Cheating and long term commitment a female concept?!

[TYEParticipant 291]

I am not sure what you all my fellow MGTOW brothers stance is on “cheating”, but to me the entire concept makes absolutely no sense for a male to follow. The entire concept goes against our biological build we’re meant to have sex with many women, and spread our “seed” so why are we expected to adopt female values that benefit us in no way to adopt?! It is my personal opinion that Marriage, and the concept of long term relationships have alway’s been invalid for men. It benefits women to leech off of men for a long period of time, and when he has nothing left dump him, or tell him how much he doesn’t “please you” anymore. The more, and more I look at society the more I see that little, if any of it benefits us ! How does it benefit me to do anything other than pleasure myself deep inside the sugar walls of a woman?! After that it’s like…why are you still here?! I don’t want to hear you talk, and I can make a way better sandwich than you…hell I can do most things better than you. In my opinion without a vagina…women would be WORTHLESS, and most men wouldn’t even realize that they’re even on earth.

[SNeaKYBuGGeRParticipant 2]

Indeed, they have very little else to offer. You can see how s~~~ they are simply by watching such shows as: “The real housewives” They are intolerant evil maniacal biatches!

[Cap285Participant 6007]

When I was a young man working construction, an old bricklayer told me: “If they didn’t have pussies there’d be bounties out on them.”

Fuck this planet.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

@Cap. That’s another one for the Wall. Pure Genius.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[AntaresParticipant 208]

The entire concept goes against our biological build we’re meant to have sex with many women, and spread our “seed” so why are we expected to adopt female values that benefit us in no way to adopt?

Spreading your seed does not ensure success of offspring, which is the point behind that. Imagine a pregnant woman in the jungle trying to survive. Plus the dangers of childbirth, then feeding the child and caring for it as an infant. It makes sense a man would provide her for to ensure there is a next generation. Forward thinking a little, having a son (or daughter to rope in someone elses son) means you’d have someone to help provide for you when you’re less physically capable later in life.

As Stardusk once said, we’re running on software thousands if not millions of years old. A big part of why all of this is breaking down is because our offspring no longer fail. If hooking up with a loser meant a woman would end up alone, unable to care for herself, and her children dead of malnutrition, you can be damn sure she’d cling to a good provider with everything she had. Historically I think that’s pretty much the way it went.

Price is what you pay, value is what you get. -- Ben Graham

[TYEParticipant 291]

I agree Antares, and no doubt that’s how it was centuries ago, but with the technology and laws we have in place now it does not benefit men to follow old standards.

[…Spectator 1165]

@ Antares: RE what you said about forward thinking a little: the generation past me (55-80) thought their kids would show up and help out with their transitions to being dead but I look around at my older friends and it ain’t happening man. No point in counting on your kids to take care of you. We are living in the Wild West of social consciousness right now and one advantage mgtow have we are a community of skilled men from all ranks, ages, and walks of life. 20th Century rules and mentality are a framework that will be replaced by whatever OldAtHeart and young men do to colonize the mental future of the 21st Century. I agree we are running on old software which is why I go online and update my brain’s OS everyday.

 

[RayBandakuParticipant 888]

I 100% agree with you @OldAtHeart.  After 12 years of marriage with a evil witch(rich man going homeless by divorce) and being single for last 5 years, I have clarity over the whole matter now.

Now I look at a women as going dinner.  Just like I pay for a dinner, I will pay for sex, nothing more.  I am not taking my dinner home to sleep next to it, or makeup with it or go on long walks with my dinner, or spend more money, time or energy after I already paid for my dinner.  Sex with a women and having a dinner or one and the same to me now.  Its pure and simple, pay for sex, just like paying for dinner.  I have no advantages of taking a women home and keeping her after sex.  After a women server’s me with sex, after I pay for her service(money, my time, movie and a dinner…listen to her yap yap yap….have some sex) it’s time for her to leave.  When I need sex I will pay for it, that’s all.  I like pay, pump, dump on demand.  No drama, no stress.  Best think I can do is be rich, so I can pay for pussy when I feel like it.  I prefer building successful business and pay for some sex on the side when I am in the mood.

Just for fun let’s compare the advantages and disadvantages of giving women “The Power of the Pussy by getting married”

Disadvantages because of marriage and giving away power to the pussy.

1. Men lose complete freedom to do what they want.

2. During divorce, men lose homes, money,

cars, jobs, kids and so much more.

