Called off my engagement

[Truth-seeking-missileParticipant 90]

I’m writing today with a heavy heart. I broke up with my fiance today, she was an amazing person however the realities of the family court system cannot be ignored on my part. I look at all the progress I have made with money,houses, my career and I am so afraid of losing it all. I feel terrible that society has forced me to choose between my livelihood or a relationship. I feel like this is the only place where people understand how I feel. Thanks for listening to me complain. I refuse to live in fear.

[Gravel PitParticipant]

women need to Get Over the wedding crap. Whats changed from last month between the two of you? Everything is peaches UNTIL they find out you wont legally make them Emperor over your legal assets etc… then all the sudden Youre a Commitment Phobe.

whatever… she showed her true colors. A GREEDY bitch who only wants power. If she really loved you, she would be on board with staying unmarried.

fvck them and their faux disney wedding fantasy, which unmasked, is her wanting financial capital…

[VanXingParticipant 98]

Smart decision buddy, just let her know you would like to be in a committed relationship with her outside of marriage. If she can’t take that then she’s not the one for you.

[SpleeferParticipant 958]

Why did you call it off?
Why did you get engaged in the first place?
Why did you become exclusive with a woman?
Why did you say you loved her?
Why did you have sex with a woman?
Why did you start dating?

Glad you found yourself. Stop dating. Breaking hearts is not good for anyone.

Galatians 5:1 (KJV) Stand fast therefore in the liberty wherewith Christ hath made us free, and be not entangled again with the yoke of bondage.

[bladeParticipant]

Truth-seeking-missile wrote:

she was an amazing person

pull your s h i t together . She is probably, well most likely have new c~~~ to jump to . F u c k her you just didn’t realise what a true asshole she or it was .

You need to listen to this bro

You are free should be celebrating. Get some p~~~ or weed and chill

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22502]

Truth-seeking-missile wrote:

I’m writing today with a heavy heart. I broke up with my fiance today, she was an amazing person however the realities of the family court system cannot be ignored on my part. I look at all the progress I have made with money,houses, my career and I am so afraid of losing it all. I feel terrible that society has forced me to choose between my livelihood or a relationship. I feel like this is the only place where people understand how I feel. Thanks for listening to me complain. I refuse to live in fear.

I am sorry, it is a hard choice. But I am glad you are awake and made the best choice for you as a man living in and with the harsh realities of the 21st century.

Please remember there is no upside at all for men to be married in todays america or western world. Its a one sided contract and the state is just her enforcer on you. Only you are bound to the contract, gynosociety makes sure of that. They may let a very few women who are in obviously better finanical positions sometimes take a bit of pain, or point to tbe very rare cases where a woman is such an addict that they cant give her the kids, but these are just tokens so they can claim they aren’t biased. Its a total scam and most people dont buy their weak attempt at plausible deniability.

Also, remember women do not get married to take care of you. They get married to be taken care of by you. An article this week said women cant find mates because they are better off financially than the men. It confirms that they as a gender expect the men to by default bring more money to this equal arrangement than them, otherwise women say its a problem. It confirms their greedy self centered nature, their hypocrisy of not wanting to take care of a mate, while demanding the mate take care of them, and put more into the relationship than them, even when they are better off.

Also remember from another article that confirms this, when a man has a major, serious health crisis, 7 out of 10 women put him in a nursing home or bail on him. When a woman has a similar serious health crisis, men put women in nursing home or bail only 3 out of 10 times. You are far more likely to be abandoned by your woman if you have a major bad health issue arise.

You dodged a massive bullet my friend. Your new life where you can focus on your goals, unhindered, begins now. No kne can hold you back, it doesnt matter if your dreams are big or simple, you can now work for them and be your very best.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[iMickey503Participant 12465]

Truth-seeking-missile wrote:

m writing today with a heavy heart. I broke up with my fiance today, she was an amazing person however the realities of the family court system cannot be ignored on my part.

