Could Have Been Me

[CPT ObviousParticipant 2727]

Been staying at a cheap hotel drinking expensive scotch the past two weeks with three (maybe four) weeks to go. All because of NAWALT turned AWALT….big surprise right? I will post more on that later.

Sitting by the pool relaxing, a ~60 something guy is only other one there, so we start making small talk. Eventually he mentioned that he is in town to finalize his third divorce. Potentially the final hearing is in a couple days, but his ex is trying to get half of a $6000 pension he has from previous job that is from well-before they were married, and it is last sticking point.

I tell him, “Typical female trying to get every last dime.”

Then his phone rings. After the call, he gives me a red pill. Apparently the condo he is looking at buying for him and HIS NEW GIRLFRIEND HE MET ONLINE 10 DAYS AGO ONLINE is ready to be bought in 5 days.

I look at him with sympathy and disgust. Even after three divorces he still hasn’t learned.

I leave feeling grateful that this site helped me decide to never marry again.

"You don't know a woman till you have met her in divorce court."

[CPT ObviousParticipant 2727]

Another interesting side note. One of the hotel bathrooms had a plumbing problem — water spewing all over the bathroom. Female clerk had no idea what to do and a couple male guests shut the water off to entire hotel while they fixed the valve.

Then they went to Home Depot, bought a new valve and solved the problem.

"You don't know a woman till you have met her in divorce court."

[SpiderHerderParticipant 3759]

WOW. Just WOW.

Yeah, some guys never learn. I’m glad YOU did.

Enjoy the scotch !

[MonkParticipant 16985]

CPT Obvious wrote:

Apparently the condo he is looking at buying for him and HIS NEW GIRLFRIEND HE MET ONLINE 10 DAYS AGO ONLINE is ready to be bought in 5 days.

10 days … and he’s already set up for his fourth divorce raping.

I look at him with sympathy and disgust

No sympathy.

[CPT ObviousParticipant 2727]

Monk wrote:

No sympathy.

Maybe empathy is right word there. After two divorces I don’t have much room to criticize. But after that, I found this site and swore to never marry again which saved me from disaster with #3 when the relationship ran it’s inevitable course.

"You don't know a woman till you have met her in divorce court."

[Handsome VicParticipant 1613]

CPT Obvious wrote:

Apparently the condo he is looking at buying for him and HIS NEW GIRLFRIEND HE MET ONLINE 10 DAYS AGO ONLINE is ready to be bought in 5 days.

Some men never learn.

I'm going my own way. Maybe I'll see you there.

[AutoliteParticipant]

CPT Obvious wrote:

I look at him with sympathy and disgust. Even after three divorces he still hasn’t learned.

There is something psychologically very wrong going on inside the minds with these types of men that is just beyond the ability of a rational person to comprehend. Don’t lose any sleep over trying to figure it out…

[Duke TogoParticipant 2664]

I thought this was a joke, but then I remembered blue pilled cucks never learn and the thirst is real.

[Mr. SpockParticipant 10909]

CPT Obvious wrote:

Female clerk had no idea what to do and a couple male guests shut the water off to entire hotel while they fixed the valve.

Then they went to Home Depot, bought a new valve and solved the problem.

Those are the guys that I feel sorry for. Why would any man help a woman in this day and age? She’s a strong and independent woman so why did she fail to handle her s~~~? That woman illustrates why there should be a gender pay gap. A male clerk would have known exactly what to do until a plumber or maintenance person could be reached.

Feminism isn't about equality with men, it's about leverage over men.

[AwakenedParticipant 35201]

CPT Obvious wrote:

All because of NAWALT turned AWALT….big surprise right?

I can’t IMAGINE that THIS ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ actually happened AGAIN…..I’m just joking around.

I sincerely hope everything will be alright with ya….

CPT Obvious wrote:

Apparently the condo he is looking at buying for him and HIS NEW GIRLFRIEND HE MET ONLINE 10 DAYS AGO ONLINE is ready to be bought in 5 days

Like MOST Men, HE’S his own WORST ENEMY….

