"But… you were so cute together"

[OneLaneOnlyPlsParticipant 1747]

Hey Gents,

Just got my morning brekkie before I start work. Went to a cafe nearby, its Friday…. I needed my bacon/egg wrap.

Head up to the counter, and a waitress who hadn’t seen me in almost a year, says “Hey stranger, how have you been!”. I tell her I’ve been fine, and that I want a bacon/egg wrap. She then waffles on about her being on student exchange in Holland, and how “it was the best experience of her life” blah-blah.

Incredibly… she recalls the girl I used to date and says…

“Where is your lovely lady?”

We used to go in there together before work. I tap my credit card against the pay-wave machine and say…

“Oh… I ended that.”

She seemed suprised and says “Awwwwwww… but… you were so cute together!”

By now the pay-wave had accepted my payment, and I just look at her dead in the eyes, and say…

“I’m better off without her in my life, thanks”

The girl just looks at me, like I called her mother a sl*t or something, and I simply walk off near the waiting area, and wait for my bacon/egg wrap to be brought to me. She starts gossiping to her co-worker, probably saying how abrupt I was, but who cares.

Eventually my wrap is toasted, and she walks over and gives it to me. Her face looked like she had toilet paper stuck up her arse, and was irritated, and she says ‘thanks [name]’, and I’m like ‘cheers’ and walk off.

These women are just gossip hive queens, who have nothing better to do than make assumptions without knowing any of the facts. In my case, my ex was a lying c*nt, who I found out was a hooker. Yet, in the waitresses eyes, she was an angel.

The more I am here, reading and taking in everything, the more I just couldn’t be fked with even casual relations with women.

[joetechParticipant]

The reason she was like that? Simple. You told her that YOU ended it. In her mind, “How dare you break up with a member of the hive.” They’re all like that. This was just another red pill for you to swallow, and maybe one for her, too. She probably doesn’t like red pills.

"Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

[KeymasterKeymaster]

OneLaneOnlyPls wrote:

The more I am here, reading and taking in everything, the more I just couldn’t be fked with even casual relations with women.

Really? Thats’ an interesting statement because (personally) it’s interacting with women that makes me uninterested. I tend to leave it up to HER to make me interested…. which is really odd, because women think they need to do f~~~ all, and men should just be interested in pursuing them for no goddam reason.

( I hope you can tell Im being slightly obtuse here )

OneLaneOnlyPls wrote:

“I’m better off without her in my life, thanks”

Yeah you are.

OneLaneOnlyPls wrote:

These women are just gossip hive queens, who have nothing better to do than make assumptions without knowing any of the facts. In my case, my ex was a lying c*nt, who I found out was a hooker. Yet, in the waitresses eyes, she was an angel.

You can’t blame her for not knowing. Even YOU didn’t know at the time. So this would have been a great opportunity to drop a truth bomb.

“Awwwwwww… but… you were so cute together!”

“If you say so, but I found out she’s a whore. A professional one. Still think it’s cute? Awwwww, Thanks for the sandwich. Have a great day.”

You’ll find just being direct and 100% truthful is something most people aren’t prepared for. It’s a highly advantaged position, actually. They are always looking for the right (or polite) thing to say, but the truth is like a drop of soap in a greasy sink. Nothing can touch it. It makes you bullet-proof in a way.

You would have walked away gleaming from this, grinning all the way to your car…. instead of coming off as “butthurt” to the waitress. But live and learn. If you see her again, you’ll know what to do.

This situation is not a bad reflection on you.
Put HER stand in the negative spotlight instead of yourself.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[hmskl’dParticipant 6406]

Yes, life seems to be just a big game for awalts and they don’t give a fleeting thought to our long term wellbeing. They are more interested in the cute couple thingy than the dire and dreadful financial and legal consequences that can result from that dangerous situation.

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

OneLaneOnlyPls wrote:

“Awwwwwww… but… you were so cute together!”

that’s called subtle shaming language.

it can be translated to, you should be with her, marry her, and provide for her.

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[OneLaneOnlyPlsParticipant 1747]

Keymaster wrote:

( I hope you can tell Im being slightly obtuse here )

Oh I can 😉

Keymaster wrote:

Yeah you are.

The amount of positive change since then, is beyond belief. For one, I found you guys.

Keymaster wrote:

You can’t blame her for not knowing. Even YOU didn’t know at the time. So this would have been a great opportunity to drop a truth bomb.

“Awwwwwww… but… you were so cute together!”

“If you say so, but I found out she’s a whore. A professional one. Still think it’s cute? Awwwww, Thanks for the sandwich. Have a great day.”

You’ll find just being direct and 100% truthful is something most people aren’t prepared for. It’s a highly advantaged position, actually.

A few times I’ve thought of doing this, as I’ve had this similar scenario happen a few times. I think after reading your solid advice, am just going to give it back to them, in spades. Cheers.

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

And when you break up with a girl, they always try to find away for revenge. I was a victim of that.

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

[BushidoParticipant 637]

OneLaneOnlyPls wrote:

“I’m better off without her in my life, thanks”

Somebody get this Man a beer.

Logic guides your actions, emotion guides your morals. Only you may decide how you use them.

[RealityBitesParticipant 2198]

I would have just told her: “She died.”

