Chicago native exploring MGTOW

[darkmatter32Participant 35]

Good evening fellow gents,

I’m a 32 year single male that’s been out here in the ridiculous micro chasm of everything liberal, hyper feminist Chicago. This city is corrupt (history of such), everything is expensive af, I’m pretty sure we have the highest sales tax in the country, and when it’s cold, it’s cold as b~~~~.

Did you want to move here yet? No? No way! Come on. You’re kidding.

I joined mainly because I’ve been feeling the same sort of vibes MGTOW seems to tote. But is it? Most of my friends belong to their wives, moved out of the country, moved out of the city and state, or have formed smaller circles ever since our late twenties when everything started shifting toward even tighter circles of either future husband/wife things or that they just moved.

I have a 2-3 people I can relatively count on to hang in this bustling city that offers lots. I date. A lot. And, I didn’t think I’d end up here but here I am. I’ve been doing a lot of things the wrong way there, but I just don’t know and so I signed up here. I suspect I’ll be posting more in there mostly to gain insight on what other guys go through in other cities or if the scene in Chicago really is that f~~~ed or if it’s quite universal.

I’d like to believe the former because, I have a hard time believing women are more vain in Connecticut versus say a girl out here in the West Loop (those of you from this city will know exactly what kind of demographic and dynamic I’m referring to).

Anywho, I’m building that self confidence that wavers just like anyone else’s. I’m not that keen on working out, but I make myself do it since I’m this skinny mf, but it doesn’t stop me from pulling dates with good looking girls (dates that either lead to sex and no call, no call even after a suspected hit off, or just no connection but we still have fun). I try to write my own horror stories, and yes, I play a lot of video games. Idk, I grew up w/the s~~~. Right now I’m replaying RE4 for like the 5th time on the original gamecube for anyone that cares.

My job isn’t ideal. I didn’t think I’d work in my field but I didn’t graduate college and it’s something that haunts me all the f~~~ing time. I partied too much at MSU and I was this selfish prick about it and didn’t take it seriously. And, I can’t quite afford to go back but I suppose I should man up and save and do something and finish my psych degree. I don’t know.

So yeah man. Am I just like you? I go through my life being thankful and s~~~, but at the same time, it’s almost like I just kinda ride the waves and am looking for more fulfillment. The biological drives compel to find a girl and settle down already but, /shrug, it’s just not happening and I’m caring less and less about that whole thing. But…f~~~, I would like to settle down sometime.

Anywho, cheers to you out there if you’ve read this and I look forward to a response. In the dating section, I’m gonna add my views on the girls out here and what it’s like and I’m hoping to compare notes. Because, it’s all just one big mess of high expectations, feminists, and superficial s~~~.

“That is not dead which can eternal lie, And with strange aeons even death may die.” ― H.P Lovecraft

[MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To GiveParticipant 6635]

darkmatter32 wrote:

I would like to settle down

Just the words settleand down is female doctrine unto men,we are not here in this world to settle or we would still be in clay huts having STD riddled sex. Welcome to the forum and try to do more reading than posting for now to get a good temperature of the room. This place will surely change your life in the best way possible and you will never see the world the same again. Welcome Brother!

P.S. Whats going on with all the murders im hearing about over there in Chi-town,would like to hear your opinion.

Never lose sight of what brought you here.

[darkmatter32Participant 35]

Thanks for the feedback and welcome.

Man, great call about the toxic terminology. I’ve been reading posts and it’s great to read about others expressing similar concerns as me. It’s refreshing.

Re the murders, you have to understand that Chicago is a city w/a rich history of racism. This goes back to neighborhood formations from back in the 50s and their radical changes w/job growth/immigration/job depletion/church+religon and eventual gentrification we started to see in the late 70s to early 80s (i.e. Wicker Park is a prime example, followed by Logan Square and slowly…Pilsen).

That being said, lots of these high incidences of murders are typically on the south side of the city– urban, poor side of Chicago. These areas feature profound loss of funding to school systems, broken homes where fathers are in jail, kids out of wedlock and thus not having a father figure, and rampant drug use (easy money) and gangs (a form of protection, and acceptance).

And we have some of the nation’s toughest gun laws! See how that’s working out!? Awesome right?!

It’s a mess.

“That is not dead which can eternal lie, And with strange aeons even death may die.” ― H.P Lovecraft

[UntamedParticipant]

It’s not just Chicago, it’s the whole goddamned world! The entire planet is rocked by fat thick-glasses chicks holding hands and sing-crying ‘We’ve Got A License to Kill Men’.
You write a lot about chicks and dating and wanting to settle down. That’s not the MGTOW way.
Here, we don’t give a f~~~ about settling down because it means slavery for Men then incarceration should we complain too loudly.
Stick around and I suggest you read MGTOW articles and watch MGTOW videos. There’s enough material on mgtow.com to make you nauseous about even the thought of socializing with these crazy bitches.

Welcome to mgtow.com, Darkmatter32, where Men can be Men without hearing about it.

Don't let them Blame, Shame or Tame you!
Give 'em NOTHING, not even an answer!
#GenderSegragationNow!

[Anonymous 54]

Cubs fan?

[MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To GiveParticipant 6635]

darkmatter32 wrote:

And we have some of the nation’s toughest gun laws! See how that’s working out!? Awesome right?!