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[CPT ObviousParticipant 2727]

Awakened wrote:

I sincerely hope everything will be alright with ya….

Thanks brother, much appreciated. This is a situation I was already in (girlfriend living with me) when I found this website: Saved my divorced, blue-pilled ass from marrying her.

I’ve got a lot of downtime in the evening —- been reading a ton of past posts. I thought I’d vent some stuff in this forum, but still too p i s s e d off.

"You don't know a woman till you have met her in divorce court."

[CPT ObviousParticipant 2727]

Such a f.ucking idiot for letting this sh!t go on for so long. I’m nothing but a purple-pilled cuck that got played as a blue-pill wallet.

A W A L T

17+ years married to beautiful woman, had two kids, and a successful career with a major bank. Big new house, new cars, family vacations, the whole Disney deal. Things were basically as I was programmed to believe and expect. But once the kids were in school, no need to for a stay-at-home mommy. So she wants to go back to college and get a degree. Fine — sounds great, but exposing my pretty and crazy wife to the feminist hive? The beginning of the end.

Jump ahead a couple years and the wifey has a new attitude and a rockin’ bod going to the gym all the time. She also is getting a lot of attention and finds her Chad to add excitement to her life. So after dropping $20K on her bachelor’s, she has a fling. After all, cupcake needs to be happy.

Lies and lies and lies. Just a matter of time and I catch her then the fun begins. Arguments, tears and attempt to reconcile at urging of others. (“Stay together for the kids” and “You need to forgive her”) Miserable life and finally I get my own place and try to amicably separate.

She plays along but gets high dollar lawyer. She waits until my paycheck and bonus hits the account, cleans it out with my rent payment check in the mail. Next morning I get served with restraining order and inch thick divorce petition. She wants EVERY F UCKING THING, kids, house, retirement and fat paycheck every month. All this for me neglecting and abusing her. At least that is what she told EVERYBODY.

We’ve all read the divorce rape stories, mine is no different. Nuclear, silver-bullet approach. Eight months of absolute hell. Although I “won”, I lost my life savings. Came back to trashed and barren house. But I did get custody of my girls after she ran off to different state to be with deadbeat boyfriend. They basically lived off my alimony in his parent’s spare double-wide.

"You don't know a woman till you have met her in divorce court."

[CPT ObviousParticipant 2727]

So even with that jagged red pill suppository, my blue-pilled mind said, “You just picked the wrong one. Now you know better.”

Had a whirlwind romance with Latina and got married 6 months after my divorce.

F U C K ME IN THE ASS.

Latinas are crazy good in bed, but so hot-headed and controlling. She wanted a sugar daddy and burned through cash like a meth addict. A year later I made a business decision and filed for divorce. I incurred all the debt and she walked away debt free and with most of my sh!t. (Apparently if she helped pick it out, it is her’s).

I deployed to Afghanistan shortly after and one daughter choses to live with her mom. So now i get to pay child support. The good news is with the ex decides to get married so I am not paying alimony.

"You don't know a woman till you have met her in divorce court."

[CPT ObviousParticipant 2727]

While deployed, I reconnect with girl I knew in high school. Being a long ways from home, it’s easy to form an emotional attachment. She moves into my hometown before I get back.

In short order she is living with me. But now I am seeing the red flags and I start to do some research, learning about MGTOW and finding/joining this site.

Things are good with my little unicorn, but the red pills are starting to have affect. I decide to not get married and let her know that. She “understands” but she is in it for long haul and I had no idea what I was up against.

Ok….nuff vented for now. I need some scotch.

"You don't know a woman till you have met her in divorce court."

[CPT ObviousParticipant 2727]

[can’t sleep]

With red-pilled glasses giving me 20/20 vision, the truth is painfully obvious. Girlfriend is epitome of ride the c ock carousel until the wall, then secure your beta wallet.

Classic case: High School Cheerleader that puts out. Drops out of college after one semester because girls just wanna have fun. Carousel is running at high speed then she meets rich guy and gets married. That gets boring and gina is missing the tingles. Divorced him with DV accusations and quickly jumps back on the c ock parade.

