Can I Be Married and MGTOW? My Intro

[Victoribus SpoliaSpectator 51]

Well, the site says it best: “Happiness is a man who protects and cares for his family, goes forth and conquers, gives of himself for a greater cause, and ensures his legacy – because that’s what he was made to do.”

That being said, I am a huge fan of MGTOW thought online, especially youtubers like Turd-Flinging Monkey and the Groundwork for The Metaphysics of MGTOW, and yet, I am happily married and hope that does not disqualify me automatically, so I figured I better give the low-down on who I am….The following is from my profile here on MGTOW.com

I was married before MGTOW was really a big deal, and If I hadn’t married the person I did (The NAWALT! Just kidding, don’t kill me), I probably would be paying child support to some tramp right now because my dick had long overridden my common-sense due to my Alpha-F~~~ tendencies.

However, I was fortunate, and retain my power and authority, even if legally a fiction, as reigning Patriarch of my clan, with a stay-at-home homeschooling wife and our five children (so far). I have worked in machining, welding, and construction full-time for my entire life while going to school at least part-time the entire time I have been a married adult. My education background is a B.A. in American History and Western Philosophy (double major), and an Masters in Theology and Biblical Studies, and am pursuing a Ph.D. in Philosophy of History. I am currently working as an Interior Designer and Part-Time Farmer, Doing Part-Time Doctoral Research. I enjoy reading, writing, debating, pontificating, procreating for the purpose of conquering the world with my seed, receiving fellatio on a frequent basis just because I can, feasting on the roasted flesh of animals I have slain and my wife has prepared, drinking fine spirits and craft beer, smoking pipes and cigars, violent FPS, violent 80s flicks, and wearing 3 piece suits for no apparent reason. I was red-pilled kind of indirectly, my wife and I have always been anti-feminist and anti-suffrage, even since we met when we were 16, but the actual philosophy of MGTOW, dealing with hypergamy, women’s sexual opportunity, MRA issues, No-Fap freedom, etc., all came later through various sources, mainly J.D. Unwin’s writings (which serve as core focus of my doctoral work)

I am open to criticism and want to know what you guys think of a married dude with a wife like mine and his compatibility with MGTOW. Let me know.

"I came here to chew bubblegum and kick ass, and i'm all out of bubblegum."

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

You are in for a big surprise my friend; Sure stay married until you get divorced raped–then you’ll understand.

[Victoribus SpoliaSpectator 51]

So you think my getting screwed is inevitable? Or am I already screwed and just living a delusion?

"I came here to chew bubblegum and kick ass, and i'm all out of bubblegum."

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

Play with a cobra long enough its nature will exert itself and bite the f~~~ out of you. Women cannot escape their nature. and their nature is destructive, toxic, and narcissistic. The only reason she is still with you is because she hasn’t found anyone to monkey branch to. And how do you know she isn’t banging CHAD thunderc~~~ on the side? Women lie—its their nature. know they enemy.

[Mr.BlueParticipant 614]

I will go against what most guys will say.

I do believe you can be MGTOW and married.

Let me explain.
To me, MGTOW is all about doing what YOU want to do. I’m guessing you are in your 40s now and if you and your wife have been together for that long, I think it’s safe to assume you will stay together until someone passes.

My parents also met at a young age and there is no way in hell my mom would be unloyal or unsupportive towards my dad and no way my dad would stop providing and protecting.

Not every single marriage ends in a divorce, that is what some people need to understand…especially for people from older generations before all this social media that makes it easy for women to have orbiters. All women are capable of doing the unwanted, but not all of them will.

Now… if you were my age, I might feel different as women my age are not the same and were born into a world of attention and unlimited options of guys. I don’t see myself getting married for that reason but I think you are fine aslong as your wife is submissive,loyal, and supportive of what you do in life.

Welcome!

[Anonymous 6]

Wassup fool!

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

Victoribus Spolia wrote:

So you think my getting screwed is inevitable? Or am I already screwed and just living a delusion?

That’s hard to say.

The best way to view the whole AWALT/NAWALT thing is that all women are capable of it, women as a group are empowered/incentivized by society/government/family court to act out, a certain small percent won’t. A NAWALT can one day flip to an AWALT, seemingly just like that. You don’t know what’s going on under their hood for sure.

Its entirely possibly one could be married 20 years to someone who seems like a NAWALT, and then the next day BAM! You find out she’s been bumping uglies with the neighbor or she decides to leave you.

OR she could have reached the decision to do that to you, and then BAM — she has a stroke and dies and you never find out what a ticking time bomb she really was and everyone has fond memories of how great she was.

The legal power women wield in the marriage/family/sex arena is like the One Ring of Power in “The Lord of the Rings”. Someone can take the ring with an intention to do good, but through them it will wield great evil because having power will corrupt them. Some simply display great resistance to its influence.

I suspect there ARE a few true NAWALTS that are simply weird exceptions to the rule, but they are such a small number that they have no statistical significance to decision-making. EWALT (enough women are like that). Confirmation bias is an issue with men who think they have NAWALT.

