Canadian man, 32 years old and never had a girlfriend

[IronMotivationParticipant 32]

Hi guys,

I am (almost) 32 years old man, from Montreal, Canada. I’ve never had a girlfriend. I was craving for a relationship since I was a teenager. However, women constantly rejected me for well-known reasons, like I was not a popular guy when I was in high school or financially poor student when I was doing my undergraduate studies at the University. I had no enough money or I was not a muscular guy (like they all look like Victoria’s Secret top models, what a joke!).

Last year, I met a girl from my university. After a few dates, I asked her ‘’ Would you be my girlfriend? ‘’ She said ‘’ Yes ‘’ but she then dumped me one week later, and I discovered she was dating and f…..g another guy (who was older and financially more secure). I was so close to have a girlfriend, but all these negative things that happened with women totally changed my mind.

Then I googled something like ‘’ women attention validation relationships wh..es bi…es ‘’, I don’t remember it exactly but I ended up discovering ‘’ mgtow.com ‘’. I read, read and read again all the topics in the dating section, each of them, one by one, and I acknowledged the fact that the reason why I’ve never had a girlfriend is because I’ve never acted like a Chad, alpha male! I was always kind, respectful, a gentleman with good morale values, truthful and sincere.

I was able to have one night stands when I started to act like a total Chad (since September 2017), didn’t show ‘’ any interest ‘’ or validated women. I treated them like a piece of garbage, brought to my place, banged and dumped them, and this is how it worked well. This is exactly what they want. It took me a lot of f…..g years to figure this out, but finally, I know how dating works and I am still learning a lot.
Still, most women on these dating sites are f…..g trash, I always laugh when I see bios like ‘’ You should be at least 6 feet tall, financially secure, good-looking, etc…. Don’t message me if you are or have….. ‘’. Most of them are not even their for dating, they just need attention and validation.

And the worst, they also behave like this in real life. I mean, they have such an already over-boosted, hyper-inflated f…..g ego and self-esteem, they don’t even let us to interact with them in an approriate manner, like a gentleman. When you act like a gentleman, you always get rejected very badly.

Honestly, I’m done. I was always kind and a true gentleman. NOT ANYMORE! I love being MGTOW and I like the MGTOW philosophy/lifestyle.

I’ve been reading the topics in the dating section for 3-4 months. I will post a topic in the dating section very soon.

Also, what is pathetic is that they never want to get to know you. Like Keymaster mentioned, I totally agree, women never ask you questions like ‘’ What type of musical instrument do you play? Do you have a brother or sister? Where do your parents live? ‘’. They don’t care, unbelievable. So, as a man, I need to make the first step and show interests to these spoiled creatures with over-boosted ego? No way! When I date, most of the time, I don’t message first. If they message like ‘’ Hi, or how are you? ‘’ I don’t even bother myself, because you message them back and they ghost you, since there are a plenty of manginas simultaneously messaging them, they don’t even notice your least existence.

I am MGTOW level 2. I don’t do romance, I don’t do relations…s, I just pump and dump with minimum efforts. There is already a plethora of manginas and white knights who are constantly over-boosting womens’ ego, so why the hell I should join this woman-worshipping useless crowd? Women are not worth my time and attention.

I forgot who mentioned this in the dating forum, but I totally agree. ‘’ One chance, per chick, per lifetime ‘’. If there is no banging in the first date, I don’t even date a second or third time. It means that she is not interested in you, considering you as a beta male, ‘’ a financial provider, getting free attention and interest ‘’ and doesn’t offer something in return. I would rather stay at home and watch a movie.

I would prefer to invest and put all my efforts on my career. I am completing my PhD (in life sciences) soon and will move out of the country, I’ll go somewhere in Europe for post-doctoral fellowship or find a nice job in a biotech or pharmaceutical company.

I don’t a need a girlfriend anymore. I am MGTOW. MGTOW is freedom and I fully embrace it.

By the way, I’m also interested in meeting other MGTOW from Montreal, have a beer somewhere in downtown, talk and learn from others’ experiences. It’s been several months now and I am still digesting the red pill. It takes time, but I am committed to stay as MGTOW.

Thank you all for your support.

[AposematicParticipant 2671]

Welcome. Bit old for studying still? Have you seen “Women of POF” from Canadian MGTOW? Why take a risk playing chad to masturbate into a tinderbox?

Afinogyny.. from the Greek Afino {to abandon/ to set down/ to leave /to allow/ to let } + Gyny {Women} MGHOW’s philosophy to not engage women without “hating them”. Narcorca =Narcissistic Orca typically spouting to a bathroom mirror taking an arms length selfie ; Wallinate describes post wall females whose SMV is terminally negligible New Years resolution "To not make women happy" . Instadestitue: yet another Neologism for Men that cohabit with women that decide to pull the handle of intervention orders.

[Heave-Ho MgtowParticipant 1797]

MontrealCAN. You on well on your way already brother. Welcome. I am not going comment on pump and dump. I’ve been there myself, but in different times. Keep your head on your studies. The power of vagina can interfere with the best laid plans.

skip the cavernous vag and go your own way

[BobbyParticipant 140]

It took me some time to get a girlfriend.

The trouble is when you are in your twenties, you don’t have money, property or a high position in a good job.

When I was studying for a PhD, I noticed the female PhD students did not date male PhD students. They dated men with real jobs and homes.

[hmskl’dParticipant 6405]

IronMotivation wrote:

I am MGTOW level 2.

