Confessions of Divorced Women

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This is the result of being provided constant stimulation and entertainment. People are now dependent on it. It has become so instantaneous that any brief boredom is solve by changing the channel, checking Facebook, email, opening an app. There is so little self-responsibility for alleviating boredom and so great a dependence on the things that surround you to provide it. It is no wonder that relationships and marriage are befalling to this lifestyle.

I’m bored of you, or our relationship doesn’t entertain me. Alleviating boredom should require action on your part, not someone else’s. Go read a book, develop a hobby, volunteer, or participate in an activity. Being entertained is a passive situation where another entity speaks, behaves, or acts in a way to make you happy. People need to learn to cure their own boredom and entertain themselves.

We’ve all seen the look of panic in a friend or coworker who forgot their cell phone at home for a few hours. The same realization comes to those who are dependent on their S.O. When they can’t constantly entertain and stimulate them. Thus, they lose interest and look elsewhere.

A co-worker recently told me, "If you want to see who someone really is, divorce them." I have found out how true this is. When your wife drops the façade of being the caring partner, you will witness all of the greed, hate, and spite that she has masked. It is truly breathtaking!

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