Care to share a breakup story?

[Knight ErrantParticipant 179]

Hi Gents,

I’d love to read your breakup stories. No matter how serious or relationship was, whether just a few weeks of dating, cohabitation, or marriage, I’m curious about how different people approach initiating a breakup and what happens after that. Was it painless, quick and easy? Did the woman show you a side you never imagine she had? Was there craziness? How did your life, attitude, etc change afterwards?

I’ll start, to break the ice.

I was in college at the time, living with the gf in a room, in a dorm. After a time I felt more and more constrained, she was becoming more and more controlling, trying to dictate how to spend my free time, demanding more attention at the cost of my hobbies and spending time with my buddies. One day I had enough and I just told her it’s over. She went crazy, crying, screaming and threatened to jump out of the window if I left. It was years ago and Idon’t remember it 100%, but I guess I was trying to out-crazy her and started to cry myself and curled up on the floor, as if the idea of her killing herself was just too much for me. Deep down I knew she was bluffing. After It became apparent to her who can be more hysterical (I won), she said she wanted to make love one last time, no strings attached, for goodbye. I said ok and we f~~~ed, i remember it felt totally unremerkable and I felt like I was doing her a favor and one last chore. Afterwards she asked something along the lines of “well, have you changed your mind”? As if that was a ploy to reel me back in somehow. I said i thought it was no strings attached and left, embracing freedom. It felt great.

Sorry if I bored you, I’d love to read yours!

I'm no white knight, Sir. Give me a strong suit of armour, a swift steed and the open road and stick the hand of the princess up your arse. I've no ring to put on it and I'm fresh out of fucks to give.

[JVBParticipant]

11 years ago was my last serious relationship. Our breakup was quiet complicated. It went something like this. When the economy tanked so did my business. She found someone richer.

Boy did she do me a favor.

Peace is > piece.

[Anonymous 42]

My breakup stories culminated in one final “break away story”, I’ve had a breakup story with every women I ever knew, some casual that I handed off to a friend, others that costed 4 months in Jail, and yet others that were married and honoring her vows the way women do.

Anyway, back to the breakaway story, one day I just realized the cycle wasn’t gonna change no matter how shallow or deep the relations~~~ was. I saw the security risks as other men were being ground to pieces intentionally in the scam of marriage (F~~~ YOU VANESSA!).

Anyway my life took off like a rocket after disposing of the security risk to my safety, prosperity, and overall happiness! While others were wiping baby ass and surrendering everything to a family to be destroyed along with them in the process; I was off on one of my Peter Pan adventures on the spur of a moment!

A man lays down his life only to be walked on! He’s a place for a woman to wipe the dogs~~~ off her feet after f~~~ing one of the dogs from the local kennel!

I’ve seen all kinds of deceit, enough to keep me MGTOW for TEN THOUSAND YEARS!

Yea, I broke up! FOREVER!

[JVBParticipant]

Tower. How’s your brother doing bro ?

Peace is > piece.

[SolidusXParticipant 854]

In my blue’ish pill days I was dating this woman we will call Jenny… she was starting to have some difficulty paying her mortgage as she decided to go to school for a trade. She eventually decided to sell her house, long story short I offered my place for us to live together as things were going great between us. I helped her move in and have her crap everywhere, which took her a f~~~ing a whole month to clean up, all I would hear is excuses as to why she could not finish cleaning :/. Anywhoo she eventually kicked me out of my own bedroom we shared as she said I snored and got ever increasingly demanding. Eventually she broke up with me because I would not share a f~~~ing loaf of bread with her even though she said she wanted to get her own groceries. I like wtf, I help you move and give you a great place to live rent free and you essentially treat me like s~~~ and turn my place into a war zone… thank f~~~ your out. She eve tried to get me to to move out of my own home, but I was not having any of that, I simply took her s~~~ through it out on the lawn and changed the locks.

Knowledge is power..... Don't waste your brain on bullshit

[RIP_PatriceParticipant 59]

Sandman summed up my situation.

he cut some stuff out though.

