College Life

[CaliParticipant 753]

As a few of you have heard, I’ve gone to college. A nice Christian college in So Cal, where the people are actually really nice, both guys and girls, and life is going well. If there are NAWALTS in the world, they are here. Don’t worry, though, I plan to go against the crowd and avoid romantic relationships here. The only problem is that most of my closer friends here are already talking about possibly setting me up with girls, despite my expressed preference against such things. Even my roommate, who is a legitimately nice guy, has talked about it. You guys should know that when I say that the people here are nice, I mean that I haven’t yet met anyone who was unkind to me in any way, even after a week. Literally, these are the happiest and most legitimately nice people I’ve ever been around, and they are awesome. I just don’t really want a relationship. It’s almost like the college admissions process here weeded out all the jerks.

My thoughts are as follows: Most of the people here probably legitimately want me to be happy, so I don’t intend to be rude, especially as I will be spending the next four years at this school. I can’t play the gay card (and I wouldn’t lie like that anyways), because that’s a reputation I would never want to deal with for the next four years. My friends will likely not stop trying to set me up unless I figure out a way to discourage them, so I was trying to figure out a way to do so. Any appropriate thoughts would be appreciated. Please keep in mind that this is a Christian institution, and these are friends I respect.

Sorry about the extended radio silence, I’m going stealth here, and trying to avoid the risk of being outed, at least for the moment.

Just a misogynist virgin hiding away in his mother's basement. Nothing to see here...

[Silverstone the SecondParticipant]

Tell them you want to wait for marriage to get involved. Tell them you have plans to go volunteer in Africa for a few years so settling down with a woman “wouldn’t be fair to her” if you got married and left for a few years. Tell them you are practicing abstinence and you don’t trust yourself to avoid “temptation” when meeting girls. Tell them you already have a nice girl in mind way back home, some nice girl you’re “saving yourself for” and she’s “saving herself for you.”

Tell them you appreciate all their good intentions but you just want to focus on your studies for now and will look after college for a woman.

Feminism is a movement where opinions are presented as facts and emotions are presented as evidence.

[RoyDalParticipant]

Tell her you will be bitterly disappointed if you do not father at least twelve children on her. That should cool her jets.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[chirParticipant]

Simple.
Tell them you want to focus 100% on your studies and are afraid you would not have the time to devote to her needs.
You are not there to start a family. You are there for YOUR future. Your future is in your hands, don’t drop your future to grab some t~~~.
You have one shot at this. Life doesn’t have “do overs”. About 25% of the women there are searching for the Mrs. degree. Be on your toes, and if you are going to partake of the meat taco, remember the warning signals.
1) Honey lets do it raw, I’m on the pill.
2) She clamps down on you so you can’t pull out when you blow and jams you damn near in her uterus.

It is by caffeine alone I set my mind in motion, it is by the beans of Java that thoughts acquire speed, the hands acquire shaking, the shaking becomes a warning; it is by caffeine alone I set my mind in motion.

[Tiga KParticipant 1693]

Tell them “no thank you” and if they ask why, say “I’d like to keep that to myself”. Its not rude and its your choice to make. If these guys are truely your friends, they will respect your boundaries.

[Stan1192Participant 178]

A week is usually not a long enough time for grudges, misunderstandings and problems to be born so don’t let your guard down just in case. No need to be rude but don’t be naive either.
About to start my studies myself so good luck to you man !

[Anonymous 3]

You need a consistent and stern stance on focusing on your life and career. If you make this evident enough it could discourage them from bothering you.

I really don’t understand why girls can get away with this so easily but if a guy goes his own way he’s shamed and put down for being a virgin.

I’m glad I dropped out of college and I’m stepping away from the Christian community. Good luck man, you will need it. Sometimes the church can be as bad as the outside. It just attacks you at different angles you don’t expect.

[SamsquanchParticipant 4226]

I don’t think you have to worry about getting laid at a Christian university…I’m sure the people are nice, but they are Tradcons.

[joetechParticipant]

Just tell these nice, Christian friends of yours that you don’t appreciate them trying to orchestrate such a personal aspect of your life and to but out. Your real friends will understand. You don’t need the rest of them. Christians can be hypocrites, too.

"Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

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