Casual attempt at shaming by my grandmother

[obZenParticipant 107]

Today I went to my grandmothers for Easter, just a few cousins, parents, siblings… you know typical family gathering.

Anyways I got to talk 1 on 1 with my grandma for a bit, catching up. She noticed I was even fitter than last time she saw me and I had an air of confidence around me. As a kid I had very low self-esteem and was chubby (no thanks to overfeeding of sweets and other s~~~-tier food from her and other relatives.) Lots of female members in the family and I’m starting to see how cucked a lot of the males are.

Now as a young man I’m actually feeling comfortable in my skin, taking control of my life and living it the way I want to. I’m content and happy but also want to achieve more and push myself. This apparently is not good enough for my grandmother.

I s~~~ you not, every other sentence from her included some mention of me being single. Nothing so clear as “you should get a girlfriend” or “why don’t you have a girlfriend like X?”

Nope just the same obtuse statement to end sentences with. “blah blah blah… you’re single.”

It didn’t faze me, I didn’t lower my voice, slouch my shoulders, look defeated, get upset, etc. I basically didn’t acknowledge that she kept saying it. To me it’s not a problem. I just kept grinning and thought “Yeah I’m single, and that’s great.”

GYOW

[Anonymous 12]

Your grandmother sounds like mine with the over feeding, my whole family was like that.

Same with the shaming, my mother would love me to get married and give her grand kids. It is all about keeping face for them and how they are missing out on some kind of life experience.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Ask grandma if she’s seen the kind of whores, sluts, golddiggers, and scum that are in your generation.

Ask her why she would want to inflict that sort of woman on you.

[Anonymous 2]

The best part about choosing to remain single is knowing you’ll never be that stupid cuck walking out of divorce court with his pants around his ankles and his asshole bleeding from the raping that Big Daddy Government just put on him.

People can shame you all they want for not following the agenda and choosing to be a cog in the gynocentric system, because it will always be you getting the last laugh when you watch these same cucks that shamed you get divorce raped. I can’t even count how many of these cucks I have seen this happen to, and I can’t count how many times I have thanked my lucky stars that I have never gotten married!

[ShineParticipant 1696]

obZen wrote:

“why don’t you have a girlfriend like X?”

A good counter is “I’m over qualified”, said with a grin and a laugh.

They hate seeing a good man enjoying his life, so this rubs it back in their face, and can come off as a joke so keeps your stealth. A lot of truths are said in jest.

"Society is to blame" Denton

[MoreSkyParticipant 4865]

Nicely done obZen. Female family members are a key part of the feminist indoctrination of young men and it’s good you can resist.

My father has recently stopped asking about why I am single (post-divorce) and has begun asking questions that make it obvious he realises the benefits of being single and not spending time and resources on women. He is married for a second time after getting married again shortly after my mother (his first wife) died. He is definitely regretting it.

Setting an example to male family members will worry the women, which is why they cannot condone ANY free men.

"...reinvent your life because you must; it is your life and its history and the present belong only to you.” It is Your Life, Charles Bukowski.

[FunInTheSunParticipant 8283]

She’s projecting what SHE wants, and it’s annoying. Those that shame only care about your conformity, not your happiness.

To me, when someone says, “Why don’t you have a girlfriend?” I interpret that statement like this: “Why aren’t you catering to a woman’s (elusive) happiness?”

"I saw that there comes a point, in the defeat of any man of virtue, when his own consent is needed for evil to win-and that no manner of injury done to him by others can succeed if he chooses to withhold his consent. I saw that I could put an end to your outrages by pronouncing a single word in my mind. I pronounced it. The word was ‘No.’" (Atlas Shrugged)

[Anonymous 7]

Anonymous wrote:

my mother would love me to get married and give her grand kids.

Funny how they are s~~~ at taking care of the their own children and then want grandchildren. SMH.

[Aroused By Her AnguishParticipant 343]

Holy crap! “obZen”? That is seriously my favorite album from Meshuggah! I’ve been a Meshuggah fan for the past 16 years! It’s good to find another metal had on here.

And about your grandmother… My mother is the same! She keeps (indirectly) telling me that she wants me to generate grandchildren for her. These women can’t stop. They always want to make everything about THEM! They don’t care how much distress it causes us.

[MarketWatcherParticipant]

I have been listening to that s~~~ for 30 years. I finally put a stop to it with the truth. I am never getting married. Not sorry.

[obZenParticipant 107]

Aroused By Her Anguish wrote:

Holy crap! “obZen”? That is seriously my favorite album from Meshuggah! I’ve been a Meshuggah fan for the past 16 years! It’s good to find another metal had on here.

\m/

hell yeah dude!

sidecar wrote:

Ask grandma if she’s seen the kind of whores, sluts, golddiggers, and scum that are in your generation.

Ask her why she would want to inflict that sort of woman on you.

Oh she’s seen them… A couple of her own granddaughters fall under all of those categories, simultaneously.

[Author]

Posts