Captain Save a BRO?

[IGMOW (I Go My Own Way)Participant 2572]

There is Captain Save a Ho. But how about Captain Save a Bro? I see an interest in a desire to try to actively save a Blue Pill man from making a mistake, with women, but possibly can be other areas also.

So, my question would be: How much, and in what context, do you reach out to a Blue Pill man, to be able to save him from making mistakes?

"I am my own thang. Any questions?" - Davis S Pumpkins.

[MENGINEERParticipant 583]

Some people don’t want to be saved. They will fight and crawl for their blue pill ways until their last breath. I did until my last relationship then I learned…

I found telling people the truth about hypergamous women and feminism pops their belief bubble and they become angry. They instead criticize the messenger without understanding the message. It’s akin to politics, money, or religion in some ways..better not to talk about it to some.

Most people need to make a mistake (albeit a very expensive one marriage/kids) before truly learning from their actions.

Child support and/or losing their house and retirement shouldn’t be how they learn. Alas the red pill is a bitter one to swallow to some folks..

[Anonymous 42]

I think we start out with a drop of red-pill blood, either you have it or you don’t! It’s something that gnaws on your mind from a young age (at least for me it was). Eventually it surfaces on it own, or it’s put together like pieces in a puzzle, in either event the transformation arrives at the moment of “self awareness”, “self ownership”, from that moment on, all else becomes irreverent, your prospective is changed forever, you’re nobodies fool…

[UntamedParticipant]

Let them save themselves and avoid yourself a whole lot of trouble. Most BluePillers are positive of their grasp of reality until Reality comes a-landing and takes a s~~~ on their head… and even then they might not let go of their delusion. I’ve seen men living in their cars after the State took everything from them including some years of freedom still trying to get back with the pussy that locked them up!
The only contact I have with BluePillers nowadays is professional and I don’t get into their lives, it’s strictly about money and they know it. I got no time for menginas, nawalts and white knights in my personal schedule. F~~~ ’em.

Don't let them Blame, Shame or Tame you!
Give 'em NOTHING, not even an answer!
#GenderSegragationNow!

[Anonymous 18]

My best friend is a blue pill man. My theory is if you are not a red pill before you start messing around with women then only way to get there is getting burned.

So I wait and watch. And watch. And keep ice cold beer in my fridge.

[HuevonParticipant 68]

When I was a teenager, I told one of my best friends that his father was acting stupid and explained why. He got upset, and told him. Today he understands that his father actually is an idiot, and complains to me about it all the time. But I felt uncomfortable when I went to his parent’s house ever since. This incident tought me, that he can’t keep confidential information to himself.

A decade later he had his first serious relationship. He was already in his mid-late twenties. First they moved together, then they bought a cat, then a dog, then a house. All of this just took half a year. I just thought to myself “f**k this is getting dangerous” I talked to him about it, and his reply was: “what do you expect from life. We are getting old, Why not have kids”. One night she was drunk, and I was sitting by the table alone with her drinking as well. She told me how she pulled manipulation tactics on other people, and was all proud of it. She also played these games, where she would always yell “Huevon I want a kid from you” to get him jeallous when I was talking to him on the phone..She was the kind of woman you don’t want to turn your back on.
I talked to my friend about this and that just trying to get an impression of how much information he could take, without getting too specific about her personality. I came to the conclusion, that If I told him all my thoughts regarding that woman, he would tell her, just like back in the days, when he told his father what I thought about him. That manipulative bitch would have turned it all against me and would have destroyed our friendship in return. I just knew I could not save him.
The following years were awful for me to watch, and it still is. She stopped taking her BC pill without telling him. She got pregnant twice. She gets in fights with his mom all the time. and recently he admitted to me that she likes to beat him.
My “good friend” does not like to talk to me about all the problems he is having in his relations~~~, because he is afraid that I would say “Why didn’t you listen to me back in the days?”. So I barely have any deep conversations about anything that really matters in our lifes anymore. Sometimes I think that I should have told him everything, but then again I know that I did not have the power to save him. Way too often I played Jesus in my life. First carry somebodies cross to the top of some mountain, just to get nailed to it in return. Can’t do it no more.

Back then there was no manosphere and the term MGTOW didn’t even exist. Today I would just introduce him to this forum and say: “read yourself”. That way one can help a friend without loosing a friendship because his furious woman gets mad at me for saying something. At the end everybody is responsible for his own happyness, and who am I to say that I found the right way. But still it breaks my heart, when I think of my friend.

[foolsgoldParticipant 5640]

I attempted to save a bro once. He didn’t want to hear it. About 3 years later I got a phone call from him after not having contact with him for roughly 3 years. I let him sleep on my couch until the divorce was final. He’s been grateful ever since and has told me many times he wished he had listened to me. I agree that most blue pillers have to get burned first before they listen. I was the same way. I got my friend back in the process.

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