just because most men can see that marriage is a very bad thing and choose to stay with their parents or play video games or whatever their joy in life is doesn’t make them boys. smh

Women's brains and vagina have one thing in common. There is nothing in there until a man puts something in there.

[MgtowWaveParticipant 4352]

Avoid trouble by not getting married.

Simple.

frankly my dear i don't give a damn

[Dr. SableParticipant 1064]

I do not speak for all MGTOW’s but I do think majority would say the entire article is nothing less
than a pile of horse s~~~.
But the worst of it is in just one sentence below.

RealityBites wrote:

The takeaway from this article is that men, upon entering marriage, should be fully ready for the chance that if they fail to satisfy their wives, she will cheat, and there’s nothing wrong with that.

Failing to satisfy their wives can be any one of a thousand reasons she may think of on any given day.
And there is nothing wrong with that meaning no moral, legal or ethical barriers to stop her.

Zero Tolerance

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