Crazy woman at the bar, must read about blue pillers!

[Johnny84Participant 192]

So, I was at the bar tonight with a female friend that is 110% plutonic. She’s a metalhead like myself and her boyfriend and I are friends. Tonight her boyfriend was at work, so it was just us having a few beers and hanging out. Well, this other girl comes into the bar, and starts fighting with her boyfriend (whom my female friend knew). They argued for a long time, were very loud. Next thing I know, this girl is punching her boyfriend (again, my female friend’s buddy) in the face. My female friend, the bar tender walk up and told her to leave, to gtfo. She does, but then stares through the window at her poor boyfriend she had been physically attacking. I laugh, and say “I got this” and closed the blinds on her (which really p~~~ed her off, lol). But then she comes back with some other ghetto looking guy who looks like your typical Chad. She comes back, starts again yelling at her boyfriend. There are no bouncers in this bar, and this chick smacks of crazy. So again, she is told to leave. She does. But waits outside. The female bartender is anxious and asks me to go outside and ask her to leave. I do so, and I’m pretty nice. I say to her: “The bartender doesn’t feel safe with you outside, she’s asking you to completely leave the premises.” So, she then starts cussing at me, calling me a ‘pussy’ and asks me what I am going to do about it. She then lays her hands on me about 4 times, pushing me, pushing me, pushing me. So, realizing this girl is looking for trouble, and she won’t leave, I inform the bartender. My female friend goes outside to ask this girl to leave. And here’s what happens… I of course walked out with her. This girl’s Chad is sitting there by her side, trying to get her to come home with him. My female friend asks her to leave and then she flat out punches my friend in the face. Now regardless of gender, I don’t let people just hit my friends. I step in, and she pushes me and I pushed her back. She then comes up, and starts swinging at me. I then defend myself, while taking about 9 punches to the face. Then, I decided the only way to get her to stop attacking me is to get her on the ground, so I hiptossed her. Then we went inside. Think she fell pretty good on the hiptoss and I think that it sobered her up. During this whole altercation, her Chad was nowhere to be found. He was standing back like “OH S~~~!”. Crazy. These guys will act, dress and talk hard but not even defend the woman they’re trying to sleep with lol. The bar refused to call police on this girl because they didn’t want any added nonsense. None the less, after it all cooled down, the girl was still outside crying. I asked her if she was OK from the hiptoss and she said she was fine, and she was actually polite to me (how about that?). She apologized for hitting me and I apologized for hiptossing her ass. lol. She ended up going home with one of her now ex boyfriend’s friends, safe and sound. But the point is this: Chad’s are betas. They aren’t real alpha males. That guy was backing down every second. Crazy. Maybe the fall of society is because women aren’t being with the true alpha males, they’re instead going after beta’s who are alpha imposters (aka Chad).
Interesting thought. But the lack of good genetics (aka actual alpha males) could be another reason more men are becoming feminized. Normally I’d never put myself in that situation, but me being friends with the bartender and my other friend, did what I had to: defend my friends.
And before you ask: No, I’m not in any kind of trouble. The camera clearly shown the girl attacking me for about 10 shots to my face before I put her on the ground. And of course, I had my female friend there as a witness. She was also punched, and attacked as well. That girl actually got a good shot on her face.
Needless to say, I’m glad I was there, if I wasn’t who knows what may have happened. Would have been much worse I am sure. But the punch line to this whole story is:
Are Chad’s really alpha, or are they beta’s pretending to be alpha?
From what I witnessed tonight, I’d say beta. Alpha’s will defend themselves, and their friends. They never impede on anyone and simply do the best they can to survive.
I know I may get lectured for going outside, but I was the only male there and they were genuinely fearful of this girl. And to be honest, we all know how violent women can be. So I decided it would be best for me to help them. I don’t generally make a habit of putting myself in harms way, but if you were there and saw the circumstances, you’d probably see why I had done what I did.
It could have been so much worse if I wasn’t there, someone could have really been hurt by this woman. Or she could have ended up really hurt. But thankfully, the only injuries anyone suffered is a sore jaw (me) and a few scrapes (her) lol.

[MonkParticipant 16995]

It’s awkward, given that it’s a friend and you understandably want to do the decent thing.

