cognitive dissonance

[Northern SoulParticipant 186]

I am really enjoying my MGTOW existence but I sense people are less accepting of my new life. I think a lot of those close to me thought not diving back into dating was a natural response to an horrendous divorce but that it would soon pass. Well it hasn’t and now they are less accepting. When people ask I just say I have opted out and that I value time with my son, career, personal time and money far too much to be bothering myself with relationships. I have been called cynical, selfish etc (and worse) by both women and men to my face. There have also been subtle changes in attitudes and behaviours towards me. There are a number of my friends who remain single and experience this also.

I am not bothered – I am a free man – but it is just not something I expected. I suspect they are the ones in denial as they just can’t accept that I have chosen a life for myself and not one which I should follow as prescribed by society. Cognitive dissonance is a natural defence mechanism but really what are people so afraid of ? We are supposed to live in this so called “tolerant”, “inclusive” and “progressive” society but I have yet to experience this.

[Sky-OParticipant 18952]

Misery loves company.

Fck those sheep.

None of my miserably married with kids, working 50-60 hours a week buddys like any of my skydiving videos that I’ve been posting weekly on Facebook since May.

Because they are freakin’ miserable.

Meanwhile, a pumpkin posts what she is eating for lunch or a self and gets approximately 114 likes.

Fck ’em all.

[MACHOParticipant]

Northern Soul wrote:

When people ask I just say I have opted out and that I value time with my son, career, personal time and money far too much to be bothering myself with relationships. I have been called cynical, selfish etc (and worse) by both women and men to my face

You can tell them that Being Single is In , the trend is increasing in that direction! for instance check out this article ⬇

More people than ever before are single – and that’s a good thing

You must own a better Crystal ball than I

[Anonymous 7]

Northern Soul wrote:

I have been called cynical, selfish etc (and worse) by both women and men to my face

IDK how old you are but when I got to a certain age people stopped saying s~~~ to me about it.

As for the dudes, the ones that are getting in your face now will be jealous af down the road.

As for the weemins, who gives a s~~~ what they say?
Blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.
Go make me a sammich. And for f~~~s sake wash your f~~~ing hands first.

[Eric LauderParticipant 12043]

Northern Soul wrote:

I am really enjoying my MGTOW existence but I sense people are less accepting of my new life. I think a lot of those close to me thought not diving back into dating was a natural response to an horrendous divorce but that it would soon pass. Well it hasn’t and now they are less accepting. When people ask I just say I have opted out and that I value time with my son, career, personal time and money far too much to be bothering myself with relationships. I have been called cynical, selfish etc (and worse) by both women and men to my face. There have also been subtle changes in attitudes and behaviours towards me. There are a number of my friends who remain single and experience this also.

I am not bothered – I am a free man – but it is just not something I expected. I suspect they are the ones in denial as they just can’t accept that I have chosen a life for myself and not one which I should follow as prescribed by society. Cognitive dissonance is a natural defence mechanism but really what are people so afraid of ? We are supposed to live in this so called “tolerant”, “inclusive” and “progressive” society but I have yet to experience this.

You should be bothered, because it mean that you didn’t understand the concept of stealth.
Being healthy also include not being constantly harassed by people about your relationship status.
Don’t boast “I opted out”
Use ambiguous and unclear, witty, answers.

“Do you have a woman?”
“Sometimes”

“Do you have a woman?”
“Once yes, in the future probably, right now: too much work, too much stress, some debts to pay”

“Debts” being a powerful word. It doesn’t matter if you don’t actually have debts, people cannot know and you can refer to many different things.

Always smile when answering.

Remember:

Why is the rabbit smiling?
Not because he’s running around proclaiming he’s a free rabbit.
Because he’s avoiding the vixens.

