Coping with the Albatross

[JBearParticipant 138]

Hello Gents,
Without going into too much detail/giving too much away, I worked in an industry for over 6 years that is over 90% female in the states, and I’ve been accused of some things at work that I didn’t do, that had nothing to do with job performance. (boozing on the job specifically). I’m just frustrated that
(a) the claims WERE NOT TRUE in any sense, were said anyway, and
(b) I couldn’t face my accuser(s) which I have on good authority were, you guessed it, female.
As a result of (a), I’m not in any trouble, legal or otherwise, because what’s been said was could not be proven TRUE. However, I have resigned from this job as a result of fear. If they can do this, what’s next? I’m having a hard time squaring away the reality that my accuser(s) will NEVER be held accountable for what they’ve said, and I’ll never officially know who they were. Further, I feel I’m owed an apology. I know the basics of MGTOW, but how do you guys handle the sheer fact that we have a RIGHT to be annoyed/p~~~ed at this stuff? You can kill a man’s rep in 2 weeks flat. No questions asked? Is this where we’re at? How do you gents square this up? I know ultimately that we walk away, but I’m speaking specifically about those times when you see how stacked the deck is against us and you’re p~~~ed…what do you guys do to cope/deal with day to day? There’s no going back now…I get that, but what strategies do you guys recommend for coping with this daily albatross on our backs? Thanks in advance for your help.

[MarketWatcherParticipant]

A man has a right to be p~~~ed. I have lived through the exact same things you are talking about and I posted them on the forum. It helped a lot and kept me from walking off my last s~~~ty job. In fact, THANK YOU ALL FOR YOUR HELP!

[It’sallbsParticipant]

JBear wrote:

Hello Gents,
Without going into too much detail/giving too much away, I worked in an industry for over 6 years that is over 90% female in the states, and I’ve been accused of some things at work that I didn’t do, that had nothing to do with job performance. (boozing on the job specifically). I’m just frustrated that
(a) the claims WERE NOT TRUE in any sense, were said anyway, and
(b) I couldn’t face my accuser(s) which I have on good authority were, you guessed it, female.
As a result of (a), I’m not in any trouble, legal or otherwise, because what’s been said was could not be proven TRUE. However, I have resigned from this job as a result of fear. If they can do this, what’s next? I’m having a hard time squaring away the reality that my accuser(s) will NEVER be held accountable for what they’ve said, and I’ll never officially know who they were. Further, I feel I’m owed an apology. I know the basics of MGTOW, but how do you guys handle the sheer fact that we have a RIGHT to be annoyed/p~~~ed at this stuff? You can kill a man’s rep in 2 weeks flat. No questions asked? Is this where we’re at? How do you gents square this up? I know ultimately that we walk away, but I’m speaking specifically about those times when you see how stacked the deck is against us and you’re p~~~ed…what do you guys do to cope/deal with day to day? There’s no going back now…I get that, but what strategies do you guys recommend for coping with this daily albatross on our backs? Thanks in advance for your help.

I’ve had to leave jobs through no fault of my own as well, there is nothing you can do you just have to move on -exercise helps with anger.

http://www.leavemeansleave.eu

[BoBParticipant 823]

JBear wrote:

No questions asked? Is this where we’re at?

Not if I’m the boss.

You made the right decision.

[FragmentedParticipant 2758]

We have 2 options. We can move on, doing the best we can, and wait for this piece of s~~~ system to collapse … or you can lose your mind and do whatever a person who loses their mind does.

I suggest moving on and doing your best, waiting for this anti-male system to collapse. Perhaps get your stuff ready for when it does, food, water, supplies etc. I have a strong suspicion it’s all going to collapse within the next 2 decades.

http://register-her.net/web/guest/home

[Anonymous 2]

JBear wrote:

Further, I feel I’m owed an apology. I know the basics of MGTOW, but how do you guys handle the sheer fact that we have a RIGHT to be annoyed/p~~~ed at this stuff? You can kill a man’s rep in 2 weeks flat. No questions asked? Is this where we’re at? How do you gents square this up? I know ultimately that we walk away, but I’m speaking specifically about those times when you see how stacked the deck is against us and you’re p~~~ed…what do you guys do to cope/deal with day to day? There’s no going back now…I get that, but what strategies do you guys recommend for coping with this daily albatross on our backs? Thanks in advance for your help.

The only thing you can do to fight back is not take part in the system. Spending all your time being angry about how the system is rigged against you isn’t going to change anything, and if you speak out about the double standards, you’ll just get berated for it and hurt your reputation even more. Find a male dominated field to work in, if possible. As far as dealing with stress, I find meditation to be a very helpful practice.

I learned long ago that the best way to avoid the bulls~~~ is to simply not engage. I know that this may not be the answer you want, but beating your head in anger over society’s misandry and double standards will do nothing but cause you more stress.

I simply opted out of this society and stopped caring about what happens and started focusing on keeping myself safe and happy. Whatever path Western society goes on from here is of no concern to me. If Western society collapses because of people like me walking away, then so be it. Western society gives no f~~~s about me, so I have no reason to give a f~~~ about saving it.

Not my circus, not my monkeys.

[MonkParticipant 16988]

I was also forced out of a job by a group of vindictive, lying c~~~s.

The way I get back at them is by simply being MGTOW and getting on with my life.

Over time, the resources and contact that I have denied them has more than made up for what they did to me.

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