"Carrie Bradshaw" Wanna-Bee now crying, can't stop laughing.

[Frank V.Participant 2445]

I was reading this:

Dating columnist reveals how ‘Sex and the City’ ruined her life

I was riding in an Escalade en route to the “Sex and the City” movie premiere in Midtown with a Bravo camera crew in tow. When the SUV door opened, I stepped onto the pink carpet in my Allison Parris dress and Chanel bag. I felt like a star. I felt beautiful. I felt proud. I was rubbing shoulders with celebs and the goddess herself: Carrie Bradshaw, a k a Sarah Jessica Parker.

Yes, pretending you didn’t have an expiration date stamped on your ass- 27 years old. Oh, who can count how many “good men” you turned down flat because you had so much time to find “Mr. Right-Sized-Wallet” ?

I was considered by many to be Carrie Bradshaw 2.0. And I was happy to be given that identity for a while, but it was all a lie. At the premiere, I also felt like a fraud, insecure and embarrassed — like I didn’t belong.

Because you where delusional and lying to yourself as well as others. You felt like a fraud because you where a fraud.

I was a rising high-school senior when “Sex and the City” debuted in 1998, and I was instantly enthralled. I wanted to be like Carrie and her friends: I wanted to be glamorous and beautiful and dress well and have lots of dates. I realized I didn’t have to be a geek anymore. I could reinvent myself.

The show was my road map. Of all the die-hard fans I knew, I was the most influenced by “SATC.” At Georgetown University, where I enrolled in 1999, I started to wear dresses and learned how to do my makeup and curl my hair. The newfound male attention I received felt exhilarating.

Of course, why be yourself ! Put up a false front and enjoy the reward of male attention and a chance to grab what you wanted ! Beats actually having something to offer like a personality.

Seriously- someone cannot base their entire life and identity on a damn TV Show and not expect something to go wrong. Blurring the line between fiction and reality has consequences.

I lived on food bought for me on dates and the occasional bodega tuna sandwich. For clothes, it was wrap dresses from Diane von Furstenberg sample sales combined with loans from designers who took pity on me — like Betsey Johnson, who I’d interviewed at Fashion Week. Different men I dated gave me YSL shoes and status purses, just like Big did for Carrie on “SATC.” (In 2006, when I landed a six-figure editor-at-large gig at Star magazine, I finally felt more at ease with my finances.)

Her presentation of being a “successful” and “independent woman” was nothing bug a fiction. A show paid for by the men in her life. I’ve dealt with a few frauds like this over the years.

I also subscribed to Carrie’s ethos when it came to men. There was no such thing as a bad date — only a good date or a good brunch story. In my writing, I gave my boyfriends nicknames (one was “Prom King”) just like Carrie and her friends did.

Dates where resources for you to use. If not for money or food, then for fodder for your column.

And some wonder why men feel used !

She was so awful, even Gawker hated her !

They wrote about me as much as they wrote about Paris Hilton, but I had none of Paris’ resources to defend myself. Their core complaint about me was that I was a quote-unquote “fame whore.” They called me “one of the most hated people on the Internet.” They gave me infamy — and I didn’t want it. It was just ugly.

Well, they called you a “Fame Whore” because you, by your own admission, based your life on a fictional “Fame Whore” and became a real Fame Whore.

I dated a woman for a while, a beautiful entrepreneur who was also jilted by New York — that’s definitely not something you saw Carrie do. But dating is not front and center of my life anymore, although it was all I talked about in my 20s. That’s pretty one-dimensional.

Well, I guess being a fake who puts up a false front while being a “Fame Whore” based off a fictional character from a TV Show would you the one that was “one-dimensional”. Don’t blame “dating”, blame yourself.

Last year, I ended a two-year relationship with a man who ultimately couldn’t commit and wanted to be polyamorous. Again, “SATC” and the “lessons” it taught me, is the culprit. The show wasn’t a rubric on how to find a lifelong partnership. If I was more grounded and had honestly assessed whether or not this man was a good partner for me, I don’t think we ever would have dated.

It took her a decade to figure out that basing her entire life and identity off a second rate TV Show is a bad idea !

And I thought concrete was dense !

Crushed and needing to regroup, I took a sabbatical and lived in Bali for eight months on a healing journey. I was also celibate during my time there.

