"Come out tonight!"

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

I just got a text from a woman I know… 12:50pm on a Friday night…

“U up?”

I know it’s not going to be good but I enjoy shooting down bulls~~~ so I let her make her case…

“Yeah, what’s going on?”

Then she calls. Now whenever someone calls me, I know there’s some bulls~~~ in the works and I’m already on alert.

“Where you at?”
“At home. Why?”
“I’m out with Ryan and Bryan… come out!”

Ryan is her somewhat estranged husband and Bryan is a buddy of theirs who I also know.

“Where are you guys?”
“Bippity boppity blah blah some bar name. I was out and I ran into Ryan and Bryan…”
“Sorry, I’m not coming out tonight.”
“I’m stuck with them… it would be nice to have a friend…”
“Sorry, I’m not going out tonight.”
“Great, thanks a LOT. Love you too!”
“Good luck.” <hangs up>

She just wanted me to come and be on her side… against a guy I know and her own f~~~ing husband. What, so they can both assume I’m trying to f~~~ her? So I can end up spending time and money white knighting for some dumb c~~~ I don’t even care about? I’d rather sit at home, play with my new camera, drink cheap beer and watch a dumb movie.

Sorry sweetheart, it’s your problem, not mine. I’ve got no time for your bulls~~~. Honestly, are there really so many men who will just jump to kiss a woman’s ass that they just assume it now without question?

[ChuddoxParticipant 585]

Stargazer wrote:

Honestly, are there really so many men who will just jump to kiss a woman’s ass that they just assume it now without question?

Yes, she is looking for a pussy beggar to save her. You should make it clear now that you aren’t that person. I find the manipulations are many, and range from the blatantly obvious to the very subtle.

“Civilized men are more discourteous than savages because they know they can be impolite without having their skulls split, as a general thing.” - Robert E. Howard

[clint englandParticipant 341]

I have to say i find it quite astonishing the network of guys these women have to take up slack for various tasks they want doing. Be it money, transport, shoulder to cry on or sex.

I remember when i was young a girl who hung with us and was attractive used a guy i knew to drive her and her friends all over the place and he was quite happy to be called at anytime in the middle of the night to pick her up if she didn’t find a c~~~ to ride.

The guy lived in desperate hope that he would be one of those c~~~s she’d ride and tried it on with her on several occasions but she would just play him. He did snap out of it eventually but it took a long, long time! I could see what was happening and what she was doing even back then. It was and is incredible the power a hot girl has over many guys.

I’m lucky in that i know very few women now a days and although i do get invited still to bars, i never go. Instead i always make the offer of meeting for a coffee during the day or hitting a deserted out of favour bar in the town.

This is never usually good enough for many of my mostly now married ‘friends’ as the real reason they want to go out isn’t to spend some chum time with a buddy but to perv at and try to f~~~ another hottie. And if this happens they’ll leave you at the bar in an instant. They never learn!

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

Chuddox wrote:

Yes, she is looking for a pussy beggar to save her. You should make it clear now that you aren’t that person. I find the manipulations are many, and range from the blatantly obvious to the very subtle.

If I have not made my lack of interest in this woman clear before, it is clear to her now.

[Anonymous 54]

There are no boundrys any more. Haveing female friends is a miss guided concept.They only use you and play you. Have nothing to do with bitches that have “male freinds”

[Mr. SpockParticipant 10911]

In my 20’s I would’ve jumped at that chance and been happy because MAYBE it’ll lead to me tapping that. That’s the mindset that women play on. It sounds like she is trying to surround herself with as many men as she can to make herself look good to the other women there.
So many guys in the past probably used to jump on that for her so now she naturally assumes that men will trip over themselves to accommodate her.

Feminism isn't about equality with men, it's about leverage over men.

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

Have a female friend, is the worst thing any male can ever have.

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

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