3. Lose friendships with guy friends.

4. Can’t play or watch sports.

5. Need women’s permission to do any thing.

6. Feel like we are in a prison.

7. Men are afraid of false rape charges.

8. Go to prison on false charges without any proof.

9. Deal with the in-laws, forced to pretend.

10. Men can’t speak their mind.

11. Beg for that pussy, nothing new.

12. Deal with constant neediness, drama, complains.

13. Men forced to watch chick flixs just for pussy.

14. Buy flowers, pay for dinners even if they don’t get pussy.

15. Can’t watch the shows men want on TV.  She holds the remote control.

16. Wife or Girlfriend decides how to spend your money.

17. Pussy has the power to do what it wants when it wants because you give it to her.

18. Must act like you like here choices even when you don’t.  She wants compliments.

19. She expects you to do all the hard work while she looks pretty.

20. Law is always on her side 1000% of the time. Be scared to lose every thing you own.

21. This list can go on and on but I will stop for now.

 

Advantages of getting married nd giving power to the pussy.

1. Men get to have sex only when woman wants to.  She is always in control.  You lose all your freedoms.  She carries your b~~~~ in her purse. 

2. Some companionship but she is always needy and full of drama.  Your lose freedom for some pussy. You pay for things.

3. Mother to your kids but choice is always in women’s had. If she does not want kids, you are screwed like I was.

      In conclusion, please learn from my mistakes of getting married and losing every thing your worked hard for.  I almost killed myself out of sudden heartbreak and financial loss, homelessness. 

      There is absolutely no reason in today’s feminist infested corrupt laws, you should ever get married or live with a women. Don’t let a women move in with you because there are laws that say it’s the same as being married, if you live with a women for a certain length of time.

 

[…Spectator 1165]

Ray: Great list man. Also did you see Ninja’s word Manshun? Good luck with your projects man.

[RayBandakuParticipant 888]

Thank you @ListenUp! for your help and support brother.  I will check out Ninja’s word Manshun?  Have a great day.

[AntaresParticipant 208]

@ ListenUp! – Yeah, I’m kinda dating myself even mentioning that. I still remember when that was parroted as a big benefit of kids. These days that’s not even talked about due to the terrible way elderly folks are treated. Hell, these days it’s common to see kids who HATE their parents and almost never speak or see them after they move out.

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Just to clarify here, I’m not saying marriage makes sense, certainly doesn’t with all the checks and balances removed; but there are reasons why men and women were often better off together. Marriage is a concept of civilization, and I’ll leave the explanation to someone smarter than me who knows why it was invented, but it did have uses through the ages – although I think it was more to benefit society than to the individual (man).

Price is what you pay, value is what you get. -- Ben Graham

[RayBandakuParticipant 888]

@antares, Here the answer I found online to the questions, Why marriage was invented.  I hope it helps.
“Obviously, no one knows for sure as marriage apparently pre-dates written history. However, anthropologists have a lot of ideas. One leading theory is property rights (Suzanna and Private are closer than they realize).

One of the main theories goes like this:
Marriage probably existed within migrating tribes primarily for tribal rulers. These marriages gave the leader an exclusive mate and a clear lineage. As mankind began forming increasingly permanent settlements due to the advent of agriculture which would tie tribes to one location for entire growing seasons, the concept of land ownership became more common.
This caused marriage to become even more widespread because now it was not only the leadership rights of the chief that needed preserving, but the property rights of those that owned increasingly numbers of more permanent possessions (land, livestock, houses, possessions related to farming like plows, possessions stored in houses, etc). Marriage secured legal rights that allowed property distribution and social status to be preserved with less debate and conflict. To this day, most societies with marriage give consideration to the spouse upon death with regards to possessions. Where I live, if I die with no will and I have a spouse, so long as they didn’t do me in, they pretty much get all my stuff no questions asked.

Marriage went on to provide other social, legal, and economic benefits with time, but property rights seem to be a primary motivator for the spread of the tradition.”

__________

When the animals mate,
They are said to be in estrus.
When humans mate,
They are said to be in love.
The same chemicals
Create both maladies.
But be not dismayed
That love is chemically made,
For if women had no chemical lure,
Men would still keep them as pet, for sure.

Copyright 2008 by Theseus”

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“Man saw that it was a happening thing and decided that there was money to be made..SO, marriage was officially invented..Overpriced white dress, ornate cake. expensive honeymoon..and then..the final money maker..The divorce..yep..it is all about money…”

[…Spectator 1165]

@ray you got it man!

[…Spectator 1165]

@antares: good points all around. plus, i think it very mgtow correct to be dating yourself (pun intended).

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