I get the feeling that this may have been her only break from the C~~~ Carousel up to this time in her life.

I do wonder what my life would have looked like if “Sex and the City” had never come across my consciousness. Perhaps I’d be married with children now? Who knows, but I can say for sure that, as clever and aesthetically pleasing as the show was — and, as much as I agree with its value of female friendships — it showed too much consumerism and fear of intimacy disguised as empowerment.

You should feel bad. You can’t blame a single man that you used as simply a means to your own ends. You chose this, they didn’t. When you where “young and pretty” you had plenty of chances to find a “good man”. And you blew it.

You where fool enough to let a TV Show do your thinking for you. Maybe it was less work than (God forbid) forming your own thoughts. Maybe you had no ideas of your own. Not My Problem.

Sure, I could have been a dating columnist for the rest of my life but, honestly, I gave really bad dating advice — and so did Carrie Bradshaw.

I am sure your advice was crap. But you are still living inside a TV Show if you think you could have been a dating columnist for the rest of your life. Why not ? The answer is in the form of two words:

The Wall

I want to be a different role model from the one I got. Two months ago, I started seeing someone I never would have dated 10 years earlier. Back then, I wasn’t looking to get married or seek a lifelong partner, and that was a mistake. This man is a very reasonable choice, and I’m at a place in my life where reasonable is very sexy.

I’ve put away the pink party dress. The designer shoes and bags are in storage. Now, I feel like genuine me — I’m no longer a Carrie Bradshaw knockoff.

You are 37 years old now. Yes, the clock is ticking…..

scroll down into the comments, about half way.

You are NOT in your late 20’s like in 2009:

Now you know what happened to “all the good men”.

You where too busy pushing them away or using them. And now, you are in a mad scramble before time runs out.

You are now giving every man you used or brushed aside in the past a real gift.

The revenge of watching you squirm as you careen into The Wall.

And The Wall takes no prisoners, The Wall doesn’t care. The Wall has No F~~~s To Give.

Frank V.

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22520]

The Sex in the City series was originally created and written by homosexual men. It is likely the series was adapted from a all male main cast, to a all female main cast for a larger market share.

What the Sex in the City series has shown is that living a male homosexual style lifestyle is the sexual fantasy of many women.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Frank V. wrote:

27 years old.

Naw. She was a senior in 1998. She’s not 27. She’s 38.

And she’s done.

“But dating is not front and center of my life anymore,”

…because she’s 38.

It’s not by her choice dating is not front and center in her life. Again, she’s done.

“Last year, I ended a two-year relationship with a man who ultimately couldn’t commit.”

Sure. “She” ended it.

It’s not because he “couldn’t commit”. That’s just the lie she’s telling herself.

In reality, a used up 38 year old slore is not worth committing to. Her window of opportunity for commitment is two decades past.

Frank V. wrote:

It took her a decade to figure out that basing her entire life and identity off a second rate TV Show is a bad idea !

Naw. She didn’t figure out anything. What she’s doing here is blaming a television show for her own s~~~ty life choices. Bitches never take responsibility for their own lives.

The fact that she’s blaming a television show shows she hasn’t learned a f~~~ing thing.

“Perhaps I’d be married with children now?”

But thankfully she isn’t. A man and some children really dodged a bullet there. Can you imagine being stuck with this slore as your inevitable ex-wife or mother?

[Anonymous 6]

She’s not all that attractive, plus she’s clearly the worse for wear and is a narcissistic monster. WTF?

[SolidParticipant 7520]

HAHAHAHA man !! Frank nailed it !!
Those c~~~s get used to find “new men” every day, meeting them everywhere, they are the cause of their own problems.
They can’t find men in their age, because those men are f~~~ing c~~~s like she, but when she was in her 20s.

Is math, 50/50 male/female, if she only wants the top 20% (because they are at least AVERAGE for her), it means 10% of the population.
So you have c~~~s cat fighting for men in a certain distribution and messing around with every other male that she can.
Those who she f~~~ed their minds, won’t want something like her never again, those who she “submitted” to, just dumped her because they can just grab a new version, with better t~~~ and ass, just from the c~~~-pool.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

I knew it 20 years ago… “Sex And the City” was cultural poison for women. It was an actual way of life, religion and mentality for these women (and a few of my exes) back in their 20s. They snap out of it when their eggs start drying up and they are shopping for more cats as they re-evaluate the last twenty years of crap they swallowed.

