Cautionary tale

[stevewinnlinuxParticipant 20]

My friend Bill once told me his tragic story. I thought it might be useful here on MGTOW as a cautionary tale for any guys heading into a LTR.
If you think that gal of yours is perfect read this first.

Bill was about 60 when I met him. His communication skills were not good as he had suffered a bad accident that left his speech slurred; but I knew he held his story at a deep emotional level that led to a real determination to get it out and known. What follows is what he told me.

Bill was married and had three sons. One day at work Bill was nearly killed after being struck by a steel bar. Bill’s accident put him in the hospital unable to move, hear or speak. Bill recovered slowly. Finally his hearing returned. One day he overheard his mother in law encourage his wife to leave “unless you just want to be a bedside nurse forever”. The wife left with their three sons and moved to another state. Bill was left with nothing, no job, no money, no wife, no family. But Bill was not a quitter and he grew stronger, making improvements. He later remarried and even though still suffering significant physical damage and the deep wound of her betrayal found a new chance at life. His new wife is a fine woman. Bill died several years later from unrelated causes. I saw his three sons at the funeral. They all looked like him. Needless to say Bill’s ex wife did not attend.

I’d guess similar stories are more common than we’re told. It points to the cold hard truth about women and what they are capable of. Dont expect those years of toil, sacrafice and devotion will mean anything to her; count yourself lucky if they do. Most women will just run if the random events of life make leaving the easier path.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Brutal truth.

Women actually think like this: “If something happened to my husband….. I don’t know where I would be.”

To the untrained blue pill ear, it sounds like: “aw that’s sweet. She cares so much about him.”

A red-pill person hears: “she doesn’t give a s~~~ about anything but herself.”

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[magx01Participant 30]

<cite>@mgtow.com said:</cite>
Brutal truth.

Women actually think like this: “If something happened to my husband….. I don’t know where I would be.”

To the untrained blue pill ear, it sound like: “aw that’s sweet. She cares so much about him.”

A red-pill person hears: “she doesn’t give a s~~~ about anything but herself.”

Man, this is so true.

[mark18938Participant 1]

Reading this post brought tears to my eyes. I am sorry for your friend Bill, I am sure he was a fine friend.

[DkaiksterParticipant 90]

Well, here’s an eye opener: How many times did you hear this in your life? “Women are compassionate of the two sexes. Women only want love and not sex. Women are this and women are that. Men don’t have hearts.”

Let’s start from the last part, “Men don’t have hearts.” Say what? Men die from Heart attacks bitches! Women don’t (unless on extreme rare occasions). Second, “Women only want love”. Well I even heard a woman say, “A man wants all the women in the world to love him. A woman wants one man to give her all the love in the world.” Bitches please! If that was true, bitches wouldn’t be leaving men crying and begging for them to return. And women are hypocrites! They would say s~~~ like “There’s only one thing on men’s minds! Women are not perverts etc.” Well, do sit down with a woman and chat and you will indeed find that she would rarely make any sexual references and comments. But eavesdrop on two women talking to each other, their perversion would put even the best of the sex offenders to shame.

In the end comes the topic of compassion. Well, how many times did you hear “Love at first sight”? I’m sure countless. Well, fact is, there are indeed manginas out there who fall for a woman’s pretty face at first sight. He would began grovelling at her feet if not literally. A newly married man would simply be head over heels for his wife and would wave around NAWALT to everyone he meets. What about women? Even after 30 years’ marriage or so, they would not have qualms about leaving her husband in a second or cheating on him (As we can see on the above accounts). Compassion? It’s simply a “f~~~ you” to the face. Men would be ready to die for women, in fact, men will be ready to die for men (Platonic of course) as well. Women would not. Who has more compassion?

I mean, seriously. If you spend a lifetime in a single house with your worst enemy, you two will eventually begin to forget your hatred and like each other (Seen many times in prison where enemies became friends). But even after ages of cohabiting, women would never truly love you. They would rely on you and see you as means to an end and their survival kit. So, they would stay. As soon as you show that you are not enough, they will leave.

[RabidcavemanParticipant 57]

Been through this myself, and as a secondary caution, sometimes you can’t even trust your own blood brother.

When I was 22(close to 20 years ago) my mother told my father that she wanted a divorce. This was preceded by ranting and raving, throwing pots and pans at my dad, crying, solitude, random unintelligible sayings, and other madness which I forgot. I thought my mother had lost her mind. I KNEW the problem was menopause(my mother was about 44 at the time). What started it was when my mother told my father she was pregnant. My dad was repairing the shingles on the roof(because of a bad rainstorm) as was on the ladder when my mother told him. He almost fell off the ladder.

The madness started when my mother found out she wasn’t pregnant, but under the duress of menopause.

