Closing with women (getting laid)

[Anonymous 1]

need some advice. i’m coming out of a relations~~~ after a decade under the influence of being blue pill sucker. Right now im purely looking to get as much tail in the shortest period of time as possible.

Now i’ve slept with my fair share of women, but couldnt help but feel this could be a lot more, and right now i’m really looking to get some no strings action on a scale unprecedented in my life. i’ve always gotten comments from women about being good looking, attractve etc (unprompted) but i always fail to close. This is partly due to a BDD diagnosis, and self worth issues stemming from a tough upbringing. I’ve also always been s~~~ scared of coming across as some sexual predator, and am always questioning myself where the line is. This second guessing of myself usually leads to me falling flat on my face or being the guy she wants to take it slow with.

i know this question is a little vague, but does anyone have any advice on closing with women? (literally in any scenario). How do i lose this nice guy, respectful attitude towards women who literally don’t deserve it?

advice much appreciated.

just noticed a similar topic, but if anyone has anything to offer on top of this, that would be great.

Some advice on the second question would also be useful.

[chirParticipant]

Um.
Well to be honest you’re on the wrong website. However, if you are looking for material on “pick up artist” PUA, you can read this guy’s material.
http://www.bangguides.com/
http://www.returnofkings.com/

MGTOW is not about “closing with women”. In fact most men here have “closed with women” and the reason they are here is because with the current social gynocentric orientation of the western world we got burned and got the red pill shoved down our throats. So we come here compare notes, point out the absurdities of the world and try to let the younger guys know its better to think first with the big head than the little head.

It is by caffeine alone I set my mind in motion, it is by the beans of Java that thoughts acquire speed, the hands acquire shaking, the shaking becomes a warning; it is by caffeine alone I set my mind in motion.

[QuietlyquietlyParticipant 728]

chir wrote:

MGTOW is not about “closing with women”. In fact most men here have “closed with women” and the reason they are here is because with the current social gynocentric orientation of the western world we got burned and got the red pill shoved down our throats. So we come here compare notes, point out the absurdities of the world and try to let the younger guys know its better to think first with the big head than the little head.

This.

Good luck with your post-break-up blues.

[Anonymous 1]

maybe this thread should be deleted? i’m actually regretting it.

[QuietlyquietlyParticipant 728]

It’s okay. We all understand what you’re going through. We’re just a bit further down the line. We’ve done the f~~~ing lots of women thing, and we got shafted. All Women Are Like That (AWALT) is the conclusion we’ve come to.

We’re not having a go at you, we realize that you are in control of your life, and you have to make the decisions that are right for you. We’d support that in a heartbeat. Except we’re beyond needing to bolster our self-approval rating by sleeping with more women, who we know are crazy.

I know myself that I’ve gone through feeling absolutely s~~~ty about myself, and looking to someone else for some kind of validation or approval. It can be a tough pattern to shift out of. The sort of support you’ll find here is when you make that commitment to shift out of the old habits, we’ll egg you on, we’ll be here telling you to take another breath, keep going, telling you it gets better, to focus on yourself, be ruthless with your own happiness, and much more.

Sincerely, I hope you find the happiness you’re looking for. We’re all looking for it. Except maybe Old Bill. HAHAHAHA!

[Anonymous 1]

i’d be lying if i didn’t admit that it isn’t validation im looking for. i’m just some damn p~~~ed off right now with women in general.

My most recent relations~~~ forced me to re-analyse all previous relations~~~s and it became obvious that they were all total bulls~~~. lies, cheating, manipulation, each and every one.

so f~~~ing angry.

[hellraiderParticipant 2837]

Well, joller984 forget about getting laid with women.

By a fleshlight and wait for a sexbot.

Or, if you want flesh and blood, go to a prostitute.

Hell, marriage is legalized prostitution.

[QuietlyquietlyParticipant 728]

Honesty is absolutely necessary here, so I’m glad you can be honest with yourself. Be angry. Vent, go to the gym, run til your lungs bleed, lift weights til you can’t even lift your arms, whatever you know will help you work through your anger. You’re right to be angry, it’s part of taking the red pill. You’re not really going to find the solution deep in the vagina of any other woman. If you could, you would have found it by now.

Welcome to the journey. It’s the f~~~ing king of all wake-up calls.

[Anonymous 1]

this red pill stuff is hard, it goes against my 31 years of programming.

It really is tough to get my head around the fact that no woman is capable of having a genuiley committed and honest relationship without some sort of agenda. I know everything on the site is correct. i’ve experienced it for over a decade. i’m just struggling to accept it. i really am.

