Common courtesy implies insecurity? Lesson learned.

[dobsin593Participant 239]

One of the big lessons I learned in the workplace and out is the way women have redefined or maybe always thought of common courtesy.
Opening a door for a woman, giving her a hand with something she asks for help with, carrying something for her, fixing something for her, etc…
In a vanishing era of bygone ladies and gentleman, we were originally taught that women were ladylike, fragile,and were deserving of certain chivalry like help from men.
These days however and throughout my past, women have exploited the common courtesy a man would show her to redefine it as weakness in him.
In his mind, he may even see what he is doing as a show of equality to be expected back. That’s not what he gets.
She sees him as being insecure around women for doing these things and in desperate need of her approval.
If he continues to show her common courtesy, she will then eventually turn it into a massive power trip on him to ‘see what she can make him do for her.’
Oftentimes ‘satan in panties’ will be the result.
I often, in being detached, watched a woman ask a guy for help with something she could have obviously done herself. Lazinesss? Power tripping? Attention seeking?
I even once heard a woman call a guy a gullible, sucker after he helped her carry something.
On the other hand ironically,if a guy doesn’t show her courtesy she will complain about that too out of the other side of her mouth.
In their eyes nothing is good enough and anything good they are given is abused to the full.
Being detached, ghosting it(as one guy on the forum put it), and focusing on your life is much better
and never concerning yourself with any damsels in distress notions around you.
Funny the first few times i ignored a woman asking me for help with something she didn’t really need help with, listening to her complain about me saying I don’t listen, and I can’t take being told what to do(shaming and guilt tactics followed).
Seeing through all this now in MGTOW has opened my eyes in this area a lot.

[Back in BlackParticipant 1732]

Yes, who gives a f~~~ if a lying, trashy trollop disapproves of anything we may do or not do.

"Women are directly adapted to act as the nurses and educators of our early childhood, for the simple reason that they themselves are childish, foolish, and short-sighted—in a word, are big children all their lives, something intermediate between the child and the man, who is a man in the strict sense of the word. Consider how a young girl will toy day after day with a child, dance with it and sing to it; and then consider what a man, with the very best intentions in the world, could do in her place.” Quote from Arthur Shopenhauer, 17th century philosopher

[GeraldParticipant 3654]

I stopped holding doors about a month ago, the looks are priceless. Love it.

No longer can we walk away, we must run. Remove the motive power.

[Pedal, run, rowParticipant]

Gerald wrote:

I stopped holding doors about a month ago, the looks are priceless. Love it.

Eventually you will stop even noticing or caring about the looks.
I have no idea how they react. They are simply invisible to me.

[Cap285Participant 6007]

Just don’t be courteous anymore.

Everything is backwards now. Completely f~~~ing backwards.

They like being treated like s~~~. Who am I to deny them that?

It’s what they wanted.

Fuck this planet.

[Anonymous 0]

I’m still polite, but I can instantly become a dick really fast.

I am a most excellent dick. I can even give references. 🙂

[Ice-JiubParticipant 491]

I show common courtesy to fellow men. At least you always get a word of thanks out of it.
If I wouldn’t do it for a man, I won’t do it for a woman just because “vagina”.

[Anonymous 3]

They are just awful, base creatures, whose words are completely and utterly worthless.

Our forefathers weren’t evil assholes like ungrateful women have insisted they are. These men built society, took women out of caves and made their lives as easy as possible. But they knew female nature, and knew that the idea that women had the necessary traits for a fair and just society was utterly absurd. So they placed restrictions, and created trust between men. They punished bad behavior, like burglary or robbery or abuse of power harshly, so that people could show kindness and be safe in it.

This was thrown away, along with feminism, because women and the men that behave like them are always out to cheat others and think nothing of it. And good men became too soft and foolish to understand the necessity of punishing the bad. Good men thought it was “mercy” or “kindness” to not punish, thus the bad people, who only understand force and can only be deterred, got more and more brazen. And yes, women are the worst of all people, and when you look to women as a moral compass this is what you get for it.

[Anonymous 6]

My own experience has shown me that women take both kindness and politness as weakness outright and then many of them try to exploit it to their advantage and gain. Boy do they get surprised when the full on asshole comes out when they try it with me.

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

Unless you are talking to members of the brotherhood theres no reason to be nice.

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

[AntipathyParticipant 4901]

i open doors when there is a man present, should see how bitches react when you only look at their bf or husband while holding the door … they get bothered, and the guys instant reaction is a smile and “thanks” because he’s not used to being acknowledged.

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