Convo with a girl earlier

[HyperionParticipant 34]

14_Peter_88 wrote:

She said “You’ll never find love”

I remember asking my mom about what she considered is love and she said something about mutual respect, trust and other things (I don´t remember) but for me this was a satisfactory answer.

I’m sure if I ask your partner “what is love?” she will say, after a minute of silence because her neurons can´t process the question, “it’s a magical thing”.

Maybe I’m underestimating, who knows.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

14_Peter_88 wrote:

You will never find love

If you REALLY want to f~~~ with her head, here’s what you tell her:

“Love isn’t what you FIND, sweetheart. It’s what you GIVE. And you haven’t got a f~~~ing clue.”

Women are always talk like authorities on “love” being something they “find” — like a lottery win. Because they are selfish and LAZY about it. They expect to “find” it and sit there with their arms folded waiting for it to fall into their laps. They are utterly clueless about it. Love isn’t what you find. It’s what you give – even when it doesn’t come back to you. The people we love the most are the people we give the most to. Let them hear it from a MAN first.

That girl you were taking to is entirely full of s~~~.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[ShinyParticipant 2307]

You will never find love

“Really? There’s not a single loving woman out there anywhere? Gosh, I think you’re right!”

Keymaster wrote:

Love isn’t what you FIND, sweetheart. It’s what you GIVE.

Well said.

[The Long WalkParticipant 1282]

This is the kind of BS conversation I’ll have with any of my sisters on the rare occasion I have to actually converse with them, at Christmas a get-together or whatever. They think they’re surreptitiously manipulating you with their epic ninja skillz and shaming tactics etc, best respond to them as you would a child.

14_Peter_88 wrote:

“its about making a commitment on a personal level, finding somebody who will make you a better person”

If by ‘commitment on a personal level‘ she means ‘commitment on a permanent financial, legal and emotional level‘ and ‘a better person‘ she means to say ‘an emasculated pauper with no self respect‘, then I totally agree with her, 100%.

[ScandinavianParticipant 590]

“Never find love”? What a load of crap! Love is everywhere around; someone mentioned dogs, you can also get love from sibling, friends, parents, it’s pretty much all around us, but no: women tend to equal “love” to “intimate long term partnership” and that is where love went fubar. It’s like telling someone they are screwed because it’s a long way between point A and B and without a car they would have to walk. Having access to trains, airplanes and perhaps a motorcycle is not options in their world, perhaps because they have all their money tied up in stocks from GM….

[RedDawnParticipant 1391]

This thread is a gold mine.

14_Peter_88 wrote:

She meant offence, but i saw through it

I applaud you not taking the bait. If you don’t react to people’s s~~~ tests it disarms them, not to mention it’s emotionally intelligent, something that most women are not.

What I find funny is that she thought she was insulting you, however, If you look at the logical side of what she says its true it only serves to help prevent much unneeded stress. The irony is that women need external validation to be happy, whereas men not so much, especially if they learn about how damaging it can be.

I agree with RichardHutnik about love. The most commonly forgotten love is that of altruism. Whether it be pets or charities or people in the old folks homes, one can share love in these settings. Too many girls are indoctrinated by Hollywood and think the universe revolves around them.

My own Mother and sister are no different really, though I’ve learned to come to acceptance for my sanity, it serves no purpose to be constantly angry, lest I become like the feminists communists. I think Stealth MGTOW is right when he discusses the Zen approach he uses. It is just their nature.

Courage is the key to life itself - Morgan Freeman

[sidecarParticipant 35862]

: “Its about making a commitment on a personal level, finding somebody who will make you a better person” blah blah blah
: “Making a commitment is a lot easier than keeping that commitment, and since eight to nine out of ten divorces are filed by women, it’s pretty obvious women can’t keep their commitments. So why make a commitment to a woman when you know she’s not going to keep it?”
: “You’ll never find love”
: “And getting married changes that? Marriage isn’t about love. It’s about property. The man’s property. Again, from divorce statistics, it’s pretty obvious that women can’t love. At best they love a man’s money, because that’s what they want to have for the rest of their lives, not him.”
: “You asshole.”
: “Just being honest. Enjoy your cats.”

[davParticipant 422]

She went on, “its about making a commitment on a personal level, finding somebody who will make you a bitter person” blah blah blah

I fixed the typo, so it explains marriage now. 🙂

[PhantomParticipant 3328]

14_Peter_88 wrote:

Yeah, i was talking to a girl earlier (bad idea), and she was talking to me about how i’d make a good husband.
LOL

14_Peter_88 wrote:

I replied “I’d only ever be with a woman whom appreciated me for the way i am, and didn’t expect me to change to her wishes”

She said “You’ll never find love”

Isn’t that just rich & oh so sweet???
What a crock of s~~~!

good husband = you won’t kiss her ass = you won’t find love??

wants to marry you for the money = she rips your ass apart during the process = she divorces you = she got what she wanted from you.

I didn’t see two s~~~s given by her in the realm of respect (strike 1), love (Strike 2), and building a relationship (Strike 3)….

and she’s OUT!!!

See ya, wouldn’t want to be ya…is what I would tell her.

Asta, do a slow 180 and stroll the f~~~ away not giving a f~~~.

My 2 bits.

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