Convo with Dad

[XackStrykerParticipant 239]

So over the holidays I had a private conversation with my father about still being single etc. (I am 34 now) I stated at some point I would like to have a son, mostly because I want to carry on the family name (My father is a history lover and my family name goes back to revolutionary war and before that in Europe), but in today’s climate I will not risk everything I have to get married and lose my entire life to a slot-C. He laughs, turns looks me straight in the face and says “Thank god I taught you something!” My immediate reaction was wtf!

He explains that he has seen marriage destroy men for the past 30 years, and that honestly if it wasn’t for his retirement, 401k etc he and my mother would probably have been divorced 15 years ago. Come to find out my dad was married before my mother for about a year. (I never knew this) He continues on about how he is happy myself and my sister came along but confesses he should of never got married again.

Our conversation continued for hours as we sat together drinking down some beers enjoying what I guess you could call father/son time filled with talks about red pill moments! In the end he said don’t get married and if I did at some point in my life makes sure everything I own is seperate from her and lastly to never trust a women! At the very end he assured me over and over that if I never have children and the family name dies its completely okay because he doesn’t want to see his son destroyed, he just wants me to be happy and enjoy my life!

Makes me wonder about what else he never told me!

[Anonymous 18]

Most men live lives of quiet desperation.

At the very least MGTOW get to pick their own thorns and roses.

[MonkParticipant 16988]

XackStryker wrote:

At the very end he assured me over and over that if I never have children and the family name dies its completely okay because he doesn’t want to see his son destroyed, he just wants me to be happy and enjoy my life!

Shows he really cares about you. Great man.

[Rolling Tin FistParticipant 484]

Your dad just did you the equivalent of handing you a check for a million dollars. I too love my kids. However if I had gotten that response before I was your age I would be a millionaire and retired today.

I wouldn’t have gotten married or had kids. I just would have remained been mentor and uncle.

Women, and especially wives, hemorrhage money like you wouldn’t believe. I also don’t care how hot the women you marry is. Her looks will only decline, the only question is, at what rate. She’ll never show her true colors until after, I do.

Please, do something special for your dad the next chance you get. My dad unfortunately was a first class beta simp that told me nothing of value until it was quarter past to late after being out of my life for most of it.

"Love is the delusion that one woman differs from another" - H. L. Mencken

[XackStrykerParticipant 239]

Rolling Tin Fist wrote:

Please, do something special for your dad the next chance you get

Was thinking the same thing! Thinking about taking him on a fishing trip somewhere, he would love that!

[XackStrykerParticipant 239]

Monk wrote:

XackStryker wrote:

At the very end he assured me over and over that if I never have children and the family name dies its completely okay because he doesn’t want to see his son destroyed, he just wants me to be happy and enjoy my life!

Shows he really cares about you. Great man.

It felt like a giant weight had been lifted off my shoulders to be honest and I really think he knew that too. He is great man!

[WallyParticipant]

Your dad reminds me of mine, told me to never marry. I knew my my Dad truly loved me when he told me this, I really miss him, when he gave me advice he didn’t have an agenda, just cared about me.

"what a waste of a life, to marry, give up your freedom, just for the hope of not dying alone. Don't get married Son."

[DocParticipant]

Makes me wonder just how many red pill men hide in the crowds. Silent and unseen.

The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to escape, finding oneself in the ranks of the insane. Marcus Aurelius

[AwakenedParticipant 35201]

I warn my son against marriage regularly, and drop Red Pill just about daily, and the CRAP that he has to put up with from his mother are just More red Pills sent his way.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[MarketWatcherParticipant]

Your father speaks the truth. Amazing what you can learn about family given a prime opportunity.

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

That’s a men of a men.

Bravo, bravo for your old man.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[RhinoParticipant 3477]

That is the blue pill reasoning for wanting to have a son and everyone thinks like that because all males are taught this from a young age and as you get older the mother or father keeps pressing you so they can have their grandkids. My brother said the same thing when he had his son and yet he keeps asking me for money on a monthly basis because his “wife” keeps spending it faster then he can save.

Do yourself a favor and don’t worry about having a kid unless you want to deal with child support payments down the road. Remember in this world the father has little or no rights to his children as the courts will always side with the mother. Be happy with your single life and enjoy your time on earth it is ok to not have a child take your fathers advice it is sound.

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