After countless girlfriends, marriage, divorce, short term dating and long term dating, I’ve come to know the real essence of what women mean when they say they are looking for “Commitment”. Their definition is far different from our own, which I would define as:
-Man’s definition of Commitment: “I won’t cheat on you, or leave you.”
I think this is why marriage is so ridiculous to us in the first place. If your relationship is going well with your girlfriend, then by Man’s definition of commitment, We’re already Committed.
Marriage is an extremely expensive redundancy, and entirely unneccessary to a well run relationship.
Women, on the other hand, have an entirely different definition of “Commitment”. Thus:
Woman’s definition of Commitment: A legal, binding contract between plow horse and princess. A pension plan, a retirement account, a government backed guarantee against all losses in the transaction.
After being divorce raped and learning of MGTOW (God, I wish MGTOW were around before I got married) I’ve really expended some mental effort in understanding the female psyche and why they are so crazy. This, of course, is just the tip of the ice berg.
I’ve proven these differences in definition by playing a little back and forth with my last ex, who was hell bent on getting married ASAP. I’d recommend any Man with a girlfriend harping about marriage try this:
“Honey, I don’t want to ruin the romance with lawyers, government contracts and getting the state and federal government in our affairs. Why don’t we just hold our own ceremony, for us? We aren’t religous, we don’t need a preacher or anyone to ordain anything. If you want vows and a commitment we can do that without any government involvement or paperwork whatsoever. We can even do it with our families present, just like you pictured. Let’s just leave the paperwork out of it.”
OOOOhhhh boy. That one lit a fuse under her Ass!!! It essentially placed her in checkmate, as it gives her everything a girl could want in a wedding…. except the contract. If a sworn commitment is all she wanted, well there it is. In front of God, family and everyone else. That should make her happy, right!?
HAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!!!!!!!!
She back pedalled out of that one, quick!!! Of course my mother has chimed in her two cents, which only adds to my list of evidence that a contract is what women really want out of marriage. My mother said, “women just want to make sure they are taken care of.”
Ah hah. There it is again. That no matter what, they are gonna get theirs. They are very cunningly ensuring their long term well being is being secured, at the Mans expense. They want to enter into a contract that they can back out of at anytime, yet still garner the same rewards due to legalize within the aforementioned contract.
When arguing these points with my sister and mother, I asked why women needed a contract. What was it that women wanted to be ensured access to? Their answer: Money, financial stability. Again, “they wanted to be taken care of.”
So then I asked what was it that women brought to the table. What was it that Men were being ensured access to? Their answer, VERY swiftly, was Sex. Sex is what women brought to the table, followed distantly by child bearing.
I ended the conversation by stating that once sex was a legally guaranteed responsibility of the woman to the Man, enforcable by court order even after a divorce, then men might start coming to the bargaining table. Until then, this bait and switch ponzie scheme is t~~~ up. Men have become aware of the raw deal, and we aren’t signing S~~~.
If my ex wife gets alimony because she bailed out trying (and failing) to monkey branch, yet gets money from me every month because they are now “used to a standard of living” the only way to even begin making this fair is by having her come to my house three times a week to blow me, clean my house and wash my clothes without talking or complaining.
Thats your end of the bargain, sweetheart.
Nomad 2 years, 6 months ago.