I noticed,plus you have Rohm Emanuel who’s suppose to be a die hard liberal sailing the ship and this is going on. Have they considered the national guard to at least restore some order? They had a 60 minutes segment about Chicago recently and man they gotta get things in order soon.

Never lose sight of what brought you here.

[darkmatter32Participant 35]

No, grew up a Sox fan, and I’ve always had this thing for rooting for the underdog (went to michigan state — favored college in big ten is always uofm and ohio st), the anti-hero. Maybe that’s why MGTOW appeals to me too.

Rahm is the worst. The dude is seriously all part of the machine. He advocated less much needed funding for Chicago Public Schools and preferred more money for casinos. He doesn’t give a f~~~ about this city, or you, unless you’re directly coughing up money to him somehow.

That would be the day when/if the National Guard comes out. There’s no real policing out there. That wouldn’t fix anything long-term. It goes back to the prison system too even though it’s slowly changing (i.e. long ass prison sentences for having a small amount of marijuana).

The schooling needs to be addressed, find a way to bring jobs back, promote infrastructure, redevelop the idea of family values–I don’t know. I’m not a social psychologist.

But make no mistake–if you’re an outsider around those neck of the woods, you’d be one sorry mf because you WILL get mobbed or shot.

“That is not dead which can eternal lie, And with strange aeons even death may die.” ― H.P Lovecraft

[experiencedParticipant]

Untamed wrote:

You write a lot about chicks and dating and wanting to settle down. That’s not the MGTOW way.
Here, we don’t give a f~~~ about settling down because it means slavery for Men then incarceration should we complain too loudly.

Men, are stallions. Laydeez desire to break men.

http://www.theequinest.com/images/horse-bucking-6.jpg

Don’t put yourself into that situation if you don’t want that result.
FIFTY percent of marriages end up divorced.
EIGHTY percent filed for by the female (90% if college educated couple).
Like Bill Burr said, would you use a parachute that had those odds??

“But, but, it’s a defective parachute with a Vagina!”

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[Anonymous 0]

Welcome home, Darkmatter32
Read more in the archives. We don’t “settle” for around here. Too many of us have been divorce raped by the courts and if you want to go down that path….Well we all go our own way.

[Anonymous 1]

http://heyjackass.com/

This Guy has been keeping tract of the Shootings in Chicago.

[Solo MAN’S WisdomParticipant]

Welcome to the forums, DM32.

Think about “Settling Up” from now on.

– Retaining your sovereignty
– Retaining your income
– Retaining your sanity
– Restraining your hormones
– Retaining your peace & quiet

When women lead, destruction is the destination. -- Me.

[WallyParticipant]

Welcome darkmatter32, I was told that the cops see trouble they go the other direction, not out of cowardice but because they get no support from the higher ups and the general public, I don’t blame them.

Solo MAN’S Wisdom wrote:

Welcome to the forums, DM32.

Think about “Settling Up” from now on.

– Retaining your sovereignty
– Retaining your income
– Retaining your sanity
– Restraining your hormones
– Retaining your peace & quiet

Well said Solomon

"what a waste of a life, to marry, give up your freedom, just for the hope of not dying alone. Don't get married Son."

[The Manipulated ManParticipant 1856]

Greetings DM32,

Appreciate your introduction.

I am a couple decades older than you.

I have watched Chicago turn to s~~~ and go down the toilet as a result of Commie Feminists.

I have survived the destruction of numerous lovely Chicago Neighborhoods by Third World Commie Savages. It is my understanding that those ravenous mobs are a direct result of Fatherless Feminist Households.

My family stuck around when all of the other Whites fled.

Those experiences changed me so much that I had a difficult time getting along with people in the affluent suburbs, especially most Suburban Whites. After the race riots and the desecration of our city, Suburban life was bizarre to me. Suburbanites seemed to behave like those Narcissistic French Aristocrats Just before the French Revolution. Their form of Narcissism and corruption is subtle and dissimilar.

I had adapted hard wired attitudes and methods of survival like “always lock your doors and hide your wallet.”

To survive, I learned how to “get along” and avoid being a target.

Life for a man in Chicago is described by Julius Caesar’s quote, “Cowards die many times.”

Our generation has been subjected to strange poisons like POP Culture, Fast Foods, Feminism, Television, and Porn that ultimately emasculated us.

What happens when a man finally comprehends the cold and calculating thoughts that are going through a woman's mind, while her eyes are brimming with tears?

[darkmatter32Participant 35]

Thanks for all the feedback and welcome.

I have no doubt such commie political agendas, as subversive as they may be, also contributed to the radical changes in Chicago’s history and neighborhood development/dissolution.

It is interesting though what we’re left with: a third-world area south side area of the city, right under the noses of the most liberal and affluent parts of the city right on the northside–mere minutes away.

Evanston is a prime example of this: one corner you’ll find 1.5-3mil mansions and the next street over it’ll have two liquor stores followed by broken down apartments/housing and dilapidated streetwalks and businesses.

This city is full of that kind of s~~~. Also one ways. I hate all the one ways.

“That is not dead which can eternal lie, And with strange aeons even death may die.” ― H.P Lovecraft

[Mike-PoffwithPofParticipant 126]

Welcome brother. I’m new to the forum. Loads of reading…

Anonymous wrote:

Welcome home, Darkmatter32
Read more in the archives. We don’t “settle” for around here. Too many of us have been divorce raped by the courts and if you want to go down that path….Well we all go our own way.

Sound advice

[Author]

Posts