It would perhaps have been better to have stayed inside and told the bartender to call the cops. If she won’t, you will. It’s a disturbance in the street, so no problem.

The c~~~ knows who you are (or can easily find out), so all she now has to do is make THAT phone call, or get a no-win, no-fee asshole lawyer.

Regardless of any camera footage or witnesses (these tend to fade away when they are most needed), it could easily go bad.

Her White Knight/would-be Chad could have turned out to be a much tougher proposition. Then two men would have ended up in jail (or the Emergency Room), while some skank walks away, smirking.

[bstoffParticipant 4865]

Women, especially drunk women, have a keen habit of creating lots of trouble where none is necessary.

Reverse the gender in the story you wrote and it become a horrible story of an abusive BOYfriend beating up on his girlfriend inside the bar.
HOLY S~~~! Kill that f~~~ing bastard!
Right?

But it’s just some drunk chick beating and humiliating her boyfriend, so it’s NFG in the bar.

I think you did the right thing throughout the story.
Glad the bitch came to her senses after being put down by you.

Cool story, bro.

[JB BooksParticipant 3182]

Not saying you were wrong, but consider… My sponsor (a spiritual advisor) once told me that 90 percent of the stuff I think about is none of my business.

We just don't realize life's most significant events while they're happening. Back then, I thought, "Well, there'll be other days". I didn't realize that that was the only day. - "Moonlight" Graham

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Johnny84 wrote:

These guys will act, dress and talk hard but not even defend the woman they’re trying to sleep with lol.

If he’s a bona fide Chad, she’s not the women he’s trying to sleep with. He’s sleeping with her. And probably a half dozen other women as well. So why should he risk anything for this particular woman? She fails a risk / benefit analysis. If he loses her, so what? He already has plenty of spares.

alpha

That word doesn’t apply to humans. We have different social structures.

[Anonymous 3]

It seems to me from the way you presented the story you just did what needed to be done. I will say it was risky business. It didn’t have to turn out as well as it did.
I looked up alpha, beta,omega,sigma,zeta to try & get a handle on these designations for males. In my estimation its all s~~~ done by the SJW world.
As has all ready been said it really doesn’t apply. We have different structures.
I chose my icon b/c its perfect for a ghost. A happy, half-crazy,old coot who really doesn’t give a f~~~ what anybody thinks about him.
Frankly,years ago I would call what you did a fun evening.Just b a little careful where you put your male energy,but I think you did well

[joetechParticipant]

Why didn’t the bartender just dial 911? Let the cops handle the crazy ones. It will set an example to the other crazies.

"Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

[John Woods 13Participant 2855]

JB Books wrote:

…90 percent of the stuff I think about is none of my business.

This^^^

The bartender should have called the police.

Your female friend should not have intervened for her battered male friend.

You should not have intervened for the female friend who intervened for the male friend.

What if Chad was high and pulled a knife?

Are you willing to die or go to jail for the blue pill friend of the girlfriend of your friend? Quite a mouthful…

If that bitch in in a bar having beers with you when her boyfriend is at work, he should immediately dump her ass.

The answer is NO. “I could but I won’t”. Memini murum!

[DorkShitParticipant 4353]

This is a version of a white knight. When you stepped in front of crazy you engaged.

Nothing good happens when you engage crazy.

It is never good to be the chalk outline that the police are scribbling.

I say this because you cannot defend yourself. You are not allowed. If you haul off and punch the s~~~ out of her you go to jail. There is nothing n you can do to resolve crazy.

Johnny, think about it this way. If she can abort her baby what are you? If she pulls a gun out of her purse and puts two bullets in your chest, what are you? Dead!

Peace brothers

[Anonymous 3]

It’s true nothing good ever comes when you engage crazy.
Especially ( as in my own case ) when your the crazy one ( or drunk one )
In truth, if I may quote an old saw:
“Discretion is the better part of valor”
I must admit I still think you did Ok
Back in the day, I would have threw a chair or something just to keep things going.

[KolaxisParticipant 668]

Way too much can go wrong. No bartender should be asking customers to act as bouncers regardless as to whether or not the place has bouncers. Either the bouncers do the bouncing or the police come in. Under no circumstances should you allow yourself to be put in danger like that. You and your friend should never have been placed in that situation.