This video was originally called “how feminism ruined my dating life” before she changed it and got a ton of heat for it. Notice how she talks about “men” (out there) and how she listened and followed the advice of “strong and independent women” pumped out in TV shows and women’s interest magazines — instead of the REAL “men” she was a actually in a relationship WITH.

Probably the only HONEST and introspective video I have ever seen ( by a woman on the topic)… after growing fat on a diet of “I’m so fabulous”.

—

Top article is from a “dating and relationship coach” for ELLE magazine.
Well that f~~~ing figures.

Anyone who listens to “female dating advice” is doomed, I tell you.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22520]

It is good to see you, KM.

Keymaster wrote:

I knew it 20 years ago… “Sex And the City” was cultural poison for women. It was an actual way of life, religion and mentality for these women (and a few of my exes) back in their 20s. They snap out of it when their eggs start drying up and they are shopping for more cats as they re-evaluate the last twenty years of crap they swallowed.

You are correct. For many feminists, Sex And The City (sorry for getting the title wrong earlier) was like their “guide”.

I saw that first hand. I decided to step out of the way because said feminist would leave my hometown for the major cities, to usually never return.

[TwistParticipant]

Faust For Science wrote:

What the Sex in the City series has shown is that living a male homosexual style lifestyle is the sexual fantasy of many women.

But…but..but.. they DESERVE to live a ferociously fabulous life! And the shoes…. swoon…

sidecar wrote:

It’s not because he “couldn’t commit”. That’s just the lie she’s telling herself.

In this context, “commit” is defined as time-lapse suicide. Who’s up for some of that s~~~?

Great thread btw. The comments on the video KM posted span 4 years and tell such a consistent, and important story. This one was classic:

Ed Denoy
2 years ago
+xm377Moyocoyatzin Terry will soften up with someone, old or young. Someone of means. And have that baby.Then play the good life partner for a while.She will set the marriage up to fail,and appear in court as the victim. Then carry on with her child,a house,regular checks in the mail. Cosmetic surgery. Diets and the gym. She will then contemplate her next move,be it with a man or woman. It’s nearly become the normal route to a secure and affluent life for many women.It’s doable with the legal system supporting you. To me she is particularly repulsive. And not because she’s average. I do give credit to young men for one thing.They may appear to be soft white knights in order to get by in life,but most of them would never get married,especially to the likes of Terry.

[TwistParticipant]

Faust For Science wrote:

It is good to see you, KM.

I second that. So glad that our cult leader has returned from the wilderness. Now we can get back to our cult stuff.

🙂

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

The behavior is the same. The only thing that changed was the tactics.

I will shame you on to the plantation and if that doesn’t work I will belittle you, nag you, mock you and pull out every BULLY tactic I know to manipulate you into being by personal resource.

Not working? – plan two::
I am a victim of a TV show therefore you must feel sorry for me. It wasn’t my fault it was the big bad TV show. I’m sorry, I was wrong I will be less competitive and more caring IF I can manipulate you into being by personal resource and back onto the plantation.

The fish could not ride the bike so I took it and rode away.
That’s me in the distance all happy on my new MGTOW bike.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

NOW a reasonable men who she wold have never dated 10 years before????

a simp midium size safe wallet?
a guy she will f~~~ once a year after he marries her.

god, please someone shoot that bitch. no wait, dont, we can make money out of her. depresión, sell her drugs, she gets fat, diabetes, more drugs, kidney failure and diálisis.

now she can be shoot and we sell her family a beautifull funeral.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[Frank V.Participant 2445]

I should note: I tried to edit a few minor typos when the whole post just disappeared. I am shocked to see it somehow got posted !

Frank V.

[Frank V.Participant 2445]

sidecar wrote:

Frank V. wrote:

27 years old.

Naw. She was a senior in 1998. She’s not 27. She’s 38.

At the time of the scene she was describing, she was 27. She is, indeed, now 38. Blame my sloppy editing, no chances to fix it because the post poofed on me.

Frank V.

[Frank V.Participant 2445]

Oh, and she must be so proud of the past she wants to rewrite…

https://www.cbsnews.com/news/julia-allisons-campaign-to-rewrite-history-is-coming-along-nicely/

Frank V.