Greetings, I don’t even remember what those levels mean .. I just turn and walk away from everything remotely connected to relationship status .. whatever that level would be.

[IronMotivationParticipant 32]

You’re right. Yes, I am still stuck in my studies. PhD in life sciences take like 5 or 6 years. I wasted a lot of years in my undergraduate, MSc and PhD studies. Also, I worked for a year in a research lab before starting my PhD. At least, it is valuable for my career, I published a couple of articles in medium or high-impact journals and I expect to secure a post-doc position somewhere in Europe. My plan is to become a university professor (in molecular biology or relevant field) in the future and this involves a lot of commitment, dedication and hard work. But I’m MGTOW now, and it’s very helpful. I don’t waste my time being a mangina or woman-worshipper.

I guess women never interested in me, in terms of long-term relationship, because I always was a financially-insecure asset for them. Anyway, I don’t care anymore. What they think or want doesn’t make any sense to me. I’m going my own way.

I was on POF for a week, couldn’t tolerate women on this website. They’re horrible. Tinder worked better for me. I was able to bang 3 women on Tinder without wasting a big effort. But for now, I don’t date (unless they contact me first and ask me out). But most of time, they ghost you or send you a terrible message. For example, I got matched with an American girl on Tinder, about 3 weeks ago. I’ve never seen such an awful spoiled attitude. She was traveling and was in Montreal for few days. I messaged ” Hey, do you have a travel guide? I know the best places (parks, museums, bars) in Montreal. She responded ” Oh yeah? That’s what everyone else is saying too, what makes you better” I was like ” What the hell ”. I sent her a sh..ty message and said ”And you? What makes you better than other girls? ” and I unmatched her immediately. Unbelievable!

[Anonymous 43]

You seem like too nice of a guy to debauch yourself with what passes for women these days. Run the f~~~ away from these hos.

Study get the job then bang 20 year olds all night long if you have to.
For a chance at earning students debt money you will be amazed at where she will let you explore and with what object or appendage

[bladeParticipant]

Welcome bro .

We are all given different journeys in life . Choice is our own .

Take from the hard times and learn . Be thankful for the hard times in life because it has made you who you are today threw the choices taken .

My heart and mind have space for more positive things . That space in your soul woman take up .

Welcome bro hope you enjoy the forums

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[Anonymous 42]

You’ll tire of them once you fill yourself with enough of their emptiness, you’ll see.

The reward is in not needing them for anything, letting them go to do the things they do to whoever they do them to…

Waste of time, loads of inherent risk, just not worth it…

[SolidParticipant 7520]

Never had a girlfriend = You may think that you are lucky, but you don’t have idea how lucky you are. You saved yourself from some serious trouble !

Welcome brother !

[SpleeferParticipant 958]

Welcome Brother! You are blessed my friend. You were saved and protected from them. You said every time you got close to having a girlfriend something happen. Be grateful for those disappointments, they were blessings! I hope you don’t go down the pua road like I did. But some lessons are worked out by our own experiences.
Spleefer

Galatians 5:1 (KJV) Stand fast therefore in the liberty wherewith Christ hath made us free, and be not entangled again with the yoke of bondage.

[Anonymous 3]

IronMotivation wrote:

she was dating and f…..g another guy (who was older and financially more secure).

Young guys always lose in comparison with someone just a few years older. It sucks to be in university age. Lot of hotties around, but none of them gives a f~~~ about their classmates. Some of them may be hookers or go for a sugar daddy, others go for guys just a few years older. A few years make huge difference in that age in financial means.

[Anonymous 3]

IronMotivation wrote:

Most of them are not even their for dating, they just need attention and validation.

Very true, I can confirm that from my life experience.

IronMotivation wrote:

I am MGTOW level 2. I don’t do romance, I don’t do relations…s, I just pump and dump with minimum efforts.

This is still very dangerous in the age of metoo.

(I don’t know, how the hell people get one night stands, I never had one. And when I finally got into bed with a girl, then I f~~~ed her many times… Seems waste of time to pick up someone and just f~~~ once… )

[Handsome VicParticipant 1613]

Girlfriend leads to living together/marriage, which leads to divorce rape and worse.

You haven’t missed out on anything.

You had some pump & dump — so you got the best of what women have to offer.

Welcome to MGTOW.com

I'm going my own way. Maybe I'll see you there.

[AttonParticipant]

Dolls are always better, welcome.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[ArcturisParticipant 2819]

Bobby wrote:

When I was studying for a PhD, I noticed the female PhD students did not date male PhD students. They dated men with real jobs and homes.

Says it all doesn’t it.

Resources are the most important thing for them.

Protect Your Sovereignty. Women WILL TRY To Manipulate You. #NOCONTACT #ICETHEMOUT

[NerevarParticipant 8040]

Welcome, brother!

"One of the best things internet exposed is just how insane women are." - Freeman_K

[RhinoParticipant 3477]

Just remember Chad always loses in the end be careful brother when you play with fire you eventually get burned. Welcome to the forums.

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

Get a vasectomy, welcome, my MGTOW lvl is over 9000, f~~~ that s~~~.

I hope you go monk soon or you will catch some std or some s~~~.

Good luck and f~~~ you.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[Billy&The CloneasaurusParticipant]

Welcome bro.

If you want, we can go to Total Recall and implant my memories of “having a gf” into your brain. It’ll only cost you $1300/month for the next 15 years or so.

All you avoided was temporary pleasure but permanent misery.

The answer, is no.

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