Cheating Sociopath's Excuses

[Anonymous 11]

I got exposed to this tripe and had to share it.  Even though it’s BPD related, there’s still a lot of chick think involved with the excuses and rationalizations.  I hope her boyfriend cut bait and ran if he had any sense he would have.  One poster even commented that it was partly his fault.

They say about 15% of the population has a Cluster B personality disorder.

http://www.psychforums.com/borderline-personality/topic154218.html

[Cap285Participant 6007]

Not surprised. First thing she mentioned is the BBD. Then mentions she drank and had sex with another guy. Business as usual.

My ex denied the fact she cheated until I put her boyfriend in a choke hold and he turned different shades of blue and purple until she finally told the truth.

Fuck this planet.

[Soul ManParticipant 1856]

They say about 15% of the population has a Cluster B personality disorder.

I have read a few statistics elsewhere that indicate this number is closer to 20% with the vast majority being female.  YMMV…

 

 

 

HISTORY...learn from it, memorize it, DON'T repeat it...

[Anonymous 11]

@SoulMan: I’d believe 20% is totally possible from my life experiences.  Hell, there’s probably more Cluster B types around now than there used to be as a lot more kids have been raised in severely dysfunctional environments so maybe 15% is older literature.  I have read that 80% of BPDs are women while NPD is more common with men though the two can be comorbid.

I once dated a BPD, and she hid it very well until she slowly began a taking control process on me.  I eventually bucked her and got ejected.  As I stated in an earlier post, I’m not the hiding in the closet watching my girlfriend get drilled by another guy type.

@All: Learn to ID any Cluster B PD types ASAP and plan an exit strategy as they can be very difficult to shake.  You almost have to trick them into dumping you.  F~~~ off doesn’t work.  BPDs are also notorious for filing fake rape charges.  It’s a very serious disorder, and they can wreck you. 1 out of 5 chance for a Cluster B are pretty damn high odds IMHO.

[Jim01Participant 6678]

“It’s like I’m always comparing him to others or our relationship to other people’s relationships (even relationships of those on tv and movies).”

 

stopped reading at this point as I can guess the rest. Typical crazy woman like the one I dated last year which was full of lies and more even bizarre lies as time went on

[Deus Ex MachinaParticipant 1068]

When My Ex Wife finally confessed to cheating, She acted like the the whole thing was My fault, not only that but she was doing it for well over 2 years. When She finally told me she had a smug look like “yeah, i cheated, so what?”. Then when I said I’m leaving her, all the tears and bulls~~~ emotions came out of her like a B movie.

 

When She knew I was really seriously about Divorce, She then got desperate and said how much She enjoyed His dick, and all the positions they did together and how He did things bla bla bla.

 

I asked what Her reasons for cheating were, considering I was always at Home and always put a strong emphasis on My Home life. Her reason “Cause He was there for Me”…..Really?. Yeah, Females come up with the most dumb ass reasons to screw someone else.

 

"If You have the Tooth of a Whale, You must have the Whale's Jaw to hold it". (i.e. One Must have the right qualifications for leadership) -Hawaiian Proverb

[Soul ManParticipant 1856]

Females come up with the most dumb ass reasons to screw someone else.

I think they do that because it allows them to deflect from the 800lb. gorilla in the room; the fact and reality that they are a morally bakrupt immature selfish piece of s~~~. My extensive experience with women has taught me that, on the whole, most of them are narcissistic, immature, selfish, unaccountable, grandiose, sanctimonious sacks of lying s~~~ that lack empathy or common human decency. My last ex would go out of her way to f~~~ things up and sabotage our marriage then gaslight me trying to convince me that everything was my fault.  F~~~…

HISTORY...learn from it, memorize it, DON'T repeat it...

[Anonymous 5]

Same thing with my ex. She cheated on me a bunch of times and blamed me after. She acted like she did nothing run and that I deserved it.  No logic or reasoning at all.

[TrueFreedomParticipant 4]

I just got out of a relations~~~. Her reason for the breakup was that it was for my own good…really¿ thats the best you can say. When i had been seeing pictures of her and some f~~~ing guy from the band she is in. Yeah bulls~~~. At best she left me for this prick. At worst she was already with him. Thanks for the redpills brothers.

 

[Anonymous 42]

At best she left me for this prick. At worst she was already with him. Thanks for the redpills brothers.

 

A red pill for your concentration sir: “she was already with him”.

[Sky-OParticipant 18934]

I’ve been in a few relationships where the sociopathic slut I was with cheated, and either wanted to get caught or I turned on my inner CIA operative side and caught her cheating. Now, due to that, a few of my buddy’s have given me a hard time over having been with women that were pathological liars and serial cheaters. First things first: they were all really attractive women, and as a result were actually hot enough to be able to cheat. Show me a guy with a woman that allegedly doesn’t cheat and if it is in fact true that she is monogamous then it is either because 01: She has a low sex drive, 02: Is either too fat or ugly to cheat, 03: Or she is in a coma.

 

Now: I learned a few things about cheating sociopathic sluts in my years. If or when they are caught cheating and you confront them. They will always employ the following tactics:

01: Call you ‘crazy’ for making it up and try to blame you for being possessive.

02: Deny, deny, deny. And when they are done with that. . . . .Deny again.

03: Create a myriad of warped lies and delusional scenarios that deflect from the cheating.

04: Start crying (and act pathetic)

05: Say the relationship was over anyway and it really wasn’t cheating

06: Ignore their actions and run off. (Usually followed by a late night call weeks later, w/ fake crying and “I love you’)

07: Try to initiate more out of control porn induced sex right away to try to get the guy’s brain to stop working and take focus off of the cheating/infidelity.

