Careful What You Wish For!!!

[DoinMyOwnThing40Participant 1000]

For many, many years I would always say to myself (or sometimes even to a friend) “I wish I had really low sex drive and just didn’t really care about women anymore.”

Recently, I have found that this is actually becoming the case for me! Now, don’t get me wrong, I still have my days where I see a really hot girl and I lose my mind for an hour or so. But these instances are exceedingly rare now as compared to just a few short years ago.

I really am wondering why this has happened to me. I mean, I still appreciate the beauty of women. But I don’t get that extreme urge to go home and jerk off thinking about her anymore. In fact, instead of jerking off every day, lately I will only jerk off maybe once every week if that. Sometimes up to 10 days no jerking off.

I wonder is it my age (41)? Or perhaps I just have lost almost all interest in women. Perhaps I don’t hold them in any high regard anymore, so my interest level in them has really fallen because of that.

Anyone else in here can relate???

Women are parasites. Each and every last one of them.

[chirParticipant]

Consider it aversion therapy. After 20 years of getting burned you are starting automatically use your judgement and evaluating the eventual pain of sticking it in the crazy.

It is by caffeine alone I set my mind in motion, it is by the beans of Java that thoughts acquire speed, the hands acquire shaking, the shaking becomes a warning; it is by caffeine alone I set my mind in motion.

[RennieParticipant]

I don’t find myself caring much either, I pay little attention to them in real time. The only girls that matter to me are the idealized versions in my fantasies.

[RoyDalParticipant]

Rennie wrote:

The only girls that matter to me are the idealized versions in my fantasies.

Same here. Imaginary friends do what I tell them, and I never tell them to use the courts to take all my money and then jail me for being unable to pay palimony.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[AttonParticipant]

I think your age would effect your bodily chemistry, I also think you have just flat out deprogrammed yourself, Humans are capable of doing amazing things by discipline themselves. In short I think your mind changed simply to function without and focus on other things.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[BigvernParticipant 1983]

DITTO brothers! My very high sex drive started to go about late thirties, which was also the point I realised there was no point in staying with a wife who never put out!
You should seen her face when I told her that my body was changing and didn’t want so much sex anymore!
For the FIRST time in 20 years she came on to me…….couldn’t believe it. It was a fantastic feeling to show indifference to her when I then told her I was ‘popping out for a beer’.
After years of being shown no effection, she then realised that she has no more cards to play!
Young mgtow brothers here, your drive will dissappear over time, so f~~~ them as is safe to do so, while you can.
It is SO F~~~ING LIBERATING not being a slave to your dick, and to the leeches of course!

"What made you think, there'd be a livin' in sheep?, Eat, Work, Eat Work and Sleep" - Mark Knopfler.

[Jon the Ex-SquidParticipant 298]

Same here. Late 30s and I slowed down. For awhile I was concerned and thought about getting on testosterone treatment (I was concerned radiation exposure had affected me). My doctor told me to see how things go for 6 months and to exercise more. So I did and realized it was a blessing. Much better focus and concentration. Enjoy the respite.

[PhantomParticipant 3328]

For myself, it’s as I have said before, there is just so many f~~~ing things about them that turn me OFF & leave me cold as ice. They can’t/won’t/don’t have anything going for them other than looks, for those that even have that going for them, and along with all the toxic hellish bulls~~~ that comes with them, is just hell no.

Agree with fantasy girl plan, no woman in reality can even touch her, in my mind. As for my age & lack of sex drive….nah, it’s a lack of females even being able to entice me to take the damn drive in the first place. As the way s~~~ is, they just offer nothing that fuels my sex drive.

What does it matter if you are a sexual maserati, if there is no gas (from females) to put in the tank?

Even if my age, whiskey dick, or anything else I want to add into the equation, are contributing factors….it’s all secondary for me, in light of the main contributing factor…or more honestly, the lack there of.

[clint englandParticipant 341]

Finding the same myself at 36. I pay for what little sex i do get on boys only holidays abroad, a group that includes 2 married guys!

I hated being highly sexed as younger man watching all the dick heads filling their boots whilst i got madam thumb and her 4 lovely daughters Ha!

Bring on the “Duncan Dead Dick” years i say! Lol

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

I’m so glad I’m old ☺ all that lusting in my youth cost …. well …. probably 2 houses plus.

My dick was not my friend back then. However, since …. we have reached an amicable phase ….. also dick is getting on a bit now … so he mostly keeps himself to himself.

He does come calling occasionally and we can normally still relive the past….. for old friends sake ?

[MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To GiveParticipant 6635]

Maybe your taking more calculated risk as to diving head first.

Never lose sight of what brought you here.

[FuckMeSpectator 215]

DoinMyOwnThing40 wrote:

Anyone else in here can relate???

Yes of course, I find it is MUCH better to have multiple women on tap willing to f~~~ a.k.a. FWB knowing I can tap it at anytime than devoting myself to one woman where I am just waiting until SHE tells me we can do it, knowing all she really wants is money. Sex can make you tired, that’s why the coach always told the team no sex the night before the game, jerking off does the same thing. Waiting 10 days is really good, if your jerking off 3 times a day you need to get control of it but many have been or are still there…even once a day can drain you, I think after waiting three or four days your body can recover more. Chir nailed it, the consequences of f~~~ing is that when your done there is this other person there…

You think Chernobyl was bad? Wait until the ink drys on that marriage contract you just signed...we know, you just wanted sex and fun...you could have gotten that for $100.00 a couple times a month instead of DESTROYING your life!!!

[BigDParticipant 3024]

Wish I had your problem. Still jerking at least once a day. Most days much more trying to get the urges out.

Don't stick your dick into anyone you aren't willing to put up with for eighteen years and nine months.

[Deus Ex MachinaParticipant 1068]

After working in an office setting and corporate world,

No f~~~ing thank you. I had enough with whinny female interns, bossy bitches, and power hungry c~~~s who’s only enjoyment is to belittle, and to look down upon

Then I wanted go see what the dating world was all about, and HOO LEE S~~~, that’s more worst then the Congo!.

"If You have the Tooth of a Whale, You must have the Whale's Jaw to hold it". (i.e. One Must have the right qualifications for leadership) -Hawaiian Proverb

[qeeqoParticipant 1168]

Here’s my situation. I can go weeks without feeling the urge to jerk off, the problem now is decades of porn burnout. Women’s bodies don’t turn me on like they used to. Throw a little red pill knowledge into the mix I find the female person such a turn off that it’s very difficult to get over the hump and ejaculate. I just watched a show where both the guys and gals got naked and jumped into a lake. I had the same reaction to both the males and females… total indifference, not even a centimeter of rise over the woman. I had a 20 year old neighbor who is always trying to mooch something from me show me some of her iPad artwork which was mostly anime show me a pic of a wet cat and ask if I knew what that was. I though, if she says it’s a wet pussy which she did, how do I pretend I didn’t hear it. I said, “Great artwork, you’re very talented”. I was thinking about having my testosterone level checked on an upcoming physical, but for f~~~ing what? I haven’t had sex in a decade and just dodged a bullet with a blatant offer. I had to shut her down, not had to, but wanted to and did. Women get very f~~~ing weird when they are sexually rejected it changed the whole dynamic of our interactions. The most interaction I want with women today is answering the question if I would like paper or plastic.

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