[Anonymous 42]

JVB wrote:

Tower. How’s your brother doing bro ?

He’s doing good, he quit drinking except wine now and again, like last night he purchased that boxed stiff, I’m sure he’s sick as a dog and back on the wagon!

Mom sent us some mail order frozen stakes, I’m gonna cook them on the MANGRILLE with some grass fed hamburger, peppers, mushrooms, and onions for both the steaks and spaghetti sauce. 1/2″ thick steel slab is WAY better than any frying pan, the surface temperature is even, large, and constant, plus the searing torch gives it that napalm sex appeal!

Maybe I’ll make another Sunday with Chef Stealthy/MG-Tower thread tomorrow night.

I’m saving the frozen steak Styrofoam box so I can ship C-Pig some of my delicious peppers this fall, just need a little dryice and presto, MG-Tower’s delicious peppers at your door!

[GrumpyParticipant]

Not really a “share” per say.
For myself.
Relationships have came and went. They ended for a variety of reasons and my life is better being non attached.
Regardless of the truth of why they ended, I can always count on being named as the focal point of blame.
You know what?
I am ok with with that since blame is like water on a ducks ass.

There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

[Silver FoxParticipant 2766]

This isn’t a really dramatic story but it serves to illustrate another aspect of the AWALT truth.

In college, I started dating a girl who really liked me and had been waiting anxiously for me to make the first move. She was completely thrilled when I finally started asking her out.

Anyway, at the end of that semester, I was flying back to my home state for the summer, and told her that communication would be intermittent and irregular because of my wildland firefighting job. We get dispatched randomly all over the western states and can be gone for two or three weeks at a time, with no guarantee of cell phone coverage. So I gave her fair warning, and she said she was totally okay with that.

Well, sure enough, we go to a fire and when the two weeks were over, I came home to find an email about how she thought this shows I wasn’t really committed to our relationship and that we were done.

Lol. Okay, then. I was a little hurt and disappointed but honestly I just put all my energy into focusing on my job, and put it behind me.

That was the last girlfriend I had before I met and married my (ex) wife.

One girl I knew in college later emailed me a few times asking why it didn’t work out. She thought we would have been the perfect couple and was sad it ended. I explained honestly to her, but I could tell she was still reluctant to accept reality.

"Are you loosed from a wife? Do not seek a wife." --Apostle Paul

[Knight ErrantParticipant 179]

Thank you for sharing, everyone! Much appreciated!

SolidusX wrote:

(…)long story short I offered my place for us to live together as things were going great between us.(…)Anywhoo she eventually kicked me out of my own bedroom we shared as she said I snored and got ever increasingly demanding. (…) She eve tried to get me to to move out of my own home, but I was not having any of that, I simply took her s~~~ through it out on the lawn and changed the locks.

Wow! Holy s~~~, that’s unbelievably ungrateful! I’m glad you did what you did at the end. Did she pull any psycho s~~~ when she got there and found her stuff outside and locks changed?

Silver Fox wrote:

Well, sure enough, we go to a fire and when the two weeks were over, I came home to find an email about how she thought this shows I wasn’t really committed to our relationship and that we were done.

So let me get this straight, you spend 2 weeks putting out a forest fire (I can only imagine the scale if it took so long) and she still thinks that time would be better spent giving her attention? Talk about solipsism…

I'm no white knight, Sir. Give me a strong suit of armour, a swift steed and the open road and stick the hand of the princess up your arse. I've no ring to put on it and I'm fresh out of fucks to give.

[ScarberianMPTGLParticipant 3286]

Where to start…which one should I share…?

OK, so this girl was my first serious relations~~~, we’ll call her…M. I don’t remember most of the details but essentially what happened was one of my friends at the time told me she was hitting on him, and he showed me the MSN Messenger conversation to prove it. I found out she was also trying to go out with another of my friends at the same time. That was the end of that, to say the very least. Luckily I haven’t heard from her or any of my other gf’s…YET.

I, Lelouch Vi Britannia, command you, all of you, to Go Your Own Way!!

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