08: Go on the attack and start stating everything she is not happy about in the primary relationship while placing blame on the guy she is with. If she remotely even has a conscience, it is an attempt to temporarily cleanse it and walk away guilt free.

 

Sky-O

 

[MetalHeadParticipant 40]

From one of the ladies in that linked thread – “I cheated and then admitted it to my boyfriend. Watching his pain pushed me over the edge and I ended up in the hospital. I’d like to spare others that pain.”

I love how this lady tries to play the victim card and get sympathy for being cheater. You know how else you can spare others the pain? Have some f~~~ing resolve and willpower and DON’T CHEAT! Would a man ever be able to use the excuse “she wasn’t there for me emotionally” as a valid reason for cheating? F~~~ no!

[Anonymous 2]

Resolve and willpower is expected of us men right? Right back at you bitches. Cheating is not only grounds to terminate a relationship, but to completely disconnect from that person and sever all ties, forever. They might not understand honour, but understanding the rules is so simple a child could understand. Don’t f~~~ing cheat, on me or anybody, even if I personally don’t even like the guy. I probably like him ten times better then a lying, cheating c~~~.

[Lazarus LongParticipant 365]

Anonymous wrote:

@All: Learn to ID any Cluster B PD types ASAP and plan an exit strategy as they can be very difficult to shake.  You almost have to trick them into dumping you.  F~~~ off doesn’t work.  BPDs are also notorious for filing fake rape charges.  It’s a very serious disorder, and they can wreck you. 1 out of 5 chance for a Cluster B are pretty damn high odds IMHO.

You are definitely right about that. I got the first warning on BPD from a Psychology professor I had, he told us that “If you are ever talking to a women and you suddenly realize that she is making you feel like a god among men get out fast. BPD people are crazy and the only way to get rid of them is to attach them to someone else.”

Willfully turning aside from the truth is treason to one's self. -Terry Goodkind

[WarratahParticipant 895]

Lazarus is right – get the hell outta there! My former wife has BPD so I’ve become rather attuned to it. To survive I had to learn and research as much about it as I could. What amazes me is how with every newly-released BPD study, the percentage of women with the disorder seems to be increasing. It’s rising to such an extant that I firmly believe I will live to see the day that BPD is reclassified from being a ‘Personality Disorder’ to being ‘Typical Female Behaviour’.

...And in our own despair, against our will, Comes wisdom to us by the awful grace of God. - Agamemnon; by Aeschylus

[Governor Megachris%Participant 3584]

My last abusive relationship was like that.  She ended up moving to New York (I’m in Texas, so that’s nice and far away).  Before moving, she stated her idea to move up there with family as she “liked the weather up there and the surroundings.”

I decided to be VERY supportive of her moving up there.  Before she left, she ended it between us.  All the times I tried ending it ended up in me losing something very valuable to me: possessions, people, or other things.  So, I did like @chauvinistpig recommended:  Tricked her into ending the relationship.

[VoidraitheParticipant 477]

My sister said her husband was “emotionally distant” as why she cheated. It was a bulls~~~ answer and being MGTOW I know why now.

[Robert HallamParticipant 696]

Hey there Sky-O and H.R. Pufnstuf

I haven’t experienced it as of yet, but a women view there cheating different from that of men. First they go around fantasizing about the OG guy, view the husband as a dead beat, and tell themselves they couldn’t help it. Her feelings and following her heart sort of s~~~. OH YEAH The reason she was fantasizing was because of her dull boring marriage, and not her hormones. Totally innocent uncontrollable stuff. Whereas she would accuse a guy of thinking with his dick she’ll deny thinking with her vagina,. She was pushed into it somehow, by a less than caring husband, tedium, and lack of romance, etc. She’ll talk it over with her girlfriends in oblique terms, and feel justified, until she’s caught, then yeh all your points become valid. Deny, deny, deny. She dare not make the jump from husband to the OM because she hasn’t yet confirmed he’ll take her (maybe he is also married) and she can’t choose the OM because she’ll destroy her marriage and her security. She’ll try getting back into the marriage. Tell her husband she is sorry and wants to try again. Run away and when she finds the OM doesn’t really want her she starts to plead take me back. I would just kick her in the snatch – she’ll do it again only next time she’ll be more careful.

Someone else on the MEGTOW Forum recommended that before guys chose to return to screwing, get a vasectomy, and freeze a bunch of sperm. Great idea.

[DeepInThoughtParticipant 2710]

I dated one of these for 3 years. On/Off/On and Off again.

I always knew there was something a little off about her but I couldn’t pick it. She was, yep, a divorced single mum, smoking hot and an absolute panther in the sack.

It wasn’t til at the very end of 3 years my brother picked it, she was a sociopath with cluster B tendencies. My god the smear campaign that was run against me after that was truly abhorrent and her act as the victim was award winning. But to my own admittance, she did that with all her exes and ex husband so I was to “horny” to take notice of the red flags. Of course she had a divorced single dad lined up, had nothing in his life and I knew him moved into her house within 6 months together. I remember her saying to me before she was in a formal relationship with him, week 1, “we are building a life together” and the way she turned on me after years together was frightening.  It really affected me for 18 months after.

To that point i had no idea what a sociopath was, i have heard of narcs, psychopaths and bi polar, but when i finally looked up sociopath and went and had a talk to a fantastic (female) psychologist i was left shaking and in disbelief. The checklist was 90% bang on.

Very, very dangerous people, especially the gorgeous and intelligent female ones with the girl next door look. Society doesnt see it but it begs that old saying “Street angel, home devil.”

[DeepInThoughtParticipant 2710]

I don’t normally follow this guys principles because I am now a MGTOW but I thought it necessary to share this video because it is spot on. I dated a narcissistic sociopath for years when I was at a really low point in my life with PTSD, depression and anxiety. The stages he mentions Idealize, Devalue & Discard are accurate.

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