Jackie: How do you write women so well?
Melvin Udall: I think of a man and I take away reason and accountability.

[OldBillParticipant]

A stupid story about stupid people doing stupid things. The next time you white knight for a bartender, prepare to get stabbed, shot or worse.

And the word is “platonic”. You asexual friendship with that women is platonic. “Plutonic” is a term in geology referring to a type of igneous rock.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

How does this show that chads are betas? There’s nothing in the chad handbook that says you have to defend a woman. That’s what betas do… step in to “protect what’s theirs” and, typically, get their asses handed to them for their trouble.

This guy is a real Chad. He’s there when the picking is easy but packs off when the cost benefit ratio gets too high.

All the people on this board lately who have been trying to disprove the concept of the alpha male… it smells a bit fishy to me.

Let me explain what makes a man alpha and what does not. It’s not looking or acting tough. It’s not starting fights or even ending them. It’s not making overt plays for women or fighting to keep them once they’ve caught them. It’s certainly not interesting facial hair, knot tops and Axe body spray.

What makes a man alpha is that he collects resources. He’s socially and/or economically successful. People know, respect and admire him and women want to be around him. He doesn’t chase after these things, they come to him, and he doesn’t struggle to keep them but rather maintains a calm detatchment.

The guy who is TRYING to look like a protector and provider… he’s a beta. The guy who is TRYING to look hard but can’t take a hit… he’s a beta. The guy who is TRYING to look rich but is counting his change… he’s a beta. The guy who is TRYING to look like a leader but has nobody following him… he’s a beta.

A real alpha wouldn’t be standing behind some crazy bitch in the street like in this story, about to get his ass kicked if he stepped in to stop her s~~~… he’d be at a bar somewhere talking to his buddy about a business plan with some girl at the next table over getting wet watching him ignore her.

I think a lot of you “there is no Chad” people are really beta cucks trying to figure out how to get a woman. You say “During this whole altercation, her Chad was nowhere to be found…” like you expect him to be stepping in to save her… like some sort of pussy craving white knight. That’s not what Chad does… that may be what you expect a man to be doing but it’s not alpha and the fact that some dude wasn’t doing it is no proof that there is no such thing as alpha men.

[MGTOW KnightParticipant 7477]

Johnny84 wrote:

I know I may get lectured for going outside, but I was the only male there and they were genuinely fearful of this girl. And to be honest, we all know how violent women can be. So I decided it would be best for me to help them. I don’t generally make a habit of putting myself in harms way, but if you were there and saw the circumstances, you’d probably see why I had done what I did.

Honestly I don’t blame you.

If you are the only one there capable of diffusing a situation, then I think you should.

Hopefully the rachet bitch learns a valuable lesson

Fuck bitches... literally and metaphorically

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

Marriage does not meet a cost-benefit analysis, so won’t marry.

Intervention with crazy does not meet a cost-benefit analysis either, so I won’t intervene.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[Yojimbo RockfordParticipant 348]

I will defend myself against violent psychos regardless of genital configuration.

[DorkShitParticipant 4353]

By the way, the girl did not bring an alpha to back her up. She brought a beta-orbiter.

The writer is not an alpha. He is a beta- white knight.

No alpha males were harmed in the making of this story. They were not present.

Peace brothers

[Anonymous 3]

Why all this BS about alpha, beta, etc.etc. I really don’t give a f~~~.
These constructs only keep men judging each other & in some form of competition.
Joe DiMaggio never had to reach for a catch,they all came right to him. And he married Maryln Monroe & look how that worked out for him. She cuckolded one of the greatest ball players ever
I know I have been every one of those “Things” at one time or another over the course of my life. I am not above or below any of it. If you think you are,maybe you ought to rethink that. I want to add this: I got a set of b~~~~ & a penis & they both have served me well.

[alchemistParticipant 484]

Anonymous wrote:

Why all this BS about alpha, beta, etc.etc. I really don’t give a f~~~.
These constructs only keep men judging each other & in some form of competition.

Yeah I don’t limit myself to two greek letters to describe all the different types of men, sure many fit into those categories but then you’ve got those chads, like the above, who are only “brave” when they have an army behind them. which isn’t true bravery at all. I’m 90% sure the reason he didn’t make a move is because he was alone. F~~~ing pussy.

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