Conversation with Soccer Dads

[TaxGuyParticipant]

I took my daughter to an out of town soccer tournament this weekend. There are a couple other divorced soccer dads. We tend to stand down at the end of the field, away from the moms and couples so we don’t get stuck in the stupid soccer conversations. The one’s where they p~~~ and moan over every out of bounds call like it’s the finals of the World Cup.

Anyway, the topic turns to divorce. I’ve told my story before, but I wanted to share a few nuggets I found out this weekend from the other guys. Just another warning about the “fairer sex”.

Dad 1: He owns a business where they do a lot of drilling and digging. Makes good money, family has money. His divorce took about three years and ended up in court numerous times. At one point she tried to get money out of the family. The judge had to tell her that she is divorcing dad not the family and that she is not entitled to any of their money. He had to buy her out of two businesses.

She has been going to school for about five years now, so she lives off the alimony and child support. Let’s remember, our daughters are 16 years old, so this a woman in her 40’s, just playing college student for five years. He has had to hire private investigators in order to catch her lying in court and she is in no trouble for lying. In spite of all of that, she still has the children the majority of the time. All of the time and effort he goes through is just maintain what time he gets. He has paid hundreds of thousands of dollars to attorney fighting with the ex.

Dad 2: Dad 2 owns his own business. He builds houses and is loaded. When he got divorced, his ex wanted to move half way across the country so she could start over. He didn’t want to lose his kids, so got a little creative.

He offered her $1 million to walk away and turn over all of the custody to their children to him. She would no longer have any say in what happened to her children that she carried around in her body for nine months. No rights to visitation. Nothing.

If you think she took the cash and prizes and let there be a price tag on her children’s head, you would be correct. Took the money and walked away from her children.

My divorce cost me over a half million dollars, and I was the poor cheap bastard of the conversation. I got off light. And yet all three of these women are broke, didn’t manage to save a dime. Dad 2 said it took her ex about three years to burn through $1 million. And all three of these dads have put their boots on and gone to work everyday and have managed to recover financially.

And women wonder where all the good men are……….

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[IRuleMeParticipant]

Don’t ever be fooled by women who claim that they’re looking out for the best interest of their kids. They look out for their own interests and use the kids as tool. Women are the nurturer’s my ass. If women were such nurturer’s they wouldn’t give their kids up for adoption, or entertain the idea of aborting them.

[Bob1775Participant 164]

I’m also a soccer dad👎.Thankfully my son can drive to the close games,but sometimes I have to go to out of town tournaments.Sometimes when I’m real lucky they tell me a couple of days before and I have to drive all over to multiple states to listen to the other dads talk about how great the satanic cult of diversity is and how his non citizen son is going to high end college for free ride.Oh well a couple of years it will be over.no more soccer or there stupid haircuts.

[Anonymous 7]

IRuleMe wrote:

Don’t ever be fooled by women who claim that they’re looking out for the best interest of their kids. They look out for their own interests and use the kids as tool.

From personal experience, this is true.

[Anonymous 2]

Wow a million dollars for her kid. Amazing that they will leave them. I wonder what that will do to a child when they find out? How it will affect them in all aspects of life? She’s broke to, well she can always open her legs for a dime or 2. Just as long as there’s no more kids for her to abandon! I bet she blames the man for paying her off. It’s always our faults you know!

[MGTOW KnightParticipant 7477]

IRuleMe wrote:

Don’t ever be fooled by women who claim that they’re looking out for the best interest of their kids. They look out for their own interests and use the kids as tool. Women are the nurturer’s my ass. If women were such nurturer’s they wouldn’t give their kids up for adoption, or entertain the idea of aborting them.

I couldn’t agree more!

I’m a foster kid myself, and I know how much “love” a female has…

Fuck bitches... literally and metaphorically

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

TaxGuy wrote:

And women wonder where all the good men are……….

This line is just one of a million excuses woman use to be fake victims.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

I wonder what that will do to a child when they find out? How it will affect them in all aspects of life?

I know the daughter some, my kid knows her pretty well. She seems to be fine. Her dad is a good dude and a straight shooter so I’m sure that helps. I’m guessing that whatever damage was going to be done to her was already done before the mom left. It’s probably a relief to have her gone at this point. At least she wasn’t one of the hand full of them smoking pot at night after the games.

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[CombatRollParticipant 2594]

Holy Fk – just holy fk. I know women are shallow lying whores, but selling her kids for $1M Wow.

I’ve had to manage the money for my Selfish One the entire marriage. I’ve had hidden bank accounts, not b/c I was doing anything dishonorable, but to save money. If she had access to the account she would hit it, over-and-over again and never tell me until I saw the statement.

So, she may take half of my hard earned money. She is going to get a s~~~pot of an inheritance, but unless she finds some rich old guy that doesn’t want sex and gives money freely – she will be a broke ass bitch in 3 years.