Keep in mind this is former cheerleader, gymnast and beauty pageant winner. So there is no shortage of willing donors. The apex of the ride was her living with the ultimate Chad —- a chippendales dancer.

But soon she passes the 30 year-old mark — time to start thinking about securing that wallet before hitting the wall. So she marries a blue-piller.

Relationship and marriage lasts about 10 years and the tingles are gone. She is 40, not fat and has enough SMV to give the carousel one last spin. She accumulates lots of orbiters on her FB page that says nothing of her being married.

Once multiple monkey branches are available, she starts talking to divorce attorney. With a spin of the lucky wheel and I am the winner!

She files for divorce (again with DV accusations) and moves into a house near mine shortly before I get back from Afghanistan. She goes into full acquisition and chameleon mode. So I think I have found one of the rare NAWALTs. Lucky me!!

Things are great for a few months, but I am seeing some red flags. However, like the wasp on the tarantula’s back she stings me with great sex to subdue me.

But she slips up one night during an argument. After drinking too much, she wants to have sex in a parking lot of public park near my house. I say no, cops are always patrolling that area and I promised my daughter we’d be home by 11pm. She flips the f uck out. I just turned down the golden vagina!!

I will never forget her yelling: “I don’t have to put up with this sh!t, I have guys lined up to f uck me!”

I responded, “Well f uck them all. Get out of my house.”

If only that were the end of it…

"You don't know a woman till you have met her in divorce court."

[MonkParticipant 16985]

Two divorce rapings and now you are lined up for THE ONE PHONE CALL. If you don’t stop this and get out now, it will be the end of you.

I wouldn’t bother with your daughters either – AWALT applies to them, too. If they haven’t done so already, they will turn on you in due course.

[AwakenedParticipant 35201]

WOW…..In my opinion, just from what you told us, I think that you have had MORE than a Life Time of Drama and Bull S~~~.

At least you don’t have to go through the whole divorce process with the used up lil cheerleader.

Personally, I would just change the locks, delete her calls, texts, and completely Ghost her ass. It may take a couple/few weeks, but she will line up the NEXT one, and you will be “forgotten” just like all the rest.

Once she’s GONE, I would NOT replace her. If I wanted Sex I would just hire out professional talent.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[CPT ObviousParticipant 2727]

Monk wrote:

Two divorce rapings and now you are lined up for THE ONE PHONE CALL

Awakened wrote:

Personally, I would just change the locks, delete her calls, texts, and completely Ghost her ass.

So this is where I am now. ^^^^^^

Lots more sh!t, drama happened after my last post. Me being a nice guy led to her moving in again. Bottom line —- Camel gets back in tent and will NOT leave. (And I tried changing locks — that was interesting experience).

@monk: this last argument she threatened to call police.

@awakened: I left right then, blocked her, ghosted her. Haven’t said a word except when I went by house with Army buddy who is in law Enforcement to get my clothes, computer and guns.

Hired a lawyer and she received eviction notice about two weeks ago. Now I wait for month-end so I can get court order to get her physically removed by Sheriff.

In the meantime, I bounce from hotel to hotel, drinking Scotch, smoking cigars and working on purging all blue pill s~~~ from my bloodstream.

"You don't know a woman till you have met her in divorce court."

[Buller100Participant 2189]

A good read when you are Red pill and you meet a girl you “Like ” you see fault after fault and cant do anything more than f~~~ them..

Its impossible to “Move the relationship on ” as has been said it will fail and cost you half your money ..

[Daryll55Participant 2950]

MY signature says it all…….

Guys like your friend will never learn!

They think a WIFE is a housekeeper/cook/whore in just the right amounts to make her NAWALT. AND
they think they getting it all because its free. (yeah,…. right!! Like their “charm” has her hooked on him sooooo bad she will never even look at another cha,…… errrrr guy.)

Then,…… ONE DAY,….. THE BILL comes due.

Marry again, Hell NO ! ( Even JESUS was hung on a cross just once)

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