Can she really do anything after divorce?

[narwhalParticipant]

Without knowing the laws in your state, can’t really tell you. Most likely though, she can do nothing if there is no child support or alimony to negotiate.

However, you have a problem if you still have shared debt with her. It’s my understanding that credit card companies and whoever else you have debts with don’t give a damn about your divorce decree, they just want to get paid. When you had your divorce settled, you should have insisted that all joint debts were settled or renegotiated into separate accounts.

In my case I took on ALL the credit card debt in exchange for keeping more of my retirement funds. I simply did not trust her to pay off those debts and knew they’d come after me eventually.

I don’t know if it’s possible at this point, but I would look into consolidating whatever joint debt remains into an account under your name and a separate account under your name. Whatever debt she does not pay is no longer your concern.

Ok. Then do it.

[JuehueParticipant 1316]

Woman wins right to seek money from ex-husband 30 years after breakup

This is in the UK I think

[iMickey503Participant 12465]

Are you f~~~ing stupid? DO NOT TALK TO HER. DO NOT let her know where you live. BE GONE.

She is able to find out where you live just by looking up your name. Every media account, every thing tied to you before she is looking it up.

I know you don’t have any social media accounts, but that is what is driving her mad.

My ex everyday and her freinds watch my Youtube channel. 2 of the members that were followed me the second my first video went up are now gone.

She has your social, so she can get anything and know everything about you.

This works both ways. Once you realize why it is so important to know where you are, if you are even there, you will see what is going on.

She is starting to see that she could have got more from you. And she hates it that you won’t come to her aid. That she is nothing without you. She knows she f~~~ed up, and does not want to admit to it like a child.

She is starting to feel that not only are you doing better then she is, she knows you are.

This is why they will not leave you alone.

She wants what she can’t get from anyone else. She was dupped and now is looking at you to be responsible again for her mistakes.

When they can’t hold your kids over you anymore, and all they have is you, they start getting desperate .

Again, this is what her freinds and people around her are telling her. There is usually one women who is doling out the advice on how to get more from you.

She does not want the money as much as she wants the control that she had over you in the past. She is getting ready for an attack. And as soon as you bite, she will launch.

I sure hope you never wrote anything that would or could be used against you. And it will.

You don’t get it. Women need to feel that you are suffering in some way. When that goes away, they look for every way to keep that illusion of being in control in their minds.

They can lie about it, but they know that if you forget about them, they don’t even exist.

They need attention. They NEED to feel that you still care. When you no longer exist. When everything you do is ghost, you will see what happens.

She is having a mini break down in her head. And she knows it. Everything you ever did for her that she took for granted is now slowly eroding away.

Every guy she f~~~s, becomes less and less satisfying. The people she meets are no longer falling for that damsel in distress so easily.

You may even know about a health issue she is having. She is scared and wants you to rescue her.

Each thing she buys, each thing she wants, she has to get it on her own now. No one is going to give her anything. And what she does get, she knows, she will have to pay for in some way. With her body or her labor.

She has no kids, and she knows she might not be able to get another guy in there to take over. The easy life is now fast gone for her.

She’s thinking inside her head, “If I can just get him to do this, I can validate myself” But that action never comes.

Leave that sorry piece of ass behind and the bulls~~~ with it.

You are all alone. If you have been falsely accused of RAPE, DV, PLEASE let all men know about the people who did this. http://register-her.net/web/guest/home

[IRuleMeParticipant]

Pharma9 wrote:

Gentlemen,

Title says it all, I have the papers. Words, signatures, etc, etc. I was lucky enough not to get divorced raped. But I must say, I sit here recollecting my resources and doing all the things I should have been doing many years ago. But now I get these little messages every now and then from her about how she needs something from me and if I don’t respond she calls me a no good “insert choice words here” and I still don’t respond.

I am paying what I am suppose to pay for per the divorce decree, but she acts like she has something over me still. As if she can wave her V-wand and get more out of me.

Am I just being paranoid? I cannot tell.

You’ve been here since April of last year, have read the horror stories on here, and you still have to ask this question?

[LionOnTheLooseParticipant 1315]

Just as a footnote, I assume the question is being asked in relation to the US but, in the UK, it is possible to have a clean break through something called a “clean break order”. Once the court has approved it, it shouldn’t be possible for your ex to claim more money from you later.

Juehue mentions the Dale Vince case: I believe this only happened because they didn’t get a court order in place.

Needless to say, I made sure I got a court order! Terrible if you can’t get this in the US and always have the threat that she’lll reappear, cap in hand asking for more.

There aren't holes in your pockets. It's called marriage.

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