@taxguy so what are these dads doing now? Please tell me they aren’t settling down with money hungry skanks again. Say it ain’t so.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

CombatRoll wrote:

@taxguy so what are these dads doing now? Please tell me they aren’t settling down with money hungry skanks again. Say it ain’t so.

Dad 1 has dated the single mom before. She was a total bar fly, what I call “bar cute”. But they ended up breaking up. Dad 2 has a girl friend right now. But they both agreed that they are never signing a marriage contract again. Dad 1 said that every time the ex talked to her lawyer, he had to gather his divorce lawyer, the business lawyer, his parent’s personal lawyer, the parent’s business lawyer. He said it was over $1,000 an hour. Also, his parent’s said he is out of the will if he gets married again.

And Dad 2 just likes to have fun. He went to a casino Saturday and blew over $5k. Then he got a phone call Sunday morning and two of his house’s sold and he was back to being happy. He’s not settling down anytime soon. I guess having to buy your kids away from mom for over $1 million will do that to you.

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[OldBillParticipant]

TaxGuy wrote:

Also, his parent’s said he is out of the will if he gets married again.

Every man needs parents like that.

That “bar cute” phrase is one I’ll be borrowing. Thanks!

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[Anonymous 7]

CombatRoll wrote:

Holy Fk – just holy fk. I know women are shallow lying whores, but selling her kids for $1M Wow.

This happens all the time.
Celebrities ‘adopting’ children from a third world hell hole.
I don’t know if it is still a thing but friends of a friend of a friend was a dyke couple and they were trying to ‘adopt’ a child from some third world s~~~ hole.

Buy and selling humans is slavery, no?

[TaxGuyParticipant]

OldBill wrote:

That “bar cute” phrase is one I’ll be borrowing. Thanks!

You’re very welcome Old Bill. It’s funny, anytime I use that phrase guys know exactly what I’m talking about.

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[WallyParticipant]

So much truth in this thread, women don’t care about children or men but money.

"what a waste of a life, to marry, give up your freedom, just for the hope of not dying alone. Don't get married Son."

[Jack HarperParticipant 2863]

Interesting. Couple of things.

1. I don’t have that kind of money but going through my divorce I considered offering my ex $100k and she wouldn’t have to pay child support if she would give me the kids and walk away. My lawyer told me ‘no way’ that would not be a legally binding agreement. She could have taken my money and come back two years later and said she wanted custody and child support and a judge would give it to her.

2. I’ve talked to many men since my own divorce and the theme is pretty consistent; if a woman gets a payout of half a man’s life’s savings earmarked for retirement or whatever. Regardless of the amount, it’s always gone within 3-5 years. The men adapt and recover. But I feel the spinster bubble is real. Women aging and thinking they can still just find another man to take care of them.

[CombatRollParticipant 2594]

OldBill wrote:

TaxGuy wrote:

Also, his parent’s said he is out of the will if he gets married again.

Every man needs parents like that.

That “bar cute” phrase is one I’ll be borrowing. Thanks!

I’ve half jokingly made this comment to my son… the operative word being “half”.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

Jack Harper wrote:

2. I’ve talked to many men since my own divorce and the theme is pretty consistent; if a woman gets a payout of half a man’s life’s savings earmarked for retirement or whatever. Regardless of the amount, it’s always gone within 3-5 years. The men adapt and recover. But I feel the spinster bubble is real. Women aging and thinking they can still just find another man to take care of them.

I believe it 100%. The statistics are there that show that more women end up in poverty after a divorce than men. I don’t doubt that is true. What the statistics don’t tell you is that they p~~~ed away all of the cash and prizes they received during the divorce and that the men buckled down and worked harder and made recovery their number one priority. So if women consistently make out better in the divorce but end up worse off it’s the only explanation.

To put it in accounting terms, the only thing standing in between the gross sales and net income on the income statement are the expenses. It’s not my problem if cupcake can’t get her spending in line.

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[narwhalParticipant]

I don’t see these women as outright evil, because that really requires them to be as aware of how evil they are. I don’t think these women know who they are. In a sense, they are victims of their own manipulations.

I have no doubt that the exes mentioned above believed that they were the good guy. They believe that they earned a right to all the cash they were asking for. Even when they behave badly, it’s someone else’s fault for not teaching them to behave right or whatever. All their selfish decisions are either twisted to be good for their kids, or either indifferent to the kids.

Ok. Then do it.

[surfdude12Participant 4103]

Paying lawyers HUNDREDS of thousands?? How do they afford this s~~~? I couldn’t even pay a lawyer TENS of thousands

[AttonParticipant]

She would no longer have any say in what happened to her children that she carried around in her body for nine months. No rights to visitation. Nothing.

So much for the sacred bond of mother and child, that is what one can call a total victory.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

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