Can't Even Do Business With Them. It's Getting Worse

[GeordieMGTOWParticipant 50]

Don’t want to give too much personal details but this week: Let’s say I normally go to a club/gym/training/class of some sort and had been for a bit over a year. I decided I wanted to take a couple of weeks/months off – I never put a time frame on it. I was never quitting. And I was doing something really important to do with my finances, investing.

Told my female instructor. Was just straight about it. Nice enough, you know? ‘I’m taking a few weeks off. I wouldn’t rely on me being there for this time but I’ll be down to pay next months subs.’ All hell broke loose. She took it really personal. Everything was all about her: ‘I put in 100%! You’re just throwing your training away! Nothing can be so important! Don’t bother coming in, just hand the money to x (someone else who happens to come into my workplace from the club/class/gym). I’ll take that as your notice! Total waste of time!’ She also basically called me an idiot for doing what I was doing investing in crypto. I mean, maybe. Maybe – but I never asked her opinion.

Never asked me why I wasn’t training for a bit or if something was up or? I could live with her being huffed. Not logical or justified but I could live with that. Obviously, it’s wrong: I’m my own man. I’m not obligated. At the end of the day I’m paying for a service. I just wanted to learn x. No drama. Can’t/would never force people to do stuff they don’t want to do.

What really did it for me though was the *waste of time* remark. It didn’t take me long to decide I *was* now going to quit. I decided quite swiftly and without hesitation that I had been going to this class/course/gym to be fit and learn a life skill. Not to put up with drama, and not to be shamed or punked. I’m supposed to be adding value to my life. Not that nonsense. Bearing in mind:

– She’s made a grand off me in a year.
– I’ve lent my personal property to the club, and let anyone use it
– I’ve came and supported another club member for an event
– Went to the Christmas social (I’m really not social but made the effort)
– I’ve sponsored my instructor for a charity run.
– I chipped in for her Christmas present
– I’ve payed the extra subscription for weekend classes which kept getting cancelled.
– I did my grading basically for her. Really. I don’t collect trophies. She asked me several times. Okay I got a certificate from it, but it was really for her because I thought it looked better for her and her club. Really wasn’t fussed.

And I’m a time waster?

Tried to tell her this twice. Once on the phone. Once in person. When I approached her at the end of class (after I’d just put £30 in her hand) she yelled at me, talking over me, talking at me, upset – making a point so others could see. She was basically being very histrionic. Talked at me like teacher telling a child off, bearing in mind I’m a full grown man. I’m in my thirties. Kept calm telling her ‘You won’t let me get a word in’. All I wanted to say was basically something like ‘Look, I never wasted anyones time. I’m paying you for a service at the end of the day. I’ve let the club use my equipment. I’ve came and supported x person. I’ve sponsored you. That’s on you if you feel like I’ve wasted your time’. Would not give me the chance. It was just stupid. It was like one of those 14 year old arguments you have when you’re a kid. Just coming out with random illogical crap like ‘If I had a wife and kids would I just abandon my duty?’ ‘That’s not the situation. I don’t have a wife and kids. What are you talking about?’ I said to her. Then she got scornful. You know when you tell a female something and they spitefully use it against you? I work a crappy fast food job and she knows this. And she kept telling me ‘I’ll see you at x (e.g. McDonalds) … when you’re still working there in 10 years!’

So I took my equipment because well, it’s mine and I didn’t want to leave it there. And because at the time after I had lent it, not as part of the deal, she had said I’ll let you off with the yearly subscription of a tenner: her logic was I owed her another £10. I guess she thought she was buying a brand new £70 odd quid piece of equipment I’d just gotten from Amazon from me for a tenner. Despite I had never asked for a discount and I would call that a gift – If she’d volunteered to let me off with the £10 you know? Despite I’d paid for classes which were cancelled – and so if it’s like that, she owed me more money: Despite this I paid the tenner because I didn’t fancy her muckle fighter husband turning up at my workplace with the idea that I had stolen a tenner or some s~~~ like that. Not that I’m saying he is like that but I can imagine, from her behavior, and head games, some s~~~ like that scenario happening. And f~~~ that. Don’t need that. So I was literally mugged off a woman.

It just gets worse honestly. The spite. The entitlement. The drama. The irrationality. The hyperbolic and histrionic behavior. And that wicked scornful, ill willed behavior. The immaturity. I knew all this. I knew all this. I’ve already opted out of relationships, as in ‘romantic’ or interpersonal ‘Monk’ type MGTOW if you want to label it but it’s like you can’t even do business with them.

[jimbob15217Participant 491]

Just my opinion and some free advice: if you want a trainer, get a guy. Also, it might be a good idea to get a fresh start at a different gym. Finally, if this had been my experience, I wouldn’t have the least reluctance to share my impressions with the gym’s owner. If your trainer was the gym owner, obviously there’s no need to take that step.

[The Black ScorpionParticipant 2145]

Stupid bitch has no business being a personal trainer.

I’d go on Yelp or Google reviews in your area and crucify her.

The greatest tragedy in life is to spend your whole life fishing only to discover that it was not fish you were after. - Henry David Thoreau

[Anonymous 54]

Shes got the hots for you!!!! Hhah

Thats why it was so personal.

[Anonymous 0]

Anonymous wrote:

Shes got the hots for you!!!! Hhah

Thats why it was so personal.

