Celibacy, "Monk Mode," and Sex

[InfernalShadowParticipant 377]

Recently, I’ve been seeing this a lot in quite a few Youtube comments, videos, (such as Messenger Rising’s) and even on quite a few different threads on this website with people such as H-MGTOW.

I’m celibate and I’ve never attempted to have sex with anyone before because I can’t deal with the rejection, pregnancy scares, false rape/domestic abuse accusations, or white knights wanting to beat you up/killing you for having sex with their girlfriends/daughters. I just don’t like the potential risks that are associated with sex for men these days.

Even if those risks weren’t there, I still most likely wouldn’t have sex because unless they’re blowing me, I can’t stand stand it when most women open their mouths and talk. They’re annoying as f~~~ to be around unless you’re having sex with them. And even then, if they talk during sex, or before/after sex, it makes it even worse.

However, people like H-MGTOW, Messenger Rising, and others, are criticizing other MGTOW and calling them pathetic because they want to have sex with women. I can’t stand MGTOW doing that to other MGTOW. I hate it that they act like they’re better than other MGTOW because they avoid sex. Whoopdee f~~~in doo for them. They avoid having sex. That’s not an accomplishment.

Just because most MGTOWs still do have sex doesn’t mean they’re PUAs. It just means they’d rather have sex than watch porn and jerk off. That’s perfectly normal. But, some MGTOWs such as H-MGTOW have a hard time grasping this. They think they’re somehow better because they avoid having sex. Which is exactly what I hate.

My personal preference is to watch porn, use fleshlights, and maybe RealDolls if I ever had the money to buy one. But, I’m not going to act all high and mighty because I chose this method and not the real thing.

[BigDParticipant 3024]

You do what you do. The only person that can judge you is yourself and God. If you chose to have sex, then by all means, but protect yourself. If you chose not to, that is fine as well. Feeling superior because you have sex or you don’t have sex is like being proud that you eat broccoli or don’t eat broccoli.

Don't stick your dick into anyone you aren't willing to put up with for eighteen years and nine months.

[NerevarParticipant 8040]

BigD wrote:

You do what you do. The only person that can judge you is yourself and God. If you chose to have sex, then by all means, but protect yourself. If you chose not to, that is fine as well. Feeling superior because you have sex or you don’t have sex is like being proud that you eat broccoli or don’t eat broccoli.

I agree, minus the God-thing. There is no God.

"One of the best things internet exposed is just how insane women are." - Freeman_K

[Anonymous 42]

I’ve been on both sides of the fence, and sat on the fence, It’s just a choice, like any other choice, you either do, or you do not.

Based on observation and life’s experience as a single man and never married. I now chose not to engage in sex, the dangers and risks far outweigh the rewards. It’s like a drug, but 99% has been laced with arsenic.

I’m waiting for the 18v Stepford wife to hit the market. I’d be willing to pay as much as one would for a fine automobile. I would keep her lubed, charged, and ready to go. I would park her next to the AMX and not leave her outside.

[InfernalShadowParticipant 377]

@MG-ɹǝʍo┴

I’m the same way. High end sex dolls are more of a benefit to me than actual sex. I’m also willing to spend that much money even on silicon dolls.

[hellraiderParticipant 2837]

Guys, whats the difference between being CELIBATE AND MARRIED?

Celibate guys have a lot more money in their pockets!!!!

Seriously guys, if you want to have sex use a prostitute.
Its a lot cheaper and far less messier and time consuming than one night stands / girlfriends / wifes.

[Anonymous 11]

I’m like Tower. I’ve been on both sides of the fence. Whenever you go from getting regular sex, there is a withdrawal period just like with a drug.

I’ve gone monk now. Thanks to the Fleshlight, it’s a much easier and less risky endeavor.

I used to go trolling at the bars for younger tourist women. One of my favorite places near my house that has a steady supply of college students has a bartender that told me the police were harassing patrons leaving the establishment.

A DUI would destroy my ability to do my business. An STD would cost me thousands of dollars. An unintended pregnancy would kill me. Sticking my dick in crazy would lead God knows where, but it ain’t gonna be good.

Living as a celibate is not as bad as the media and people make it out to be. Modern women are worthless liabilities for the most part so I am comfortable living this way. Your body adapts to it.

[InfernalShadowParticipant 377]

I’d end up having sex if it were thrown to me, but as far as pursing sex, I’m definitely not gonna do that. Too much hassle and drama. Not to mention, you waste money if you spend your time trying to get with women in bars, if only because you have to pay for your own drinks.

[Anonymous 0]

Well……if I met a woman that was an 8 – 10, owned a coffee farm in Hawaii, and knew how to give killer blowjobs, I would be interested but that’s about as likely as winnig the lottery so it’s level 3 for me.

[Wolf redpillmanSpectator 1658]

I.have sex with.women’s.from.time.to.time and.i considered.myself.a.mgtow im goin my.own.way.others go.their way

[Wolf redpillmanSpectator 1658]

Let.me clarify since im mgtow i always.protect myself and don’t let women’s.manipulated me into their games i play them.in their own games i just have to tell them damn i.lost my job and they will run away from me like if i were that plague

[HitmanParticipant]

MGTOW can have sex or not.
personal choice.
not getting pulled in to the drama is key.
no strings.
sometimes none is better.
iv’e been celibate by choice several times.
very productive when not sweating about some pussy.
it is like a drug in many ways..
sometimes you have to put it down and remember WHO YOU ARE .

[experiencedParticipant]

Distance and timing as well as direction are all up to each MGHOW.
You can be 18 and monk, 18.01 and an utter male slut, and then back to monk.
For some reason, there’s always a tendency of society to lock men into a direction, how far they go with it, and a timeline that supposedly has to be adhered to and most of it is preconditioned bologna.
‘He’s gone his own way’ disregards all of it.

However, do be careful.

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[SOLI2DEParticipant 746]

hellraider wrote:

Guys, whats the difference between being CELIBATE AND MARRIED?

Celibate guys have a lot more money in their pockets!!!!

Seriously guys, if you want to have sex use a prostitute.
Its a lot cheaper and far less messier and time consuming than one night stands / girlfriends / wifes.

This.

“Do not give your strength to women, nor your ways to that which destroys kings.” -Proverbs 31:3-

[SOLI2DEParticipant 746]

I feel when it comes to the desire for sex, I’m more likely to be in a state of temporary insanity. It could only be this biological imperative couple with brainwashing that could impair my clarity and logic. Most times I masturbate and I can see myself getting a escort in time just because it can be a chick that looks exactly how I want and very temporary interaction between us. I prefer the Monk Mode due to my personal situation that cannot be reversed. I dont think celibacy is one avenue I’d like but I respect each man going his own way.

“Do not give your strength to women, nor your ways to that which destroys kings.” -Proverbs 31:3-

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