College MGTOW

[Jay PetersonParticipant 37]

Hi, I am close to graduating from college. I am in a stem field ( computer science). All the friends I made were thirsty manginas that orbit around college girls. I have no friends at the moment. I do not want to date since I do not want to get falsely charged with tapes. I am planning to go on vacations in the future to bang prostitutes in other countries. I am worried about my parents. My mother thinks that women can do no wrong just like the feminists. My dad is a tradcon and wants me to get married with kids. I do not want to go to parties on campus because of how irresponsible other kids are with drinking and drugs. I do not trust anyone on campus. The school therapist is anti man and does not look out for me. No adult cares about me. They care about only protecting college girls from responsibility and men. Should I ghost and disappear from society ( living in a small apartment or a tiny house) or should I help my parents? I don’t know what to do. Please help me.

[Solo MAN’S WisdomParticipant]

I’m an adult, Jay. And I care about you.

Jay Peterson wrote:

Should I ghost and disappear from society ( living in a small apartment or a tiny house) or should I help my parents?

Becoming a hermit is counterproductive – your focus becomes a “self focus” and that’s destructive in the long run. Use your talents/STEM skills to better society — give something back, even if you have to volunteer your time or money to do it.
You can “help” your parents WITHOUT getting married or fathering a bunch of kids. You can honor your parents by becoming the best man you can be.

Dig deeply in to these forums and note the similarities of our stories [multiple divorces, children being used as manipulative devices by ex-wives, men stripped of their dignity/income/sanity by vindictive women. Learn from OUR mistakes, so you can make fewer of your own.

When women lead, destruction is the destination. -- Me.

[FullMetalExoParticipant 2383]

Welcome to the website!
I want to cut to the core, we have a Man once called Stealthy, he is one of many inspirations/shares valuable and definite tips. He is a coder. Check this and his other threads he creates, he got a ton.

Stealthy, success Formula

How I would say it:
1. You are in a minefield. Acknowledge that to survive. It’s Survival. STEALTH.
2. Keep yourself safe and finish the education. Concentrate on self improvement, have a Goal.
3. While in education, start already with a PROJECT. Always have something going.
4. Make money. Get a job or make your own. Always continue on your Project.
5. Improve yourself, read outside the program (check books here, aswell as books on coding/pc science/logic etc.). Get more experience.
6. Keep your Time, your Money and Health to yourself. Improve upon them.
7. Learn to take a break/relax, get energy and continue on your life’s Projects.
8. Always prioritize self-improvement, health and spending your finite resource – TIME, on things you enjoy or value.

PS. I once was in exactly that, computer sciences, but I didn’t graduate and now Im in Medicine instead. I found that I much prefer my sweet gaming PC as a hobby and not work, and working with people/helping people is my focus now instead.

I wish you the best of luck and make sure to listen, read and research things yourself ! Cheers !

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[RoyDalParticipant]

Ditto what the two previous posts say.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[RegularJoughParticipant 258]

Hello.

I can tell you that feeling withdrawn and the “answer” you can easily come to is being a hermit.

I’m doing it right now. It really blows.

I would highly recommend doing ANYTHING outside your home. Do anything. Go do homework at the library, go to the movies, go walk, get the hell out of your house. I know, it’s hard, home feels safe, home is where your stuff is, home is where you go when your done “doing” stuff.

Home is not your friend if home is your only friend.

Trust me on this.

I wanted to post this in my other thread that I add on to regularly, and I will, but I’d like to extend out my time to any man, or any man any of you know that could use a friendly understanding ear.

I live in Western Massachusetts, Shelbunre to be exact. If anyone is in the area, and would benefit from a face to face conversation, I can help.

Shit tested, Brother approved.

[TuneoutParticipant]

Jay Peterson wrote:

bang prostitutes in other countries

Welcome brother and be careful with that,hidden dangers
regarding other countries laws and customs besides in
some that hot chick might just turn out to be a guy!

As for friends remember,choose them,don’t let them choose you.

Better to have one or two good ones rather than a bunch of ‘good time’ buddies.

Lifes a bitch,but you don't have to marry one!

[FullMetalExoParticipant 2383]

Solo MAN’S Wisdom wrote:

Use your talents/STEM skills to better society — give something back, even if you have to volunteer your time or money to do it.

I think that’s the worst thing he can do to his life at this point.
He needs to help and better himself FIRST.
His Time should be spent on becoming self-sufficient/independent ASAP and making Money.

I wish I was 16 years old again, I would make way better use of my Time.

Once he is independent with spare income and time, sure, he can help others but at first he needs to help himself.
In order for me to help others (people, not society – f~~~ society) I had to get my own life on track first.

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[Jay PetersonParticipant 37]

Thanks guys, I have a hobby which is PC gaming and I plan on improving the economy with my future job ( possibly in programming). I plan on improving my own life since it is the only life I have. My parents will be hard to persuade since they are Indian and authoritative. They already had their lives. I need to live mine whether people want to be with me or not.

