Couples constantly arguing around you

[InfernalShadowParticipant 377]

Ever since I was little, I’ve always wondered why couples fought constantly. My parents would do it, aunts, uncles, cousins, friends, sister, etc. Would constantly bitch to other people about each other or criticize them to their face. My mom would constantly bitch and complain about my dad DESPITE still staying with him. My dad is too much of a mangina, so he just keeps it bottled up inside and instead, takes his frustration out on me when he has the chance. My sister would constantly bitch about her boyfriend not “giving her enough attention.”

All of the other men in my family also stay in horrible relations~~~s and then EXPECT other people to have sympathy for them when they don’t like what another person does. I get it if you just want to f~~~, dump, n’ go. That’s perfectly cool with me. But why stick around for the constant bitching, nagging, and criticizing? I’d go insane if I had to put up with another person living in the same place I am constantly bitching about me not doing this or that, or constantly nagging me to change and criticize my faults all the f~~~ing time.

I’m bringing this topic up because last night, I heard some really loud banging on the stairs on the apartment above me. Once I opened my window to see what was going on, I heard a couple yelling. I couldn’t make out what it was. However, I could hear the shrill coming from the harpie above. It was like hearing a banshees screams. I fell asleep with the banging still going on. I still have no clue why they were banging in the first place other than them getting into a physical fight.

I’m just glad I never got into a relations~~~ to begin with. Too much drama overall. I’ve also noticed that the most drama that’s in a person’s life is because they’re in a relations~~~ and that only the women cause most if not all the drama in a man’s life. Whenever I had drama in my life, it was because of a woman. It was never because of another man.

[Ned TrentParticipant 4894]

InfernalShadow wrote:

Ever since I was little, I’ve always wondered why couples fought constantly. My parents would do it, aunts, uncles, cousins, friends, sister, etc. Would constantly bitch to other people about each other or criticize them to their face.

That seems to be the order of the day when it comes to “modern relationships”.

Well, sometimes there’s not even any need to explicitly bitch to other people by intentionally addressing them.
I mean, I got my neighbors serving as the best “modern” rowous couple example and due to the loudness of especially the woman I involuntarily got “front row seats” for that one, so don’t you envy me…

I’m talking “Live-red-pills” delivered free of charge straight to my ears, whenever I can’t find any of my spare ear plugs or sometimes even enjoy to listen to it for an occasional malicious mgtow laugh.

But anyway welcome to reality as well as to the forum, dude.

I'd rather die a natual death with a clear MGTOW conscience somewhere off the grid than one within "modern" civilisation with a big stress mark on my forehead and a couple of dozen tubes plugged into my body. Back to the plantation..? Me..? Hey, literally: I won't ever fucking kid myself...YZERLMNTSIC

[HitmanParticipant]

Couples argue. It’s just how. Polite and low key is the way to disagree and find a way to fix the problem. .When you hear the yelling, it’s time that relationship is through. People tend to get used to the bad and accept it..gotta have strong boundaries,and ENFORCE them.

[InfernalShadowParticipant 377]

Ned Trent wrote:

InfernalShadow wrote:

Ever since I was little, I’ve always wondered why couples fought constantly. My parents would do it, aunts, uncles, cousins, friends, sister, etc. Would constantly bitch to other people about each other or criticize them to their face.

That seems to be the order of the day when it comes to “modern relationships”.

Well, sometimes there’s not even any need to explicitly bitch to other people by intentionally addressing them.
I mean, I got my neighbors serving as the best “modern” rowous couple example and due to the loudness of especially the woman I involuntarily got “front row seats” for that one, so don’t you envy me…

I’m talking “Live-red-pills” delivered free of charge straight to my ears, whenever I can’t find any of my spare ear plugs or sometimes even enjoy to listen to it for an occasional malicious mgtow laugh.

But anyway welcome to reality as well as to the forum, dude.

I agree with that. The last few months I lived with my parents, I got redpills constantly. And my mom also admits she starts s~~~ just because she’s feeling “bitchy” that day. i think women just stay in relations~~~s to constantly put men through s~~~ tests.

Manginas only stay in relations~~~s because they worship pussy, even if they don’t get any in marriages.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

InfernalShadow wrote:

Ever since I was little, I’ve always wondered why couples fought constantly. My parents would do it, aunts, uncles, cousins, friends, sister, etc. Would constantly bitch to other people about each other or criticize them to their face.

