Captain Save -a-Hoe

[Anonymous 18]

Here is a nice example why it’s never enough for women when it comes to resources of a male aka modern slave

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I am a physician in Ohio. I got dumped by ex wife 6 years ago when my daughter was 6 months old. I share custody of her. I met my current wife online. She told me she was on the pill but she still got pregnant after a 3 month relationship. My current wife had just completed a three year divorce process from a psychopath wife/child abuser. Oh, and she had four kids with the creep. Knowing all this, I married her (I did love her, plus coming off a bad divorce of my own). She moved across town into a new house I bought. Her kids are now 13,13, 17, and 19. All of them live under my roof. My wife and I have a son together; he’s now 3. When my daughter is with me, we have six kids in the home

My wife doesn’t work. We decided together that the house would run smoother if she was around at all times

1) 4 teenagers (SK’s) in the house. The 14 yo boy is a behavioral issue. 25 holes in the walls. Swears like a sailor. Very demanding of his accommodating mother

2) My wife insists that she doesn’t want me disciplining the children. She wants to take care of all that. The kids have no chores or responsibilities. None. I work 80 hrs a week and do the lawn, take out the garbage, clean up the family room, etc etc. Nor do the older ones have jobs.

3) Money. I make a decent living as a doc. Buy my monthly expenses exceed what I bring in. My wife doesn’t work. There is no financial support for the sk’s. I pay food, gas, cars, insurance, bills, sports fees, etc etc. I gave my wife a credit card for household expenses. Every month I pay $6-8000 bill. And when our son is 5 and off to school my wife plans to go back to work but only to earn money for her kids to have college paid for. I have a 3 and 6 year of my own. There will be no reserve for them

4) My wife sees my daughter as a threat. Anytime I do anything with her one on one she sulks and gets p~~~y. I now have to conceal our daddy/daughter time from her

Im a mental wreck. I can’t go on much longer

Ive considered therapy. Not sure how it would improve things. Wife pretty inflexible when it comes to her kids. This life demands a Christ-level degree of humility/self sacrifice. I dont know if I have it in me. Worn out. 

S~~~ man I feel pretty dumb right about now. This woman is a relentless shrew. Somehow- despite paying mortgage, bills, SK’s food/braces/medical bills/sports equipment, two new cars, etc etc—she spins the situation as me being an asshole for demanding her kids do something around the house other than satisfy every immediate desire that floats through their brains. The funny thing is, her parents are ultra wealthy but don’t help out other than to lavish the 4 SK’s with ridiculous xmas and birthday gifts (for instance last xmas, every kid got a roll of 300 one dollar bills all taped together)

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Read how good she has manipulated this otherwise intelligent/successful man into believing the ex to be psycho/evil man and also trying to paint him an asshole for calling out on the unfair treatment

Don’t be this guy

MGTOW is a new surgical technique to resect love-itis cancer without anesthesia. The discomfort/pain is imperative goal of this treatment. Once treated, the cancer may return. 2 red pills daily for lifetime is the required prescription. Not covered under any healthcare act worldwide

Original link: http://www.steptalk.org/node/217534

[BDParticipant 1146]

Anonymous wrote:

she spins the situation as me being an asshole for

Anonymous wrote:

also trying to paint him an asshole fo

Your reward for all of your hard work is that you will be the next asshole.

It is like you have an abscess that is growing and growing, causing more pain, you need to lance it and drain it, this you must do yourself, Mgtow will support you and help with any infection afterwards.

She’s ungrateful, she has massive baggage with no child support! Why no child support, does she even know who the real dads are?

Second marriage failure rate is about 70%, she has baggage 4 kids, she lets her kids destroy your house! She trapped you by not taking the pill.

You have been in a sea of red flags for a long time brother, start your exit strategy, develop a fake gambling or alcoholic addiction, caused by the stress of your failing relationship,  and store your cash at a friend’s place, then exit. After the divorce, go to a few AA or Gambling Addiction meetings to get over your problem to make it seem legit, all worth it.

Because in order to be able to think, you have to risk being offensive.

[WolfParticipant 890]

Reading that guy’s story makes me sick to my stomach.

Anonymous wrote:

My current wife had just completed a three year divorce process from a psychopath wife/child abuser.

Of course she was the victim in her previous relationship, and she will be the victim after she’s done destroying him in divorce court. He will become the second psychopath wife/child abuser in her life.

Thanks for the heavy dose of red pills!

 

[Anonymous 18]

Hey BulletDodger its all sound advice but it’s not my story. Its some poor chap on a forum I occasionally visit who I hope will find out about MGTOW.com and grow a pair.

[BDParticipant 1146]

Anonymous wrote:

Its some poor chap on a forum

I guess my screen wasn’t scrolled all the way up, and I missed the bottom, my bad, happy that it is not you iLearn!

This man needs help! I hope he never legally adopted these bastard children.

Because in order to be able to think, you have to risk being offensive.

[WolfParticipant 890]

Anonymous wrote:

Its some poor chap on a forum I occasionally visit who I hope will find out about MGTOW.com and grow a pair.

Send him a private message on the forum and tell him about this site. He’s drowning and reaching out for some support, and he’ll get it here.

BD wrote:

This man needs help! I hope he never legally adopted these bastard children.

Depending on where he lives, he may end up paying child support for those four step kids even if he didn’t legally adopt them.

His situation is VERY bad!

[Anonymous 42]

Anonymous wrote:

The 14 yo boy is a behavioral issue. 25 holes in the walls

Hmmmm 25 holes? I’d make it 26 holes and one broken 2X4 stud! Hand that little bastard a razor knife, some sheet-rock (gypsum board) and some compound, Have “HIM” fix the walls! If not, use him as a wrecking ball to remove the rest of the wall! That little f~~~er, I’d have him looking like a ghost covered in dust! Spitting out chunks of wall board!

