Childish men are to blame for women having kids late in life !

[rorickParticipant 682]

Okay guys once again its our fault that women are having kids later in their life., not because of their hypergamous nature or anything else.. its always us who’s at fault. And, BTW in near future we can see “Egg Freezing clinics” booming across every corner in the country.

http://nypost.com/2017/05/13/childish-men-are-to-blame-for-women-having-kids-late-in-life/

I hear the same story, told in different ways, all over New York City.

There’s 34-year-old Kate, who works in finance downtown. “She’s beautiful, smart, talented . . . everything going for her,” her colleague tells me. “But her boyfriend doesn’t feel settled in his career, so she spent thousands of dollars to freeze her eggs as she waits for him to be ready.”

Susan, 41, a single senior marketing executive from the Upper East Side, is eight months pregnant. After waiting for her match and not finding him, she decided to have a baby on her own.

And then there’s Joanna, from the Upper West Side, who tells me that at age 32, she stepped off the partner track at her law firm, halving her salary to work in the firm’s marketing department, so she could focus on landing a husband. But at 39, Joanna is still single and childless — and unsatisfied in her career.

These women aren’t alone. The latest US Census Fertility Report, published last week, found that for the first time in reported history over half (53.8 percent) of women ages 25-29 are childless and a record 30.8 percent of American women ages 30 to 34 haven’t given birth. Most of these women are college-educated. And most are single.

The census labels childless college-educated women over age 35 the “delayer boom” — as if we gathered together in a collective conspiracy in defiance of motherhood. Others dub this cohort “career women” as if we made a choice between having a family and a career. (There are no “career men,” mind you.) Some blame women for being naive about their fertility, as if we had no monthly reminder of our own ticking clock.

The trouble with all this finger pointing is that it leaves out half of the baby-making equation: men.

Women want an equal partner, but there are increasingly fewer candidates to choose from. The census reports that “the average adult woman in the US is more likely to be a college graduate than the average adult man.” Moreover, today’s young, childless female city-dwellers with college degrees are out-earning their male counterparts by 8 cents on the dollar. Their higher incomes may be why they are less likely (29 percent) to be living with their parents than single men (35 percent).

It’s not surprising then that a 2012 Pew Research study found, in a reversal of traditional gender roles, that while two-thirds of millennial women say that “being successful in a high-paying career or profession” is of high importance to them, only 59 percent of young men do. At the same time, a significantly larger number of young women than men say that a successful marriage is “one of the most important things in life.” Almost 60 percent of women rate successful parenting as one of the most important parts of life, while only 47 percent of young men do, according to Pew.

Today’s empowered young women are not only placing greater value on the importance of marriage and parenthood than the generation that precedes them, they also value high paying careers more than ever. And millennial men? They’re lagging behind.

This shift has caused a seesaw effect. “When women are in oversupply, men have the advantage and delay marriage and parenthood,” Jon Birger, author of “Date-onomics: How Dating Became a Lopsided Numbers Game,” told The Post. And when men are scarce, women put an even stronger focus on their careers so they can take care of themselves with a financial safety net. Meanwhile, men take a step back in their career ambition, no longer having to impress an oversupply of women with their financial prowess.

Women can’t wait for today’s perpetual male adolescence to change course. And they can’t bank on finding an equal mate while they’re of childbearing age — if ever. If they want a family, single women have to come up with a Plan B, where a young man with the same socioeconomic status isn’t necessarily part of the picture.

For some young college educated women, an older partner may work. Middle-aged men place a higher value on marriage and parenthood than their younger counterparts do, according to Pew. Birger also advises college-educated women to consider a different cohort of men altogether. “If there are too many women in the white-collar dating world,” Birger contends, “that means there are too many men in the blue-collar one. I think it’s inevitable that we’ll see more and more of what I call ‘mixed-collar’ marriages in the future.”

Either way, like Kate and Susan, young women should plan for later age fertility and motherhood, now. Egg-freezing is an option for those who can afford what can cost $12,000 or more, plus ongoing storage fees, and later IVF – albeit, with no guarantee of success.

Whatever choice they make, young women should consider their options, and move forward. Wait for love, absolutely. But be ready in case love doesn’t come in time for motherhood.

[Anonymous 4]

How can they continue to believe that they’re able to have it all. Common sense dictates that if you delay motherhood until later in life time is against you getting the “family” you want just another delirious rant against a false sense of entitlement. You’ve made your bed now lie in it.

[Anonymous 6]

That reminds me, i need to look up how to start an egg freezing clinic.

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22532]

Anonymous wrote:

How can they continue to believe that they’re able to have it all.

Princess syndrome. They were all taught they a children they were princesses. They have become so toxic in personality from this brainwashing that they are like spoiled princesses whom emotionally breakdown when things do not go their way.

And the white knights of government will punish any man that make their spoiled princesses cry.