Same here. EVERYONE. Jabs. Cutting remarks. Corrections. Criticisms.

The problem I notice is not enough men saying:
“Look if you don’t like it (or me) GET THE F~~~ OUT – NOW. Right NOW.”

Ask any dog trainer, and he will tell you a bitch will get very uncomfortable when she doesn’t feel the end of her leash. So when a bitch feels the end of her leash, she will often smarten and stop being combative, but it’s only temporary, and you’ll have to do it again.

I also believe “couples fighting” is a form of true chemistry. Think of classic couples in film and TV, like Mr. and Mrs. Smith, Rhett Butler and Scarlett O’Hara, Han Solo and Princess Leia, Sam and Diane from Cheers, Henry Higgins and Eliza Doolittle. You can’t tear them away from each other. In every example, the man wanted to rip her f~~~ing head off, and she enjoyed bringing him to that point.

It’s as natural as cats and dogs.

But nature designed it to be cats and cats. Or dogs and dogs. Not cats and dogs.

Men and women just don’t fit together in any way but ONE. Anatomically. In all other ways, brain functions, life cycles, SMV pattern, wants and needs, they just don’t “fit”. So when I see couple sparring, I think “who’s s~~~ty idea was it that you two should live together”? It was always HERS.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[InfernalShadowParticipant 377]

Keymaster wrote:

InfernalShadow wrote:

Ever since I was little, I’ve always wondered why couples fought constantly. My parents would do it, aunts, uncles, cousins, friends, sister, etc. Would constantly bitch to other people about each other or criticize them to their face.

Same here. EVERYONE. Jabs. Cutting remarks. Corrections. Criticisms.

The problem I notice is not enough men saying:
“Look if you don’t like it (or me) GET THE F~~~ OUT – NOW. Right NOW.”

Ask any dog trainer, and he will tell you a bitch will get very uncomfortable when she doesn’t feel the end of her leash. So when a bitch feels the end of her leash, she will often smarten and stop being combative, but it’s only temporary, and you’ll have to do it again.

I also believe “couples fighting” is a form of true chemistry. Think of classic couples in film and TV, like Mr. and Mrs. Smith, Rhett Butler and Scarlett O’Hara, Han Solo and Princess Leia, Sam and Diane from Cheers, Henry Higgins and Eliza Doolittle. You can’t tear them away from each other. In every example, the man wanted to rip her f~~~ing head off, and she enjoyed bringing him to that point.

It’s as natural as cats and dogs.

But nature designed it to be cats and cats. Or dogs and dogs. Not cats and dogs.

Men and women just don’t fit together in any way but ONE. Anatomically. In all other ways, brain functions, life cycles, SMV pattern, wants and needs, they just don’t “fit”. So when I see couple sparring, I think “who’s s~~~ty idea was it that you two should live together”? It was always HERS.

Exactly. I think they end up staying together in s~~~ty relations~~~s because I saw this video of why women like arguing and starting s~~~ all the f~~~ing time:

Women like to stay in s~~~ty relations~~~s because it’s exciting and fun to them. Once you become a “nice guy” they get bored with you and want to break up.

[XSDBSParticipant 3598]

Keymaster wrote:

The problem I notice is not enough men saying:
“Look if you don’t like it (or me) GET THE F~~~ OUT – NOW. Right NOW.”

Believe me, when you say that to a woman, you will get the best blow-job ever that night.
Or, you’ll never see her again.
A win/win…

[KeymasterKeymaster]

InfernalShadow wrote:

I think they end up staying together in s~~~ty relations~~~s because

Well we already know that women will stay in s~~~ty relationships – as long as it pays.

https://broadly.vice.com/en_us/article/as-rental-prices-rise-women-stay-in-bad-relationships-to-survive

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

If their not arguing, they look bored!

So I think, I’ll pass on the “Serious Relationship,” thing.

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

[Silverstone the SecondParticipant]

Very astute observation, my man. That’s another red flag. It seems where ever you go, they argue. Don’t get me wrong, arguments happen, no big deal. But when you argue more often than not, it’s time for a change. And people that have been in a relationship for any length of time argue all the time. Why do I want that? Either all these couples only argue when I’m around, or the relationship is sour to the core.