 

[HitmanParticipant]

wow doc , you better start taking notes quick ! she will ruin you if you do nothing. get a lawyer fast and stay on mgtow for advise and support.

[IGMOW (I Go My Own Way)Participant 2572]

I take what needs to be done here is that, a man needs to find his way, get his things together, know what works, and not let anyone muck with it.   You need to work on dealing with being lonely and so on.  And no way to you allow a woman to screw it up, period.  I believe all men need to get that done, even if they don’t go MGTOW, and for some reason decide to get married.  The subset of suitable women is likely to be zero, but from an investment standpoint in your life, you reduced the downside risks to next to zero, and increased the upside potential to as maximum as possible.

"I am my own thang. Any questions?" - Davis S Pumpkins.

[Anonymous 1]

Wow, that was quite an horror story!

Thanks for the share, and for reinforcing my conviction of never getting married… EVER.

[EntropyParticipant 902]

Sounds more like General Save-a-Hoe…

"Compare your lives to mine and then kill yourselves" -BBR

[Anonymous 11]

Horrible tale of woe. Here I am under the impression that he who brings home the bacon gets to call the shots. No wonder I never got married.

We’re here for ya’ Doc should you ever need our services.  This site is the equivalent of a PhD level course of learning in C~~~ology.

[EndwatcherParticipant 81]

I read that on to on S.T, I shat bricks reading it.

 

Made me feel much better about my current situation, and gave some motivation.

 

He does need to come here to this site, He’s MGTOW in the making and gonna need some consulting.

He needs to get out of that situation.

 

[Lord VatsParticipant 379]

Am I the only one that saw this coming a long way off?
He didn’t only remarry twice, the second remarriage was with his first wife. How do you come out unscathed when you haphazardly choose to marry 3 times?
For me, this was not really a red pill dose because everyone knows how women are after marriage. She didn’t do anything insidious or machiavellian other than being her original bitchy self. Did you guys really read the post thinking she’ll be kind and grateful after he takes in her and the 4 kids?

@iLearn
I know it is tempting, but maybe you should not lurk around the “step” forums. They have their more-than-fair share of stupid manginas.
 

[uchibenkeiParticipant 7965]

he was in love after 3 months.  for a doctor, he’s pretty f~~~ing dumb.

I bathe in the tears of single moms.

[Anon AnoningtonParticipant 62]

BD wrote:

sy. I now have to conceal our daddy/daughter time from her Im a mental wreck. I can’t go on much longer Ive considered therapy. Not sure how it would improve things. Wife pretty inflexible when it comes to her kids. This life demands a Christ-level degree of humility/self sacrifice

The saddest thing is that people who do not reform themselves do not deserve forgiveness, and this idea seems to be lost on modern men. Even if you are Christian, if you want to be “saved”, YOU have to seek out Christ. YOU have to REPENT if you have sinned. Forgiveness and redemption are free in the sense that none who seek are turned away, but you have to do the seeking yourself.

It’s not right to just forgive people without themselves having the will to change. Ideally, everyone has the potential to get a clean slate if they put in work to redeem themselves, but it’s ignorant and negligent of the underlying problems when you freely forgive everyone for everything. If a fat person says, I really hate being fat and I want to lose weight, the proper way to redeem himself is to diet and lose that weight, but if instead he makes peace with his gluttony, he will remain fat. If a drug addict wants to kick the habit, that’s wonderful and he ought to be supported by his friends or a support group, but if everyone just said “don’t worry about it. it’s no big deal” that would be no support at all. Forgiveness is apathy/nihilism. Blind forgiveness enables destructive lifestyles. If you don’t confront a problem it will persist and do greater damage in time.

[EdogParticipant 254]

Holy s~~~! Reading stuff like that makes me so happy I managed to sidestep all the various landmines along the way. I’m happily never married, and happily have no children. And for so long I aspired to have both of those things! What the hell was I thinking all that time? The red pill is a life saver, literally.

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

He needs slapping, pushing, swearing, sleep depravation and other mind f~~~ torture.

This guy is so far plugged in you can’t see for the s~~~.

WTF is going on in his head? A doctor? I’m f~~~ed if I’d trust him with any decisions let alone medical.

He needs 6 months of mgtow boot camp before any help would penetrant his thick f~~~ing skull.

Yes give him help … of course … he’s a brother …. but help at the end of a boot.

[Mango IngawayParticipant 2264]

Anonymous wrote:

she spins the situation as me being an asshole

Every time a woman doesn’t get what she wants from you, just expect some form of retaliation, be it physical or verbal.

The little princesses aren’t used to the word “no”.

Simple as that.

Even all your money won’t make them happy, so spend your money on yourself, and make at least one person happy :YOU.

Meanwhile, the vaginas can shut the f~~~ up and stay out of my life.

It is a common failing of childhood to think that if one makes a hero out of a demon the demon will be satisfied.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

uchibenkei wrote:

he was in love after 3 months. for a doctor, he’s pretty f~~~ing dumb.

Doctors have to concentrate so completely on their studies for the majority of their 20s that a lot have absolutely no experience in dealing with women as they near their 30s. Moreover, by the time they finish their residency and can finally start having almost a life a lot of them are incredibly thirsty and will “fall in love” with the first creature to give them the time of day. The common belief is that women seek out doctors for husbands walking wallets because they generally earn well, which is true, but they also do it because women know doctors are often easy marks.

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