Crazy shaming tactic?

[14_Peter_88Participant 129]

In class yesterday, when asked do decide between two of my classmates for who won this competition, i said ” i think it was (name) but i dont want to admit it, because it is (name)”, as a joke. I think it was quite clearly a playful joke and not a somber one at that.

(NAME) then insights a public showdown, saying how ever since she broke up with my mate, she thinks i hate her, her cheeks flushed, voice rising, tears in her eyes (you know, the angry and sad at the same time bulls~~~, how you supposed to react to that). Now all the girls are looking at me, as an upset girl means you must be a dick right. Im still trying to figure out what i’ve done. I said “that was clearly a joke”. For a second i second guessed myself (always a mistake), thinking “was i being a dick?”. It went silent, she mumbled something, and then the lesson painfully but ultimately more entertainingly grew to a finish.

I’ve had enough experience with girls, having 4 sisters, to know when their genuinely upset.
And normally the tears are a weapon to defend their ego, early in the lesson i shushed her up when she was speaking some pretentious bulls~~~, and people laughed and then she strikes back with the tears in order to put me on the spot. Or atleast thats my read on it. Maybe i WAS just being an insensitive dick, f~~~ knows.

[Puffin StuffParticipant 24979]

The key is not interacting with them at all. No noticing them, joking with them, saying hello, goodbye. All can be construed as abuse.

Pretend they don’t exist.

As far as your current trouble, if you follow the advice above, it will disappear. Seeking approval from them will escalate the matter.

You have to decide what you want, to interact with women or succeed at your school work. It’s your decision.

#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.

[OldBillParticipant]

Listen to H.R. and heed what he says.

Your primary mistake was attempting to joke with a woman. While 99% of men would have got your off-hand comment and laughed, 99% of women believe everything is about them. There’s no personal/public divide with women. Everything is personal and everything personal is shared publicly.

As I’ve explained in similar threads, your demeanor towards women in public, professional, and educational situations should always be polite, dismissive, and terse. Because one of the students you were choosing as the winner was woman, your remarks should have been “X is the winner. Let’s all congratulate them.” with no explanation offered.

Polite, dismissive, and terse. If you keep your interactions with women at that level you’ll have much fewer problems to worry about.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[Anonymous 11]

Not much to add other than has been said, but women are notorious for not having any sense of humor. The less one says to one is always the better course of action.

@op: Welcome to female insanity.

[MetalRay3Participant 31]

Yes I do agree with the others here on this. However i would also like to add that prehaps you could adapt a ‘don’t give-a-s~~~’ mindset when dealing with them. If this makes you appear to be an asshole that so be it, For it is better to be an Alpha that is an asshole than a Beta slave.

[BDParticipant 1146]

Puffin Stuff wrote:

The key is not interacting with them at all. No noticing them, joking with them, saying hello, goodbye. All can be construed as abuse.

Pretend they don’t exist.

This is great advice! Everything you say can be twisted and turned against you, so say nothing, ignore them.

Because in order to be able to think, you have to risk being offensive.

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