Conniving ex strikes again

[MGTOW@50Participant 225]

I’m fuming right now

I’m new here, posted my intro yesterday, for some context I’m divorced with 2 sons, and currently married and heading toward my 2nd divorce. I have 50% custody of my sons which means I am a f—ing taxi driver for the past 10 years.

My oldest finally gets his license several months ago, I insure him on my policy. Discuss with ex splitting a car and agree on a price that I’m willing to contribute. She ends up spending twice that amount and then tells him he cannot drive to my house (15 minutes away).

When I email her for a resolution, after all I pay half the insurance, she tries to extort several thousand from me to pay for half the car.

A few minutes ago my son calls and says she won’t let him drive to my house so he’s going to stay there.

I send her this text: “I will be cancelling {son’s} insurance tomorrow.”

Her response: “What? Why?”

Me: “I’m not gonna play your silly little game. It’s your car, you insure him.”

Rapid succession of texts from the c~~~:

“Seriously? You’re the one playing games.”

“You never cease to disappoint.”

“Typical bulls~~~. Grow up. I go above and beyond and you try to screw me over time and again. Get over yourself. I’m NOT playing a game and I’m not your pawn.”

“You should be ashamed of yourself. You screw your kid over for your ego. Good guy!”

And 4 more that I won’t bore you with.

My MGTOW response: “Stop texting me”

Complete EVIL. F~~~!!!

[JVBParticipant]

Sorry brother. I hope you get to see your boy.

Peace is > piece.

[AwakenedParticipant 35201]

Typical Vindictive C~~~ !!!

And, your lil cupcake probably wonders, “Where have all the Good Men Gone ?”

These F~~~in HOE’S treat their husband(s) like s~~~, and then come to the conclusion that it’s the man’s fault because he obviously just wasn’t GOOD Enough.

Dumb broads DESERVE to turn into Ole Hags Living with 50 cats !!

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[Mr. SpockParticipant 10910]

Make sure you archive the texts. At some point she may try to use them against you.

Feminism isn't about equality with men, it's about leverage over men.

[Anonymous 7]

And she is telling your boy what a meanie you are.
One day if he doesn’t already he will know and understand.

I truly don’t understand why they weaponize kids just to f~~~ someone over.

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22515]

He will understand one day. Kids should not know everything going on and be in the middle so much. She will do this but you do not have to. Later on you can explain when it makes sense to do so without being deep in it with your wife.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[LonestarParticipant 333]

I paid the max amount in child support for my son. The only extras that I gave my son were WAM (walkin’ around money) and presents. I think that worked out best. Don’t call to nickel and dime me, it’s covered in the child support.

It helped me remember it wouldn’t last forever.

So often times it happens that we live our lives in chains and we never even know we have the key. Eagles

[MGTOW@50Participant 225]

This is strictly a business decision between she and I but, of course, she will use this to turn my own son against me.

I have shielded these boys from the s~~~ she pulled, her infidelity, lies, it’s endless.

“Look what your father is doing…..”

“See what an asshole he is….”

Tired of this s~~~.

[MGTOW@50Participant 225]

F~~~ing bad enough I have to deal with all the s~~~ with my current wife/separation/divorce, now more from the last c~~~.

Double-dipping

[NerdTunnelerParticipant]

And the shaming and manipulation continues…They need drama in their lives…Starve them of it because it is diverting your energy from productive endeavors to useless s~~~…

I stand with feet apart and let my balls hang free...Manginas dont have balls...See how they stand and sit at the whim of their masters...

[Anonymous 42]

Reading s~~~ like this I’m counting my blessings and realizing I have more than some millionaires will ever have!

Sovereignty and freedom! I’m FILTHY RICH!

[MGTOW@50Participant 225]

I truly want to thank you men for the support and sanity.

I think I’m having flashbacks to the evil and manipulation I had to deal with going through divorcing her 10 years ago. I’m simply not participating this time around.

Sent her one more text after speaking to the insurance company informing her that {son’s} insurance ends at midnight tonight.

She replied with 7 rabid, evil texts.

Me: Crickets

[StealthParticipant 5335]

At least you had leverage in the game. My ex got out of paying property and income taxes we both owed, since the penalty was coming after the house, which I had just bought her out of days previous.

It sounds like not honoring your “half” when she stopped honoring hers was definitely the right move. Welcome.

"Once you’ve taken care of the basics, there’s very little in this world for which your life is worth deferring." -David Hansson. "It’s not when women are mean or nasty that anything is out of the ordinary. It’s when they are NICE to you that you have to be on high alert..." -Jackinov.

[Heave-Ho MgtowParticipant 1797]

Number 1 is feeding off the opening by number 2 to extract pain and resources. You have friends here brother. Try and minimize text messaging, c~~~s love it. Communication requires effort on thier part, they can text and run away. Stay on target.

skip the cavernous vag and go your own way

[HermitParticipant 1121]

Damn. I feel for you. Hang in there. There is a light at the end of the tunnel and I swear it isn’t an oncoming train. It’s freedom!

I don't hate women. I just feel better when they're not around.

[DorkShitParticipant 4353]

Sanity happens when you don’t react.

She made a rule that he can’t drive car to your house.

This is just a bull s~~~ control rule. It is nothing but air.

Think about it. Could your parents tell you where you could go when you got your car? Did you listen? Or, did you say, yeah, whatever?

If you would have done nothing then nothing would result.

Now, there is drama. You stirred the pot and your leg is all wet.

Take your hand out of the pot.

All this did was cause your blood pressure to elevate.

I know how hard it is to do nothing. We all hate to hear people tell us to do nothing. But, until you perfect nothing your leg will continue to get wet and your blood pressure will rise until your heart explodes. All for nothing.

Peace brothers

[MGTOW@50Participant 225]

DorkShit wrote:

Sanity happens when you don’t react.

She made a rule that he can’t drive car to your house.

This is just a bull s~~~ control rule. It is nothing but air.

Think about it. Could your parents tell you where you could go when you got your car? Did you listen? Or, did you say, yeah, whatever?

If you would have done nothing then nothing would result.

Now, there is drama. You stirred the pot and your leg is all wet.

Take your hand out of the pot.

All this did was cause your blood pressure to elevate.

I know how hard it is to do nothing. We all hate to hear people tell us to do nothing. But, until you perfect nothing your leg will continue to get wet and your blood pressure will rise until your heart explodes. All for nothing.

Agreed…for the most part.

Doing nothing would result in my continued ‘taxi service’ while also paying for the insurance. i.e. she successfully would be draining my resources with no benefit to me.

I ended my subsidy to her and will still be the ‘taxi service’. I did not react or respond to any of her hysterics, simply refused to be taken advantage of.

[IRuleMeParticipant]

Wimmin are the queens of childish behavior. There’s no excuse for acting like that. But rather than a last resort, it’s the first. All the time.

[bstoffParticipant 4863]

Don’t refer to your kids visits as “taxi service” to your kids. They will assume you resent them and turn against you.
Try to ensure your communications, visits and time spent with them are as pleasant as possible. They will grow to appreciate the positivity from you as a relief from the negativity exhibited by your ex.
Try not to let the kids know anything about the divorce itself unless they ask you directly, and even then spoon feed them only what they WANT to know. Don’t slip in the infidelity issues, etc., unless it’s absolutely necessary.

I’ve been there and I know how bad it gets.

Hang in there and make your kids memory of you during this time as positive as possible because those memories are going to be prominent and last for their entire lives.

[MonkParticipant 16988]

As other posters have already said, with c~~~s it’s nothing but greed, spite and drama. They are not susceptible to reason.

Just shut them down.

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