“tolerant” is buzzword meaning “women are always right”

SUPREME LEADER KIM JONG-UN'S FASHION STYLIST - if you want a new look or if you're a very beautiful trans you can call me, phone number +85079255312 / mobile 01921421211. The worth of a man isn't the usefulness that women get from him. Avoiding living with a woman, a man isn't rejecting a lot of sex: he's rejecting sexual starvation. MGTOW IS TACKLING DOMESTIC VIOLENCE IN COMPLIANCE WITH CONVENTION OF ISTANBUL: http://www.coe.int/en/web/conventions/full-list/-/conventions/rms/090000168008482e --- Article 4, Section 4 "Special measures that are necessary to prevent and protect women from gender-based violence shall not be considered discrimination under the terms of this Convention". WHAT I LEARNT FROM A GENDER STUDIES CLASS IN LUND, SWEDEN: every time feminists accuses men of doing something, odds are likely either them or persons associated with them are doing the exact same thing but a lot worse. WHO I'M RIGHT NOW https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J1okpAj7Fhw Basically my former life have been a conflict between this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yz_RQVkvke4 and this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dFIMeyTK-sU That's, more or less, all about me.

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22564]

You are not living for them.

You are living for you, your son, and what is important to you.

If they have hangups about your life and wanting to remain single and unattached, that’s their problem. Must be nice to have so much time to be bothered about what you’re doing.

And the whole selfish thing. Everything people do is selfish. Why did they have kids? They WANTED them. That’s selfish. When you ask them why have kids, they say “Not dying alone/having someone to take care of you when you are old” – BOTH SELFISH REASONS.

Everything people do is selfish. The main reasons they will tell you why you should have kids are selfish.

Just laugh. They are just superficial folks drifting in the matrix.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[StealthParticipant 5390]

Northern Soul wrote:

I suspect they are the ones in denial as they just can’t accept that I have chosen a life for myself and not one which I should follow as prescribed by society. Cognitive dissonance is a natural defence mechanism but really what are people so afraid of ? We are supposed to live in this so called “tolerant”, “inclusive” and “progressive” society but I have yet to experience this.

You hit the nail on the head.

People are just afraid of everything. I will never understand it either. Life is to be lived! That is exactly what you are doing, and the zombies who are NOT living their own lives will try to hold you back. F~~~ them, keep living your own life.

Whenever I am doing something good, if people hear about it, there is always some douchebag who comes around to see if they can try to stop me.

"Once you’ve taken care of the basics, there’s very little in this world for which your life is worth deferring." -David Hansson. "It’s not when women are mean or nasty that anything is out of the ordinary. It’s when they are NICE to you that you have to be on high alert..." -Jackinov.

[Anonymous 3]

It’s not like if you did dive back into dating or even married they would suddenly accept you. They’d find something else to talk s~~~ about. It is never ending. They will pick faults, and meanwhile they themselves are so inferior to what they’re judging you for it’s utterly ridiculous.

At some point you will come to the realization that you have zero desire to be around people that don’t care about you and are busy trying to act superior to you, and then once you see that it’s pretty much everyone in the world that does that, you’ll have a decision to make. Put your pride and ego away and assimilate, and let them judge you and you judge them and you all create a circle of s~~~ to s~~~ on each other and grin and eat it and gulp it right down in the same s~~~hole as everyone else, or you refuse to associate with them and pursue other things. All through history countless men have pursued those other things. Pretty much all of our human advances are the result of men opting out and then pursuing noble goals. Virtually all of our philosophy, scientific advances and everything else, all men that decided they wouldn’t sit there wallowing in s~~~ with everyone else.

Plato’s Cave Allegory is apt here, I think. Just read it again, I’m sure everyone has already read it, but it’s worth re-reading at times.

[Greg HondaParticipant 6406]

Keep the Faith Bro.

When it’s a choice of pleasing a whore, or livin’ Four on the Floor. Just show them the door and be happy and sure.

Lot’s of Blue Pill guys wondering where I get my money from. No Parasites at Home I tell Em’ I only spend time Educatin’ the Young. The old guys are too far Gone.

Anyway, Forget that Love BS.

SHE DON’T LOVE YOU:

It's Time to get Wise

[ghostParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

Plato’s Cave Allegory is apt here

On the money!

[NerdTunnelerParticipant]

LOL…its expected…They were warned by their women to stay away from single guys because you might infect them with the freedom you are enjoying…LOL

I stand with feet apart and let my balls hang free...Manginas dont have balls...See how they stand and sit at the whim of their masters...

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