Here’s the kicker: My mother cheated on my father with some dude who played in the volleyball league my mother played in twice a week. She told my uncle and my aunt, but they DID NOT TELL MY FATHER for 10 YEARS! For 10 years my uncle(my father’s own brother) KNEW that his brother’s wife had cheated, but didn’t tell him.

They don’t care my friends. They don’t care.

[Odinseye55Participant 1]

This is my reply, Women don’t think of anything but their own needs, they don’t imagine that men go to some jobs and sweat, bleed and get broken on them, Most when they go to a job think a broken nail is a terrible thing.

I used to work in an auto manufacturing company, I watched some very pretty women that worked there, Most of the time they had guys that would lay on the oily floor at the crook of their finger. I watched men follow them like ducklings following a mother duck.

in my life I even had my own father set my wife up with the sons of his good friends, she would promise a normalization of our marriage if I could show that I could compromise about my seniority rights at work. I compromised to the point that in 31 years I had 6 days off. My average daily work hours were 12.65 hours. 16 on holidays. And my father would stand there and say just because you have to be a man and work does not mean your wife has to become a recluse.

After 16 years I told my wife to drop dead, my father to go away and shut his trap and take his friends with him and took a new job bid from the son of a county commissioner with less that a half the time I did, then because I demonstrated I did not have to accept being humbled at their hands They stared shoving shotguns and pistols into my back and telling me I was working weekends and holidays. my wife says after that night I refused to compromise and put four men in critical care that she could not trust I would not go off on her like that, of course right after I finished with the four men that morning I ripped the front door open frame and all and told her if she ever locked me out of the house again to be beaten on I was going to consider her an enemy.

I should mention what changed after 16 years, 2001 was a very bad year. Besides the trade centers coming down the month before I had to have a tumor removed of my brain stem when I woke up I realized just how short life was and was determined to stop taking the back seat to it, the first month after getting a hole drilled to the center of I was to weak to resist being forced to go in to work because I was disrupting to many vacations, Something I had not seen since coming back in 1985, actually because all the poor dears with kids needing weekends and holidays I had not seen a day off since returning in 1985. I did have some of what were termed terrifying arguments with my father about me being a man and just shutting up and do as I was told, I mentioned when my father and five of his friends invaded my home and yanked me out of bed the Doctor wanted me to take sixty days off after a hole was drilled to the center of my head not six. I was told you should recover standing up working by my father. I went back in and found the company had put job bids up for the new plant the week after 9/11, I put my 23 years seniority up for a job in material process controls. The other bid was by a kid with 8 years seniority.

I had to go to the national union to override the locals decision to allow the id to take the job because it was politically expedient. His father was a friend of my fathers and a county commissioner. my wife said if I took my name of the bid she promised to normalize our marriage bed. I told her She could drop dead I was tired of the blackmail. My father screamed that the kid need the job for helping his father in his political campaigns. That did not impress me. Then that next morning when I got home I was met with the front door locked my wife behind it and four men including the kid following me up on the porch. I was told I needed to learn a lesson in who was better. I got the argument loud enough when I asked who was whose wife in the group and bought the whole street out looking. The commissioners son took the first swing when his friend wrapped his arm around my neck. The one that wrapped me was thrown 15 feet into the street breaking both legs and an arm, the kid took the point of my elbow between the eyes shattering both eye sockets. the other one took a swig and I returned a straight driving punch into his ribs, he was spraying blood indicating I broke some ribs into his lungs and the fourth when he stepped up I grabbed the straight punch he threw. put my foot into his armpit and pulled and twisted Dislocating it

My wife was standing behind the door and I tore it out frame and all while the police pulled up with the emergency van. They found me telling my wife if she ever tried to get me beaten again I was going to consider her an enemy combatant. my father pulled up after hearing everything on his scanner. I was washing blood off the porch by this time. My father stood on my porch crying croc sized tears, telling me all I had to do was back down, I said I was done backing down. for the next seven years when I tried to take a weekend or a holiday I was escorted to work with my fathers shotgun in my back. He said I made it impossible to deal with any other way.

Seven years latter I retired and started working for an Air freight company. After two years I feel out of an aircraft and bruised my back. Five month later I was on the operating table again, MRSA settled into my spine, I died twice that night and was revived, I wish they had not. It took me three years of rehab to start using a cane and walk. In occupational therapy I carved it out of red oak, When I came home My wife received a call from home one day, She said she was going to spend the day with an old college friend, I knew she went to an all female college. But the way she cut out the next morning got me wondering as I watched the car that picked her up leave its windows blacked and i could not see who was driving. I finally got in touch 1830 that night and she said she was coming home, She got home at 1030 the next morning. I trapped them into the drive and I was going to be nice. I followed them in to the house to ask just what was going to happen now. The man she was with wanted to demonstrate who the alpha was though. He swept my cane putting me on the floor. My wife looked at me and tried to push him out of the house, He was laughing calling me pathetic. I showed pathetic when my cane fractured his scull, putting him on the floor to. I pulled myself over to him and every time he tried sitting up I hit him again. He went to ER. I went to a stress center for anger management.

