Cheers brothers

[SaltySpoonParticipant 47]

Some of you might have recognized my nickname, I’m the same SaltySpoon over from goingyourownway. You can check the intro I did there if you wish. I have been lurking this site between classes for quite some time, but I liked the content so much I decided to chime in myself.

I’m a young spaniard who recently graduated in Computer Engineering and is currently attending a trade school in order to increase both my knowlegde pool and job opportunities. I’m both a history buff (veteran of many armchair battles) and a philosophy wannabe, and a code monkey above all. Beautiful mix, I know.

I have been a MGTOW for about… 2 years, give or take. I stumbled upon a youtube conversation between Stardusk and Barbarossa late at night, and everything went downhill from there. It has been an amazing influence in my life: I was depressed and in the brink of leaving university behind and saying “f~~~ it all”, enslaved to every single woman in my life and without a purpose or path. Nowadays I’m a smiling, confident man with a degree under his belt and a clear purpose: A peaceful life. I want to carve my way into a life where I have enough to buy my food, books and games (I don’t have an expensive taste, nor do I smoke or drink), pay the rent and have an emergency fund (health problems, car breakdown, etc…), every extra penny gets invested. It’s such a simple thing, but I have recovered the drive I lost so many years ago, and I keep moving forwards every day.

Regarding women, I’m a bit of an oddball. I was so extremely beta and white-knighty with all my female friends that they all saw me like an emotional tampon rather than a potential mate. This meant I never got into a relationship with one, but I saw them swinging from Chad to Chad without a care in the world, and then they came to me in order to complain and bitch and moan. I’ve been raised on an almost all-female environment (my father is purple pill), so I didn’t get much support at home either. I have many stories regarding these years, but the gist of it is that I ended up so sick of female bulls~~~ I rejected the idea of engaging in a relationship. Then I found MGTOW, and the joy of knowning that many respectable men had reached the same conclusion was amazing. I understood that I wasn’t a weirdo or a loser, but merely another shadow in the crowd. This cannot be overstated.

That’s me now. A shadow, a ghost in the machine. Always respectful, polite, and with a book in hand, I mind my own business. It’s f~~~ing hard to not care about what others think of me, but I try, and I give little less f~~~s each day. Luckily, assholes like to whisper from afar, so their nonsense doesn’t reach my ears. I do my best to forgive, and never forget. Ghosting has been a blessing both for my physical and mental health, and I like it that way. I like the peace solitude brings.

So yeah, that’s me. A young man trying to find his own way. I’ve had some rough years, but I’ve managed to take control of my life. I’m in charge now, and I’m making sure this damned boat gets to port safely.

I want to give you all my warmest and most sincere thanks. If it weren’t for MGTOW, I would still be a clueless, whipped child walking around aimlessly. I’m just a clueless man now, and I owe it to all the men that walked the path before I did. I’ll do my best to contribute to this site and save as many men as possible from their own, personal hells.

Cheers.

Today we may say aloud before an awe-struck world: "We are still masters of our fate. We are still captain of our souls." ~ Winston Churchill

[Solo MAN’S WisdomParticipant]

SaltySpoon wrote:

Then I found MGTOW, and the joy of knowning that many respectable men had reached the same conclusion was amazing. I understood that I wasn’t a weirdo or a loser, but merely another shadow in the crowd. This cannot be overstated.

Absolutely. First, a warm welcome to the forums.

KM: The above needs to find its way to the Testimonials section.

When women lead, destruction is the destination. -- Me.

[Anonymous 18]

SaltySpoon wrote:

It’s f~~~ing hard to not care about what others think of me, but I try, and I give little less f~~~s each day.

Firstly, warm welcome. Glad to have another enlightened men (with respect to the opposite sex).

Regarding the quote above, once you start realizing why people say/do/think a certain way about you, it will bother you less and less. People criticize from their own insecurities, and talking ‘s~~~’ is their own way of finding solace. You don’t want to associate with such people nor do they have anything substantial to add to your life.

Ignore ad infinitum.

Cheers

[AkanbiParticipant 2120]

Welcome bro.

My brother make you no follow sheeple o. Look them and Go Your Way.

[HappyParticipant 55]

@saltyspoon don’t sit right with me..

[HappyParticipant 55]

^^^^^^ My bad brah, jumped the gun

[DorkShitParticipant 4353]

“It’s the nature of time that the old ways must give in
it’s the nature of time that the new ways come in sin,
when the new meets the old it always ends the ancient ways
and as history told the old ways go out in a blaze” is your signature.

The Last Stand

I also see this as the last stand of MGTOW. We are surrounded and outnumbered. One mistake means death.

I am an old man and have the knowledge of the “nature of time” in combination with the mistakes of many battles with women.

The youth “young boys” come in sin. They think with their youth and vigor that they can succeed where all other generations of men have failed. They will not fall as has been written throughout history.

When the young go through time and become old, it always ends in the ancient ways.

Old and married you think back at how your youthful ideals went out in a blaze.

For we are just men. We are no match for their ways.

Welcome brother

Peace brothers

[<<>>Participant 435]

Welcome Brother

SaltySpoon wrote:

(I don’t have an expensive taste, nor do I smoke or drink), pay the rent and have an emergency fund (health problems, car breakdown, etc…)

Being of sober mind and body with a self-reliant independent focus is the invigorating high of strength, peace, and happiness. To come to these conclusions in your youth especially with the sophistication of present-day social engineering proves that you are wise and you will go far. So cheers and enjoy.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6PQ6335puOc

^^^ a little tongue in cheek but not far off LULZ

[Anonymous 42]

SaltySpoon wrote:

Ghosting has been a blessing both for my physical and mental health, and I like it that way. I like the peace solitude brings.

That’s a MGTOW quote if I ever heard one! Awsome introduction S-Spoo, You are truly among birds of the same feather!

Welcome to the clarity of thought that brings decisive thinking and makes clear how the masses have reprobate minds.

Our minds are like a Maserati when it comes to what drives our thoughts. Welcome to the philosophy that doesn’t leave your life a flaming wreck!

MGTOW:

Mangina:

[JVBParticipant]

Welcome brother. Happy you have found that MGTOW peace in your life.

Peace is > piece.

[BadgerParticipant 2277]

Welcome! So glad you found out that YOU were not the problem. Only when you realize the dangers of marriage will you avoid it. The guys here are straight shooters and will tell you the truth about it and women. Glad to have you on board.

[Anonymous 0]

Welcome home, SaltySpoon

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