Brother, I’m sorry. I know man. But unlike women, we got everything to lose. There is nothing that you can really do to protect yourself. You can put things in a trust, but even then, you are on shaky ground. See, that’s the bad part of being that top end of what women want. Cuz who really wants the most is not women. But the state. And they can’t wait to sink their teeth in to the open doorway that is women.

And you can’t stop it brother. I’m telling you now, they will threaten her until she does it. Scare her until she does as she is told. Few men understand just how much the HIVE tries to DEVALUE a man the SECOND that you get with her. It’s crazy brother. And no amount of protection you can come up with is enough.

If Wall Street said HEll no? What chance do you have? And this PRICKLY business is not going to end anytime soon. Not in the west that’s for sure. Even in India, the courts are trying to hash things out. But people still are not buying. In fact, many Hindu’s just becomes muslim just so they can have protection from their legal system for marriage. It’s that bad.

You got a LONG road ahead of you. In the meantime, you can see what you can do to protect your assets, but I’m telling ya, there is no way unless you have like a Father or a trusted parent that is willing to hold these items for you. But even then, a good lawyer will do his or her best to f~~~ you.

I know it hurts man, but WE are not the ones that are in charge. And Women could change this in less then 6 months. But they won’t. Most are still crying about women being raped in the USA. How Domestic violence is the thing. And how Abortion is more important then anything else to them.

I would not say anything to her about why. It’s not going to end in any good way. Like it or not she does have a right to be safe and secure. But the deal is only one way. There is nothing in it for you and no safeguards. As you know, sometimes it just comes down to the bottom line.

It sucks hugh? The more you have, the more you got to lose. Not fun anymore is it? That’s what people don’t see. That why so many men live like poorf~~s, and then simply keep their wealth a dire secret.

Seems like being well off sure has its drawbacks. That’s why so many vacation out of the country. Even Women tried to get men on this too. That’s how bad the system is today.

If women have a right to feel safe. So do you.

You are all alone. If you have been falsely accused of RAPE, DV, PLEASE let all men know about the people who did this. http://register-her.net/web/guest/home

[StealthParticipant 5326]

The rules of logic win in the end. It is wise to heed them now.
Wouldn’t be surprised if you were to cyclically question your decision for a while to come, and that’s okay. Money, houses, and cars don’t keep a man warm at night.

Until she takes all those things from you, and you realize those were the only things that actually did. And you’re left with none of the above. And all of your life that you invested, gone.

You said it, It is a legal/society issue. Talking to women, marriage, sex, having kids all come with serious, life-changing legal fines, making them equivalent to being illegal to the degree of a serious felony, trailing behind a capital crime.

"Once you’ve taken care of the basics, there’s very little in this world for which your life is worth deferring." -David Hansson. "It’s not when women are mean or nasty that anything is out of the ordinary. It’s when they are NICE to you that you have to be on high alert..." -Jackinov.

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

Truth-seeking-missile wrote:

I’m writing today with a heavy heart. I broke up with my fiance today, she was an amazing person however the realities of the family court system cannot be ignored on my part. I look at all the progress I have made with money,houses, my career and I am so afraid of losing it all. I feel terrible that society has forced me to choose between my livelihood or a relationship. I feel like this is the only place where people understand how I feel. Thanks for listening to me complain. I refuse to live in fear.

Want to know the funny thing?

In the past, marriage wasn’t about love; it was about division of labor & raising a family and divorce wasn’t a thing. Then they decided to let “mission creep” ruin yet another thing, and inserted “love” into the equation. Divorce logically follows, because emotions are subjective and subject to change.

Our society caters to and gives incentives for the worst behavior and impulses of women.

I’m glad you chose to protect yourself.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[Truth-seeking-missileParticipant 90]

I thank you guys for the words of support it truly means a lot to me I’m not a cynical man but I am a realistic one. I cherish the knowledge and wisdom that I have come to find in this place.

[Truth-seeking-missileParticipant 90]

I should probably clarify the only reason I ever considered marriage with her was because she was foreign I never would have considered marriage had she been American.

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

Truth-seeking-missile wrote:

I should probably clarify the only reason I ever considered marriage with her was because she was foreign I never would have considered marriage had she been American.