[Space CowboyParticipant 1466]

No sympathy. She chose to get giddy living up to a fake but popular TV show and measured her own happiness and success via it. She gargled cum whilst buying overpriced clothing on pity loans and whore cash for 20 years and now regrets it.

She did a pretty decent career being a vapid whore and enjoyed it it bet. Even still, she isn’t happy and its all that darned tv shows fault. Who bases their whole life on a TV show for 20 years only to blame that same show for the s~~~ty outcome of their own life choices?.

She says it’s irresponsible for the tv show to send messages out like it did, I say she’s irresponsible for basing her own real life on cheap entertainment.

Take a look in the mirror if you dare, it’s your fault you used up, past it whore bag. All the spunk, attention and pity loan clothing won’t make up for it. Clearly it doesn’t or you wouldn’t be all depressed and regretful.

"Have you ever thought about any real freedoms? Freedom from the opinions of others...even from the opinions of yourself?"

[Knights Templar RisingParticipant 5106]

This articles proves one long held theory: C~~~s are not “intelligent”, c~~~s are only perfect “mimics”. Their brains function exactly the same as birds. They can flawlessly mimic someone else’s useful ideas, but can not navigate complex situations that do not fit the parameters of the skills they learned to mimic.

Sovereignty above all else.

[Anonymous 3]

I was curious about that “unicorn” video of KM, and clicked on another video of her:

A few comments:
At 20 she used to cry every night with her mom, yet says she was “powerful and independent” in the first video?

Notice how she talks in the TED talk about “not following your passion”, and as an example talks on how she had a passion for a man, then it was gone?
That is code speak for saying to women: “use your brains and hunt the best resources available, instead of looking for love”. I have news for her, they already do that!

So, perhaps she was a unicorn before, and is a gold digger chameleon now. But she we a messed up unstable unicorn pretending to be a feminist role model. And now she is a smart manipulative gold digger pretending to be an anti-feminist role model.

In the first video she clearly says she would not pretend to be “weak, submissive and needy”. When actually in the second video we see she was very week and needy in her youth, but pretended otherwise.

So in this messed up confusion that is a woman’s head, we can very much extract a very common pattern that MGTOW know well:

1- as young she followed her passion and have many short-lived relationships: c~~~ carousel.
2- now she is near the wall and wants to “settle down”, retaining her independence but showing some “vulnerability”: get a beta provider.

And as such unicorns are once again proved to not exist in real life.

AWALT!

[SolidParticipant 7520]

Carnage wrote:

we can make money out of her. depresión, sell her drugs, she gets fat, diabetes, more drugs, kidney failure and diálisis.

When I get a lot of money my investment portfolio will be split between

– cat food industry
– cat toys industry
– make up industry
– pharmaceutical industries focused on “magic diet pills” and depression/anxiety meds
– plastic surgery clinics
– cheap wine brewers

With so many c~~~s going down that road, let’s make money out of their misery.

[SolidParticipant 7520]

FrostByte wrote:

I will shame you on to the plantation and if that doesn’t work I will belittle you, nag you, mock you and pull out every BULLY tactic I know to manipulate you into being by personal resource.

And if nothing else works, I will vote for socialists to tax even your sexist soul so if I can’t directly extort your money, the government will do it for me !! And then give me 5% back as welfare ! BECAUSE I’M AN INDEPENDENT WOMEN ! I DONT NEED MEN ! I CAN LIVE AN EXCELLENT LIFE JUST WITH WELFARE AND CATS !

HAHAHAHAHA

AWALT brother ! The same deal with tradcon c~~~s, they are just whores and s~~~ just like the feminists, but they realized that they can have a better life if they lure a tradcon simp and make him their slave ! AWALT, everything is a tactic, women doesn’t give a s~~~ about other women, feminists are just minions working for the left to do s~~~, if a woman convince a millionaire tradcuck to put a ring on her finger, she will ditch feminism in no time and pose as a tradc~~~ until she get tired and want a divorce, because she will spend her time enjoying the money instead of trying to show some virtue signaling.

[The Wall®Participant 655]

Typical woman! Live for years as a toxic degenerate and then suddenly decide to proclaim “I’m not like that anymore!”.

Dr. Veritas' Red Pill dosage recommendation: Once a day or more as needed.

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