Bros before Hoes

[sachx1Participant 82]

I’m fairly new to MGTOW, but so far I have learned so much valuable information in these forums. Today I wanted to bring up a topic; I only have around 4 really good friends, like ride or die type of friends. Well I realized that I only have 3, ever since one of my good friends got his girl, he’s barely talked to me, the only time he leaves his house is to see her. Whenever were chilling at university, hes talking on the phone to her, on the bus ride home hes talking to her, even when were eating hes talking to her. This is the same dude that was like “yea man dont worry bros before hoes” now the man isnt practising what he’s preaching. I know this shouldnt bother me, but when a close friend like this basically dumps you for some chick he only knows for about 4 months compared to 5 years of knowing me, it kinda hurts to be honest. I feel like she’s hoarding him to herself and she’s crazy too. My friend said I dont wanna have sex before marriage and shes like so you dont like me and all that bulls~~~ and im like yo this girl is crazy man, he’s like nahhh dont worry about it. This is another reason why I went MGTOW, too much bulls~~~ and stupidity taking the red pill gives peace of mind. Any thoughts and wisdom you guys can share with me?

[MagusParticipant 424]

Typical guy can’t think straight in the presence of a woman. They only come out of it when they find her cheating. Now wouldn’t it be great if there were companies that would expose cheating women? Even tempt them and such? After all the women are doing it to the guys all the time. The problem is women are tempted by money and men are just tempted by looks.

[AkanbiParticipant 2120]

sachx1 wrote:

Any thoughts and wisdom you guys can share with me?

I think you should do the right thing already (cutting him off).

Just leave him and his crazy Princess Snowflake alone. He’ll learn his lessons soon enough. But if he doesn’t, well…

At least you’re living YOUR OWN life drama free: free of hypocrites who don’t practice what they preach and free of entitled, narcissist gals demanding your time, energy and money.

Bridges burn and friendships end. Such is life.

Enjoy YOUR freedom.

My brother make you no follow sheeple o. Look them and Go Your Way.

[Anonymous 25]

Beware the Succubus

Men just need educating on their manipulation tricks and tactics. Can’t blame a man for being divorce raped and manipulated. It’s not something a man would consent to willingly unless manipulated.

Mgtow saves lives. We’ve just not reached all men… yet.

[RhinoParticipant 3477]

Cocaine is a hell of a drug and so is pussy. Your friend is so addicted he will never be able to think clearly until he hits rock bottom nothing you can say or do will change that for him. He will have to learn the hard way time to cut him loose and do your own thing.

[Solo MAN’S WisdomParticipant]

sachx1 wrote:

My friend said I dont wanna have sex before marriage and shes like so you dont like me and all that bulls~~~ and im like yo this girl is crazy man, he’s like nahhh dont worry about it.

Manslation: : “I want you to f~~~ me. It will make an even dozen dicks at the same time. Let’s see you match that, other girlfriends.”

When women lead, destruction is the destination. -- Me.

[MGTOW KnightParticipant 7477]

Anonymous wrote:

Beware the Succubus

Yeah I know of the Succubus. They always Suck You til you bust, financially speaking. You can also bust a nut I suppose. lol

Fuck bitches... literally and metaphorically

[NeroParticipant 1466]

I have had very few friends that I would trust with the bros before ho’s thing. Honestly, the only time this works is when (1) you and your friend are attracted to totally different types of women, (2) he has been through his share of crazy pussy and knows the deal, and (3) has some discipline when it comes to women. The rest simply succumb to the pussy.

[narwhalParticipant]

This is very much typical. You can either cut him off completely, which means you lost a friend for good. You can try and advice him on his errors while he’s with the girl…which likely won’t go over well. Or, you can wait it out and let him back in when he’s done with the girl. At that time, you might be able to advice him.

Personally, I like option 3 the best.

Ok. Then do it.

[jimbob15217Participant 491]

You don’t need to cut him off or even make the effort to understand his situation. Your attitudes and conduct concerning MGTOW aren’t affected by him in the least, are they? If he has something to offer you as a friend that is enough reason to maintain the friendship. As for his yacking on the phone with his gf when you guys are spending time together, you might try letting him know that he’s doing doing it more than he might realize and it’s not ok with you. He’ll either agree or disagree. If he disagrees you can decide things from there but until you do, don’t expect him to magically know that it frustrates you. Alas, that is how women operate.

[sachx1Participant 82]

Thank you everyone for the replies. From what Ive seen, many say I should either cut him off or wait for the right moment to confront him. I think I will wait. However if I can see that the time wont come I will have to cut him off. Again thanks for helping me out in this situation, this forum feels like a brotherhood and I love it.

[TheStormWithinParticipant 778]

In all fairness, I think you have to look at intent. This isn’t about him singling you out to f~~~ over. He’s simply trying to please his owner, and not spending time with you is an inadvertent result of it.

In no way am I justifying it. He absolutely needs to come to his senses, but just keep in mind he didn’t wake up one day with a random desire to s~~~ on a friend. If he’s a younger inexperienced guy, it’s only natural that he doesn’t quite understand what he’s dealing with just yet.

Aunt Esther: Fred, I'll have you know this body was blessed by Mother Nature!! Fred: Well, too bad your face was cursed by Father Time!

[Sky-OParticipant 18933]

Right on Rhino

Tru Dat

Speak the word

[OhnoParticipant 668]

sachx1 wrote:

ever since one of my good friends got his girl, he’s barely talked to me,

It goes like that with every good friend everytime.
Hoes before Bros is the absolute standard.
There may be exceptions but I only know it like that.

[Anonymous 11]

The second any “friend” utters “Bros before hoes” be prepared to get ass f~~~ed.

In reality, it’s used by pussy beggars to box you in before while they are being manipulated by c~~~s. I spit on the cliche.

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