I used to consider foreign women, until one realizes that AWALT is AWALT. All women have the same drives, and American culture will ultimately bring out those drives, regardless of where they came from the will go “native” eventually.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22502]

Ranger One wrote:

Truth-seeking-missile wrote:

I should probably clarify the only reason I ever considered marriage with her was because she was foreign I never would have considered marriage had she been American.

I used to consider foreign women, until one realizes that AWALT is AWALT. All women have the same drives, and American culture will ultimately bring out those drives, regardless of where they came from the will go “native” eventually.

Yes awalt is awalt. Different triggers, different levels of things that will trigger, different levels and amounts of restraints on her hypergamy, but they can change over time and experience. So yes, awalt is awalt. What triggers one may not another, but that is just because the conditions that will trigger the other haven’t been reached yet. Yet. The natureis the same, the levels of, and conditions of, what causes them to put their hypergamy into action vary by each unique woman. Rest assured they all run on hypergamy, what makes them leave/divorce rape you varies by each one. But they would all do it if each one’s conditions were met. They don’t have the same concept of loyalty that most men do.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[OgreParticipant 5863]

@TruthSeekingMissile, I realize that you’re feeling a lot right now, but unless there’s a gun in your face sometimes inaction or saying no can be the right choice. If at any point your decisions felt forced then you have made the right choice by just saying no.

Don’t ever second guess a decision made for your own security. Over a hundred years of case studies would prove your decision right. You avoided the final step where you hand her a blade and lock your fingers behind your neck, exposing yourself to whatever she chooses to do. The court will take her side no matter what, so just hope she doesn’t decide to cut too deep.

It doesn’t matter where she’s from, human nature (not woman nature) is to take any progress that is easy and push harder from there. The fact that with everything she did for and with you she didn’t “lock you down” shows that she didn’t try hard enough. Wait and see how quickly her marriage announcement to the next guy comes out. She will learn from her mistakes with you.

I failed to realize in my youth that I was the prize. I was going to work. I was going to earn. Little did I realize that due to feminism, that no longer meant I had to share. Road soon, Desert after.

[Max PowerParticipant 2721]

Well done mate!! That decision took intelligence, maturity, honesty, willpower and b~~~~.

It is inspiring to see a man taking control of his destiny. Kudos for having the strength to do it. Best of luck moving forward – stay strong.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

Ogre wrote:

Wait and see how quickly her marriage announcement to the next guy comes out. She will learn from her mistakes with you.

This.

Order the good wine

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22502]

Ogre wrote:

@TruthSeekingMissile, I realize that you’re feeling a lot right now, but unless there’s a gun in your face sometimes inaction or saying no can be the right choice. If at any point your decisions felt forced then you have made the right choice by just saying no.
Don’t ever second guess a decision made for your own security. Over a hundred years of case studies would prove your decision right. You avoided the final step where you hand her a blade and lock your fingers behind your neck, exposing yourself to whatever she chooses to do. The court will take her side no matter what, so just hope she doesn’t decide to cut too deep.
It doesn’t matter where she’s from, human nature (not woman nature) is to take any progress that is easy and push harder from there. The fact that with everything she did for and with you she didn’t “lock you down” shows that she didn’t try hard enough. Wait and see how quickly her marriage announcement to the next guy comes out. She will learn from her mistakes with you.

Also be on the lookout for the wedding invitation, you will get one. She may also call you a couple days before wanting one last romp. Don’t do it. No response to anything.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[MonkParticipant 16975]

Ogre wrote:

Wait and see how quickly her marriage announcement to the next guy comes out. She will learn from her mistakes with you.

This.

The OP need only wait and watch to see his decision vindicated.

[RumpoleParticipant 994]

Women want weddings, not marriages.

[Freedom Not SlaveryParticipant 508]

If you want a foreign bride you must stay in her patriarchal country of origin, NEVER bring her to the USA, or any western country or she will lose all the qualities that attracted you to begin with.

The sacrifice a man makes now in marriage to a foreign bride is staying in her patriarchal country so that society keeps her ass in check when you are at work or doing s~~~ that requires you to be out and about without her.

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