There is a woman from Serbia that survived falling from an airplane without a parachute at 20,000 feet. That doesn’t mean that if you fall from a plane you can likely survive.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[Anonymous 7]

Ranger One wrote:

The best way to view the whole AWALT/NAWALT thing is that all women are capable of it, women as a group are empowered/incentivized by society/government/family court to act out, a certain small percent won’t.

^this.

There are other dudes here that are married. So, shrug.
Welcome.

BTW, you might consider making sure your pumpkin never finds out you visit this site.

[It’sallbsParticipant]

I’m going to make this very simple for you.

AWALT.

http://www.leavemeansleave.eu

[Anonymous 13]

Mr.Blue wrote:

To me, MGTOW is all about doing what YOU want to do. I’m guessing you are in your 40s now and if you and your wife have been together for that long, I think it’s safe to assume you will stay together until someone passes.

You could not be MORE WRONG Mr Blue, sorry Bro, but that’s delusional.

40’s and 50’s are now well known to be the danger years.

I was 50, been with her 30 years.

She turned into an absolute treacherous C~~~.

There is NO safe time or limit.

Welcome Victoribus.

[Victoribus SpoliaSpectator 51]

Anonymous wrote:

BTW, you might consider making sure your pumpkin never finds out you visit this site.

nah, she already knows i’m on this site and thinks its great…..like I said, she is kinda odd. She is pretty anti-fem, she doesn’t even think women should be able to vote. So i dunno.

"I came here to chew bubblegum and kick ass, and i'm all out of bubblegum."

[narwhalParticipant]

MGTOW is a label, and thus unnecessary. I think you can learn from much of what is said here and apply to your life where applicable.

In terms of whether or not you belong here, I think the depends on how willing you are to accept common sense. Although, you seem to fit the profile of someone who’s coming here to troll.

Anti-suffrage? Your wife doesn’t believe she should have the right to vote?

Ok. Then do it.

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

Mr.Blue wrote:

To me, MGTOW is all about doing what YOU want to do.

Precisely and when you are a slave on the plantation, manipulated and controlled you DON”T do what you want—you do what SHE want’s DUH!

[UntamedParticipant]

I’m not here to qualify you.
I know why I call myself MGTOW, do you?
Seems to me you have a happy life with a happy wife – for now – so why do think you’re MGTOW?

Don't let them Blame, Shame or Tame you!
Give 'em NOTHING, not even an answer!
#GenderSegragationNow!

[Victoribus SpoliaSpectator 51]

PistolPete wrote:

The only reason she is still with you is because she hasn’t found anyone to monkey branch to. And how do you know she isn’t banging CHAD thunderc~~~ on the side? Women lie—its their nature. know they enemy.

Let just say she is under pretty strict surveillance. We live in a secluded area next to my parents….plus if she can find the time f~~~-around kudos to her, i don’t f~~~ing know how she can find time to answer the phone with homeschooling the kids, making the meals, etc…but hey, thats what she signed up for.

"I came here to chew bubblegum and kick ass, and i'm all out of bubblegum."

[Anonymous 13]

Victoribus Spolia wrote:

Grue wrote:

BTW, you might consider making sure your pumpkin never finds out you visit this site.

nah, she already knows i’m on this site and thinks its great…..like I said, she is kinda odd. She is pretty anti-fem, she doesn’t even think women should be able to vote. So i dunno.

So, she says.

Women are chameleons and are brilliant at it.

They can act that way for YEARS.

UNTIL it’s time to cash in.

How is her smartphone use?

[It’sallbsParticipant]

Anyone else smell fish?

http://www.leavemeansleave.eu

[Victoribus SpoliaSpectator 51]

Mr.Blue wrote:

To me, MGTOW is all about doing what YOU want to do. I’m guessing you are in your 40s now and if you and your wife have been together for that long, I think it’s safe to assume you will stay together until someone passes.

i’m 28….we have five kids we don’t believe in contraception, she is just pregnant a lot.

"I came here to chew bubblegum and kick ass, and i'm all out of bubblegum."

[Victoribus SpoliaSpectator 51]

She doesn’t have one, I do for work because they pay for it.

"I came here to chew bubblegum and kick ass, and i'm all out of bubblegum."

[TaxGuyParticipant]

No offense, and I hope I’m wrong, but Jesus Christ does this intro ever look like one big s~~~ test. Post an intro about the “perfect” tradcon marriage and then ask the question “Am this good enough for you?”

To the OP, who cares? Call yourself George Washington if you want to. I say no for one simple reason: Because you asked permission. F~~~ permission. For a guy with such a firm hand at home you seem like kind of a pussy to come ask for permission as to what to call yourself. Just come in and grab a beer out of Sage’s fridge. He’s old, he won’t notice. Ha!

And for the record, I’m glad I don’t have your marriage. Too dominant/submissive for me. But I’m not a tradcon guy. I was promised an equal, a woman that can do anything a man can do, one who can bring home the bacon, fry it up in a pan, and never let me forget I’m a man. I will settle for nothing less.

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