My father refused to pick me up two weeks later, told the center I needed to be humbled so I could walk the 20 miles home. my insurance supplied taxi fare however and when I goy home my wife was getting ready to go to a political funding dinner with a friend of my father, She told me the truth but I could have cared less. I told her she was not going, She said please I will meet any where you want after the event. I said as of this year you owe me 31 years of marriage. She took for the door and the dress she was wearing came apart in my hands. i was not going to accept any promise that if i was this or that she would normalize our marriage. She looked at me and begged please not like this. I guess I was done taking it from her because the man that was to pick her up was outside hammering on the door. I putt my sweats on and went and answered the door, My wife went and put a robe on and cried. My fathers friend said get out of my way and hit me trying to force his way past, The officer next door said I made him look like a kitten as i threw him off the porch face first into the concrete driveway, Just as my mother and father pulled in. My father look at me like I was evil and took his friend to the hospital. The officer next door said it was self defense since he saw him hit me first. My mother talked to my wife for the next three hours. my wife walked out of the bedroom with a red hand print on her face. My father was outside yelling how much of a jerk I was when My mother walked up and just about turned his face around and said we are leaving and you shut up. My wife no longer refuses, my father tried two more times to assert what he calls his right full authority.

After the problem with my fathers friend my mother arranged to get me moved to her brothers home 1200 miles west, my mother and sister in law and her husband helped in law helped. I had to come back this spring to repair and sell my home after the winter. My wife rejoined me there after she gave birth to my son. So she went back east with her mother after it was discovered she was pregnant. She needed advanced age care, My mother in law and her other daughter arranged to buy some property across the road from us last year, They had a new four bedroom modular set in, And moved out their themselves. But while we were back we stayed until August the first, Memorial day things came to a head with my father. Memorial day The cookout was being held on my porch There was an offer that we accepted and they moved in on the first left the morning of the first, but memorial day My father wanted me to go anywhere but my house because I had not been involved with holidays at home for 32 years. I of course told him to shove it. My mother said and whose fault was it he was working or in hospitals, He said he is now intruding on tradition, and grumbled the whole time. He said there are things he wont understand. I was a good host and even did not throw the man I threw off the porch last year out. at the end of the cookout my father handed out reservation tickets out and told me I was not invited to the after dinner drinks, my wife was going with his friend from last year. I went up to his friend as he tried to drag my wife to the door, she was not going willingly I said You will hand the ticket to me and let my wife’s hand loose and scram, If you don’t you will need a ride back to the ER to remove your arm from your rear.

He ran like Satan was after him. My father walked up to me and told me he was tired of me taking rights I believed were mine, my mother said OMG this is where pigs fly. He said every one is now really tired of your lip and the word no out of your trap and he slapped me in front of 25 other guests, i said I am tired of you trying to run my life. I have a son now, and you are not going to have any say in his life, I am not your slave so you can take a hike, and you will never hit me again, I backhanded him across my kitchen.

He tried one more time with some of his friends to assert authority, this time with a 9mm and a .45 held on me. I had the incident recorded on the new security system I installed, And after being forced to allow my wife to go with them to breakfast, she said she was going to keep any one fgrom being hurt, i took off with license plate numbers and a thumb drive when I found where they were having breakfast, The two that held me at bay had their faces laid open to the bone with my cane I told my father I should shove it through him. My mother and sister said you found us after you weren’t home so why are you mad. I said the two men I hit were packing, The police cuff me and watched the thumb drive and let me go. My mother turned to my father and said why. He said We left him standing the matter was closed. The police disagreed.

[KaidoParticipant 2395]

They only care what you can bring and provide. They don’t care about you.

When you express yourself you are shamed. She might pay attention and seem to care at first but eventually she gets tired of it. She will tell you this during or after break up.

After you fulfill your use to her. She will not pay attention to you anymore. Till the next time she needs you.

Its never their fault. When you prove your point she will find other flaws to put on you so she 1-ups you.

NAWALT….Biggest bulls~~~ of my life I ever heard!They are all like that!

They say men are the harassers….But yet I have had some stalk me, some try to get my attention like a cat and some even “harassed” me. Biggest hypocrites ever!

Blue pillers are no better. They aren’t your friend. They will quickly become the enemy.

White knights are pathetic. And sad

MGTOW for life!

What people call "love" is just a chemical reaction that compels animals to breed. It hits hard, then it slowly fades, leaving you stranded in a failing marriage. Your parents are gonna do it. Break the cycle. Rise above. Focus on science.

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