I think that is closer to the truth.

[BrainPilotParticipant 7640]

I agree with the advice to take it to yelp and google, anonymously of course. but it’ll be a public service to her future victims that you can feel good about…

Look, it's not my fault that tornado dropped a house on your sister. Now get back on your broom and get your ass out of here... and take your monkeys with you

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22510]

Women take business stuff personal. I’ve seen it for decades. Performance reviews are a nightmare. They cry about stuff, it isn’t personal but they take anything they perceive as negative as a personal attack.

Women are the original millenial snowflakes. Always have been.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[StealthParticipant 5330]

End of the day she was not being professional. Don’t pay any attention to anything she said, or says from this point forward.

"Once you’ve taken care of the basics, there’s very little in this world for which your life is worth deferring." -David Hansson. "It’s not when women are mean or nasty that anything is out of the ordinary. It’s when they are NICE to you that you have to be on high alert..." -Jackinov.

[ChristopherParticipant 2478]

Your basic Bitch – her husband aint spanking her hard enough.
I dont associate AT ALL with women…
That story is f~~~in nuts but not surprising at all its typical of their potential behavior
Yep sounds like she maybe she had the hots doesnt excuse it
Who needs that s~~~
Bodycam /audio recorder

Sooner or later they are all c~~~s.
#MANOUT

Feminism was funded by bankers/politicians to create more taxpayers. MGTOW IS FREEDOM https://archive.org/details/mgtowisfreedomblurayready

[bstoffParticipant 4863]

Depending on the content and context of the public “conversation”, and if you have any witnesses willing to go to bat for you, you probably have grounds for a civil case against her and maybe even grounds for criminal charges.

Imagine if the gender roles had been reversed.

[DocParticipant]

It could be that in her eyes anyone who walks away even if only for a few weeks is insulting her in her eyes.

If she is teaching your something – sounds like a martial art she gets reflected glory in the number who she has attending. You taking time out is viewed by her as a hit to that pride she’s she’s feeling.

Her behaviour may mask a fragile person who took your decision to step away to heart instead of on balance.

I could be wrong.

The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to escape, finding oneself in the ranks of the insane. Marcus Aurelius

[iMickey503Participant 12465]

Why the HELL are you doing business with a woman? STOP IT.

You are all alone. If you have been falsely accused of RAPE, DV, PLEASE let all men know about the people who did this. http://register-her.net/web/guest/home

[MonkParticipant 16985]

GeordieMGTOW wrote:

Told my female instructor.

This never was going to end well.

She also basically called me an idiot for doing what I was doing investing in crypto.

You gave her personal financial information?

It just gets worse honestly. The spite. The entitlement. The drama. The irrationality. The hyperbolic and histrionic behavior. And that wicked scornful, ill willed behavior. The immaturity.

I’ve already opted out of relationships, as in ‘romantic’ or interpersonal ‘Monk’ type MGTOW if you want to label it but it’s like you can’t even do business with them.

They don’t distinguish between emotional and business relationships. It’s all the same to them.

Everything is personal, everything revolves around them and their ‘feelings’.

[GeordieMGTOWParticipant 50]

jimbob15217 wrote:

Just my opinion and some free advice: if you want a trainer, get a guy.

Indeed. Lesson learnt. Never again.

jimbob15217 wrote:

Also, it might be a good idea to get a fresh start at a different gym. Finally, if this had been my experience, I wouldn’t have the least reluctance to share my impressions with the gym’s owner. If your trainer was the gym owner, obviously there’s no need to take that step.

Yes. I’m thinking about just going back to a standing weights gym for a while and using the punch bag for a couple of month. Then finding another instructor. Don’t want to leave it too long. Kind of bummed out with people lately though. Earphones on and heavy bag for me for a while I think.

I would do YELP/Google reviews – it’s a good idea really but she’d probably know it’s me and I’m not looking to get more drama. I want to get away from the drama. Really don’t fancy getting cracked in the jaw from the hubby either.

I really don’t think she has the hots for me. I think it is just her being an angry p~~~ed off and entitled person.

Indeed Monk. That was an error on my part. I said that when she was first ranting at me for not going to her class for a while – a hopeless attempt to get her to understand. Should not have told her that.

[MutineerParticipant 1467]

Never explain yourself to a woman. It gives them power over you.

"The secret to happiness is freedom... And the secret to freedom is courage." - Thucydides

[RhinoParticipant 3477]

Briffault’s Law

That is the reason why she freaked out because as soon as you stop paying you no longer exist to her.

[ShimshParticipant 237]

I dont get it, you paid her to attend these classes, and now when you want a break she freaks out? why not just stop showing up for classes without notice? That would be my style of dealing with this, you dont owe her s~~~.

There is only one service on this earth i will pay a woman over a man for.

Fuck E'm

[Anonymous 54]

Anonymous wrote:

Shes got the hots for you!!!! Hhah

Thats why it was so personal.

She also mentiond her disaprovel of his investing in crypto currency.
Why.

She wants to marry him!!!!

Ruunnnnnnn!!!! Hahah

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

It’s from all the steroids she is taking. Makes her moody.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

A human with a glass jaw is no good as a boxer, and a human with a glass ego is no good as a man. Good thing she is a woman.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

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