Total bulls~~~. That’s what a relationship looks like, that’s what “love” looks like, that’s what I need to MAN UP and go be a part of. F~~~ THAT. Why? And then stay together because of what? No reason, but they do. This is one of the more open warning signs I noticed way back when during mgtow’s first years in my life. Then you realize that’s the tip of the ice berg and much more insidious s~~~ lay below the arguing.

Feminism is a movement where opinions are presented as facts and emotions are presented as evidence.

[Won'tGetFooledAgainParticipant 3293]

InfernalShadow wrote:

Women like to stay in s~~~ty relations~~~s because it’s exciting and fun to them. Once you become a “nice guy” they get bored with you and want to break up.

100% agree with this, women love drama as drama = excitement. The main reason women divorce men isn’t because they treat them like s~~~, but because they are too nice to them. Men think they are doing the right thing by providing a house, letting them stay at home looking after the children and doing everything for them. The reality is this means they get bored and a boring life in the suburbs is absolutely the worst situation for a woman to be in. This is when they start to get excited about the thought of getting f~~~ed by assholes again as this is way more exciting. The reality is a woman would swap her boring life in the burbs for 5 minutes of excitement with an Alpha.

So if you get married you are either in the 50% of guys who are too nice and end up getting divorced, or you are in the 50% of guys who remain married but are constantly arguing and fighting with your wife. Personally both options seem s~~~ to me so why the hell would you get married.

For women, everything eventually boils down to Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.

[XSDBSParticipant 3598]

I’ve had conversations(which turned into confrontation) with multiple women about “a nice guy”.
They all say the same thing “I want to find a nice guy.”
I ask them “Was your last boyfriend a nice guy?”
Their response is always “No, he was an asshole/dick/loser/player/scumbag/etc/etc/etc.”
I then ask “Were any of your boyfriends nice guys?”
Again, their response is “No, they were all assholes/dicks/losers/players/scumbags/etc/etc/etc.”
I ask “So instead of dating nice guys, you date assholes? That’s stupid, don’t you think?”
That usually results them saying “You’re an asshole too!”
I’ll end with “I’ll pick you up at 8:00”, and walk off…

[Frank V.Participant 2445]

XSDBS wrote:

Keymaster wrote:

The problem I notice is not enough men saying:
“Look if you don’t like it (or me) GET THE F~~~ OUT – NOW. Right NOW.”

Believe me, when you say that to a woman, you will get the best blow-job ever that night.
Or, you’ll never see her again.
A win/win…

Goddamn !

That’s why I can’t stop coming here ! You two are so f~~~ing right it is making my head melt. How many times, before MGTOW, did I think I was the only one on the planet who thought this way ?

Frank V.

[Frank V.Participant 2445]

Won'tGetFooledAgain wrote:

InfernalShadow wrote:

Women like to stay in s~~~ty relations~~~s because it’s exciting and fun to them. Once you become a “nice guy” they get bored with you and want to break up.

100% agree with this, women love drama as drama = excitement. The main reason women divorce men isn’t because they treat them like s~~~, but because they are too nice to them. Men think they are doing the right thing by providing a house, letting them stay at home looking after the children and doing everything for them. The reality is this means they get bored and a boring life in the suburbs is absolutely the worst situation for a woman to be in. This is when they start to get excited about the thought of getting f~~~ed by assholes again as this is way more exciting. The reality is a woman would swap her boring life in the burbs for 5 minutes of excitement with an Alpha.

So if you get married you are either in the 50% of guys who are too nice and end up getting divorced, or you are in the 50% of guys who remain married but are constantly arguing and fighting with your wife. Personally both options seem s~~~ to me so why the hell would you get married.

This why I seldom keep a “relationship” going for more than three months, because I have no patience for drama. I used to wonder if it was me, and in a sense it is- the effort to keep a particular woman around for a long time is not worth it.

Frank V.

[Frank V.Participant 2445]

The other thing I have have experienced the last few years was a couple I know who invited me to their home out of state to visit for a weekend and stay overnight. Since I was passing through that area, they urged me to save the money for a motel room and hang out with them.

Did I regret that one- they just argued constantly by the end of the first day.

Motels, quieter than a free bed in a married couple’s guest room.

Frank V.

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