[Anonymous 1]

Of Course Men are to blame for everything just they taught us in school. Looks like all that gender equality has finally kicked in, Men have been destroyed in the school system and are now falling behind. Women are doing much better in school and are the majority of students in college now. Boys are treated like defective girls and told that we are unwanted and unneeded. Now these Empowered women are upset because they can’t find men that earn more than they do.

They admit the problem. Most of the white collar jobs are held by women and most of the blue collar jobs are held by men. Yet women are only interested in marrying men that make more money than they do. Female nature is actually sabotaging itself in this scenario and these women are unable to settle for a blue collar man. Haha, hypergamy at its finest. Don’t worry I will open up a franchise of Cat Supply Stores to cater to their needs.

[MonkeyMindParticipant 5340]

Men have no reproductive rights.

So there is no possible way that men can be responsible for women not having children.

[743 roadmasterParticipant]

Read through the article. If willing to see it the reader can see cause and effect, and a lot of “what women want”
This from the article,……..”And when men are scarce, women put an even stronger focus on their careers so they can take care of themselves with a financial safety net. Meanwhile, men take a step back in their career ambition, no longer having to impress an oversupply of women with their financial prowess.”

Men have been taken out of the workplace,….pushed to the back of the bus so to speak. Think men are going to just put up with that and give into what women demand?

OH and the ultimate give away,…..the article is written by a woman.

mgtow is its own worst enemy- https://www.campusreform.org/

[MonkeyMindParticipant 5340]

743 roadmaster wrote:

Men have been taken out of the workplace,….pushed to the back of the bus so to speak.

This is probably the reason why.

Men’s earning capcity has gone down, they now compete with women, who now outnumber men in education. Unless women start to date down – which goes against their biological imperatives, they will be stuck in a stalemate whe they can’t find a man who they want to have children with.

Most men have little desire to date up because hypergamy will dictate that a woman will jump ship if a better opportunity comes along. So apathy kicks in and they either just go for hook ups, or spend their time playing video games.

The MSM are just retarded f~~~s that are too dumb to figure out that bears s~~~ in the woods. They deserve no respect from anybody.

[MonkParticipant 16995]

It would seem that MGTOW is really beginning to bite.

Damned out of their own mouths again. They are nothing but wombs on legs.

[Ned TrentParticipant 4894]

Anonymous wrote:

That reminds me, i need to look up how to start an egg freezing clinic.

Good one, Venom but not quite complete yet. Next you want to invest in large companies’ stocks that manufacture cat food and vibrators…

Just a hunch and just sayin’…

I'd rather die a natual death with a clear MGTOW conscience somewhere off the grid than one within "modern" civilisation with a big stress mark on my forehead and a couple of dozen tubes plugged into my body. Back to the plantation..? Me..? Hey, literally: I won't ever fucking kid myself...YZERLMNTSIC

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22535]

Same old feminist gynocentric media article blame shifting, guilt shaming and projecting what women do onto men. It’s been writted a million times.

Why did cupcake f~~~ a hundred guys in her 20s and never get married and have kids then?

Why did cupcake put a career before a family when she was young?

Why does she, like every other woman on the planet, blame men for the choices she made voluntarily back then? Because AWALT.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[IRuleMeParticipant]

Men are not the reason for wimmin having children later in life. No guy wants to be raising a kid in his 50’s, 60’s and 70’s generally speaking. Are there exceptions? Sure. Mick Jagger is still having kids. But the reason wimmin are having children later in life is because of THEIR actions. See, many wimmin have no shame or guilt in throwing the “nice guy” fish back out into the ocean to ride the c~~~ carousel. They ride it for years and years, and so their CHOICE, and their CONSEQUENCE is that when they want to settle down now, they can’t find the guy they want, or the guy isn’t available anymore because he moved on. It’s not his fault. It’s HERS! She spent her time eating the Skittles instead of the Snickers and is upset that other people bought the Snickers and now the store is out of stock. Oh well. Should have gotten the Snickers when you had the chance.

[OgreParticipant 5863]

I did things right. Married young, procreated, and got snipped.

I’ll even stay until the youngest flies the coop.

Women that wanted to “have it all” fell for a lie.

Oh well, not a man’s fault when you made your most important decisions in grade school.

Enjoy your cats and box wine, and your shriveled ovaries. You go girl wasn’t just a rally cry. It was telling you to leave us alone.

I failed to realize in my youth that I was the prize. I was going to work. I was going to earn. Little did I realize that due to feminism, that no longer meant I had to share. Road soon, Desert after.

[Anonymous 2]

Dry wombs are apparently painful, and now plentiful! Good maybe the next generation of idiots will be smaller!

[jimbob15217Participant 491]

Some urban college-educated, professional class women are right when say guys don’t want to start a family until later in life. But who cares? Why any socially mobile guy would want to tie himself up is beyond me.

[BoarParticipant]

So the laydeez that wanted it all are realizing the biological clock stops for no one?

NFG

Untamed wrote: Quit complaining and Go Your Own Way in whatever manner suits you best.

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