[Can’t Stump TrumpParticipant]

bigboy83 wrote:

And when you break up with a girl, they always try to find away for revenge. I was a victim of that.

And all her c~~~s and white knight mangina orbiters who USED to hang out with you give you the cold shoulder! Breaking up with someone is a pretty effective way to weed out the undesirables.

RealityBites wrote:

I would have just told her: “She died.”

I will remember this. Perfectly straight face.

Women are better at multitasking? Fucking up several things at once is not multitasking.

[Jack HarperParticipant 2863]

bigboy83 wrote:

And when you break up with a girl, they always try to find away for revenge. I was a victim of that.

Somewhere in the volumes of MGTOW info I’ve read/listened to (perhaps on this very forum) I read somewhere/heard somewhere that the best way these days is to make the woman want to break-up with you. Make it seem like her idea by being really needy/pathetic. Probably some truth in that as vile as women are these days.

[RedDawnParticipant 1391]

I remember when a girl at work asked me about my ex and I said ‘ I dumped her because I don’t tolerate nonsense’, then moments later she was pretending I was her boyfriend to an elderly gentleman we were assisting, I told him ‘she was just joking’ and she then started talking about her BF in the military. Funny though, she kept trying to ask me personal questions, trying to get me to bite. No thanks, she was young and a redhead, but not the hot kind.

Courage is the key to life itself - Morgan Freeman

[BeeParticipant 700]

She seemed suprised and says “Awwwwwww… but… you were so cute together!”

By now the pay-wave had accepted my payment, and I just look at her dead in the eyes, and say…

“I’m better off without her in my life, thanks

1. Attractive people automatically have all sorts of other positive attributes assigned to them. They get the benefit of the doubt so to speak. They are presumed to be nice people, honest, smart, etc. A guy sees a hot girl and thinks “yep, that’s all I need to know” and starts attributing other qualities to her because he wants to.

2. She was sussing you out to see if you were single and correctly perceived that you were rejecting her, and probably cold to women in general. You threw off MGTOW vibes and she picked up on that.

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

Even very mild-doses of Red Pill can cause an allergic reaction to a member of the hive. A larger dose, and she might have shanked you when your back was turned.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

bigboy83 wrote:

And when you break up with a girl, they always try to find away for revenge. I was a victim of that.

I guess I got off lucky… I had two girlfriends at the same time because I went on first dates with both of them within days. The white gf gave it up on the 2nd date and the Asian gf gave it up on the 8th date although the Asian gf called “boyfriend” first (its a Vietnamese thing).

Dated both of them for 3 months, until I split with the Asian one. Shocked the f~~~ out of her that I had the audacity to break up with her.

Then a month later the Asian ex-gf drops by to drop off a pepper plant (she’d been angling to get me back) and met the “new” (heh-heh) gf who was weeding my garden while I was taking a break playing a video game. Fortunately she was so shocked she left without saying much, and was annoyed that I could get a new gf so quickly.

I might not have my b~~~~ attached if she knew I was dating both of them the first quarter of the year. The gf came in after she left and brought me the plant… said a friend of mine dropped it off and mentioned her name (same first name as her!) I had the most casual, nonchalant reaction.

It’s been 2 months since the ex-gf gave up trying to get me back, so I think I’m free-and-clear (we only dated 3 months and have been split for 3 months). I have a big white board for grocery list prominently in my living room that says “XXXX loves YYYY” on part of it and “YYYY” was both of their first names… they both noticed it and probably figured that any girl I might have over would see that, too. Probably neither would guess in a thousand years I’d be dating another woman with the same name.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[Anonymous 11]

OneLaneOnlyPls wrote:

my ex was a lying c*nt, who I found out was a hooker.

Man, the day you learned that little factoid will be one you’ll never forget.

AWALT!

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

OneLaneOnlyPls wrote:

These women are just gossip hive queens, who have nothing better to do than make assumptions without knowing any of the facts. In my case, my ex was a lying c*nt, who I found out was a hooker.

Well, to be fair about gossiping, I was in the Navy in A-school in San Diego (an E-2 at the time — some college) and started to date an ensign from the nearby amphibious base (we met at a Star Trek convention) and I mentioned that to ONE person in my class in the morning and literally I was getting high-fived by people on the base that I didn’t know later that afternoon, and even the class instructor said something to me.

Out of curiosity (research purposes), do you have a rough estimate of how much money you spent on the hooker gf, and how many times you had sex with her, and was she a decent lay?

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[OneLaneOnlyPlsParticipant 1747]

Ranger One wrote:

OneLaneOnlyPls wrote:

Out of curiosity (research purposes), do you have a rough estimate of how much money you spent on the hooker gf, and how many times you had sex with her, and was she a decent lay?

I went on 2 holidays I prob wouldn’t have gone on with her, and paid for around 80% on each. A few gifts, and paying around 80% on food going-out/groceries, well over 15k, perhaps more.

She was a decent lay, but it got boring towards the end. I was fkn her 4 or 5 times a week, for 5 months or so, then it dropped off a bit, on both sides.

During the first 5 months, I suspected she had to have worked in that industry before, however I should have realized in was current, not past.

Have been stalked often since by her, but I just ignore the c*nt.

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