[Anonymous 1]

The shady s~~~ i’ve put up with in relationships. the lies i’ve believed all the years from women. Its embarassing, if i told you the s~~~ i’ve believed over the years you’d laugh at me.

i’d even refused to believe a first hand account of an ex gf of 5 years whoring herself off at a music festival.

I confronted her. She lied to me. I believed. wtf was wrong with me. WHAT THE TOTAL F~~~????????

i have many of variations of these scenarios from every relationship i’ve ever had.

i have been a total and utter f~~~ing moron.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

Joller: In all honesty I wouldn’t say NO woman is capable of having a genuinely committed and honest relationship. I’m an accountant so I look at it as an investment that has to pass a cost/benefit analysis.

When you look at the cost of being wrong versus the benefit of being right, and then factor in the odds that you will find a unicorn, the investment fails every time. The hard part is that the worst women are chameleon’s that can fake being a unicorn for many, many years. Hell, they might not even know they are faking it. But if they later figure out they were faking, YOU are the one who pays. You pay emotionally, you pay financially, and you pay in the lost opportunities of all of the things that you could have done had you passed on that investment.

At the end it’s just a bad investment. Logic prevails over sentiment. That’s when the red pill goes from being hard to swallow to tasting damn good………

Order the good wine

[Anonymous 54]

Healthy validation comes from within.I deal with readpill anger every day. Ive been thru so much in my life.Ill set a time asideto let my self feel it,then block it out and enjoy my life the rest of the time.Its hard to over come wanting to believe in nawalts.thats why i come here to take my “red pill a day” Women are the biggest dissapointment in my life. We are here to suport you Brother. Always speak your truths!! I know i shouldnt answer your question,but women respond to a smile of self confidence.Its fun to flash it at them,then walk away!!MGTOW!!!

[Anonymous 54]

Anonymous wrote:

The shady s~~~ i’ve put up with in relationships. the lies i’ve believed all the years from women. Its embarassing, if i told you the s~~~ i’ve believed over the years you’d laugh at me.

i’d even refused to believe a first hand account of an ex gf of 5 years whoring herself off at a music festival.

I confronted her. She lied to me. I believed. wtf was wrong with me. WHAT THE TOTAL F~~~????????

i have many of variations of these scenarios from every relationship i’ve ever had.

i have been a total and utter f~~~ing moron.

No one is laughing at you. Nothing to be embarrassed about .Men have been thru these things for thousands of years. Welcome to the club Brother!!

[Anonymous 54]

I know a guy who recently recieved a lettet from a woman apolagizeing for cheating on him at…WOODSTOCK !! Your not the first Bro. If you are a good Man you will know this inside. You do not need a woman to validate it for you. Hang in there Bro.

[Anonymous 1]

My heads been all over the place today at work. Every woman that walked past my desk I’m thinking

You’re a whore
You’re a whore
You’re a whore
You’re a whore
You’re a whore

Some woman this afternoon walked with knee high boots and a skirt, I stared at her the whole time. She didn’t glance once. I wanted to leap over the desk and throttle her , shouting “why won’t you f~~~ me you f~~~ing c~~~ monkey whore”

Feel like I’m circling the drain right now. What the f~~~ is going on?

[Anonymous 1]

I feel it’s important right now I disclose I’m not on the verge of raping anyone ?

[QuietlyquietlyParticipant 728]

Keep your head together. It’s just your head f~~~ing with your emotions. It’s just their nature, it’s not their fault, they are programmed this way.

If you need, take a smoko break. (Doesn’t matter if you don’t smoke!) Just keep yourself enough together to get through work. That’s all. One hour at a time. Then after work, go somewhere where you can blow off steam. Single guy friends (especially older ones) are good. They know the ropes.

You’re doing okay. Just keep it together long enough to get out of work.

[RoyDalParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

Right now im purely looking to get as much tail in the shortest period of time as possible.

Been there, done that. LUCKY FOR ME the STDs/STIs were all curable by modern medicine.

Lesson learned: I quit while I am still ahead.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

What’s up with all this dating advice bulls~~~, recently?
Mgtowers, pretty much want nothing to do with them.

Mgtow becoming a, good way to get laid, philosophy! Lol. Who cares about getting laid.

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

[Anonymous 1]

bigboy83 wrote:

What’s up with all this dating advice bulls~~~, recently?
Mgtowers, pretty much want nothing to do with them.

Mgtow becoming a, good way to get laid, philosophy! Lol. Who cares about getting laid.

What a self serving,and arrogant comment. Please allow me to be the the first to apologise for not being as enlightened as you my friend.

I appreciate the knowledge you have bestowed upon the rest of us. Especially us beginners

[Author]

Posts