[FullMetalExoParticipant 2383]

Jay Peterson wrote:

Thanks guys, I have a hobby which is PC gaming and I plan on improving the economy with my future job ( possibly in programming). I plan on improving my own life since it is the only life I have. My parents will be hard to persuade since they are Indian and authoritative. They already had their lives. I need to live mine whether people want to be with me or not.

I was blessed you could say, with patient, understanding parents man.
I was comfortably wasting my time, doing nothing and I wish I could get like 9+ years back. Im 28 years old now. I never was motivated to progress with my life until until 3 years ago.

I hope that no matter the hardships of what you feel/experience right now – you press on with your life. Don’t waste time, commit to the profession you want, improve-yourself (doesn’t mean you need to be a hermit, just be aware of situation around you and choose carefully who you are friends with). Make sure to cut off anything/anyone negative, and stay positive man.

Im not a very experienced guy, I avoided many situation in life yes, but I wasted too much of a time. Take care man, cheers !

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[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

welcome sir, i’m glad you found the path to freedom.
enjoy the forums and the website

Jay Peterson wrote:

Should I ghost and disappear from society ( living in a small apartment or a tiny house) or should I help my parents?

what do you mean by help your parents? unless they are sick, they shouldn’t need your help. You are your own unique person, who cares what your father thinks. Tradcon ideals perhaps worked many years ago, but it is a disaster in current times.

Do not, under any conditions, sign the marriage contract.

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[DorkShitParticipant 4353]

You are already way ahead of most. You understand destructive behavior and have avoided it so far.

Your blind spot appears to be your parents. Two things a child can never do. 1. Move the sun closer to the earth. 2. Change parents to be what they want.

Study mgtow. 10 years from now your parents will be who they are.

Worry about you.

Peace brothers

[joetechParticipant]

OK, son. I’ll take a stab with some prudent advice. I’ve always been a bit of a loner…not a hermit. I would advise all young men to follow this path, but I’m not you. This is just an opinion(we all know how those sometimes smell).
1) Get a vasectomy now! It’s the only reproductive right you have. Always have your own condoms if your shooting live ammunition. A common trick is to poke holes in the package with a safety pin. That’s why they break.
2)Never get married. Join a ski club, a singles club, a tennis club…whatever. Keep your personal life personal…and don’t let pushy people talk you in to investing with their broker(Bernie Madoff anyone?)
3)Do like the song says…’harden your heart and swallow your tears’. Throughout your life you’ll gain experience and insight. Maybe you’ll even find that ‘one’ we’re all looking for. Maybe not. Find your purpose in life and you may not always be happy, but you’ll always be motivated, and that’s the key. And years from now when your divorced friends tell you how lucky you are, you can smile knowing that it wasn’t luck at all. It’s all about choices in life…”what to leave in, what to leave out.”

"Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

[Anonymous 3]

Jay Peterson wrote:

Should I ghost and disappear from society

Someone already said here: you disappear into the herd, not going outside the herd. That is where you stand out and get attacked.

So, you can follow KeyMaster’s words: the world is your stage, and you perform your part.

You can and should learn the part of a blue piller. Just enough to fool the herd.

[Jay PetersonParticipant 37]

Thanks again for the advice. I’ve stayed in a single room without roommates and that is only a taste of what life is like as a ghost. I never liked the party scene or being around rowdy people. I was always more of an introvert. Not having friends does not bother me. What bothers me are people who claim to be on my side but cover up hypocrisy. My therapist and other adults on campus are not helping me, because they would be going against the feminist agenda. They only defend feminism just like the SJWs. I am not going to talk to them anymore and I will become my own role model. There are fewer male role models and the only male role model is probably myself since my own father never taught me to be a man.

[joetechParticipant]

What it means to be a man has changed over the decades. What it means to be a true human being…a never ending journey of self discovery. It’s called life. Choose your own role models and learn to thrive.

"Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

[Sparticus66Participant 508]

What I would give to be back at college age with your knowledge. I always felt unease with the bad deal men were getting and I was never going to pander to women the way so many of my beta friends did. BUT there was no internet then and one therfore no MGTOW advice. Men were surrounded by betas and pussy whipped male relatives. I used to be fearful that I’d end up doing alone as my dad did but now I see his death as high quality. A ww2 vet that died in an armchair looking at birds feeding in the garden. A good age too. I’ll settle for that end!
Anyway. Just think of the places you can visit. Such lovely places to see. You can hire or buy a great car or motorbike or mountain bike and go on trails. The world is open to you. And the worst thing for your parents to see would be a depressed husband whose life is rendered awful by his ‘loving’ wife! Please take a huge bite out of all the world has to offer. You owe it to yourself. You owe nothing to anyone else

[Sparticus66Participant 508]

That’s a great offer to people. I wish there were MGTOW meetings like AA. We could all do with the support

I totally agree. I have at least an hour every morning before work sitting I’m a cafe, chatting to people sometimes and reading inspirational stuff. We are human and need interaction. I think once we realise we can get such interaction with many people we feel less tempted to desire a relations~~~

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