Bringing up NAWALT daughters

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

How do you do it?
Let’s share our strategies.

My daughter is 6.5. I see her every weekend. Trying my best to make sure she won’t grow up to be like her mom.

I read this book called “Strong fathers strong daughters” and it made a lot of sense. It’s written by a woman who’s a child psychologist who had to deal with lots of misguided girls who grew up without fathers. Highly recommend if you have a daughter.

I spend a lot of time with her and try to explain everything the way I see it. I keep her away from Barbie bulls~~~ and a bare minimum of Disney. Keep telling her that she is not a princess. And that in order to be treated like a princess you must act as a princess. And that family always comes first.

Horror story: I started taking parenting very seriously ever since I caught my wife teaching my daughter how to twerk when she was barely walking. This is forever etched in my memory as a warning and a reminder.

Please share your strategies and wisdom.

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[HimeoParticipant 471]

Let me tell you a story.

My Uncle married a slut. She cheated on him with three or four different men over a five year period. They had a daughter together, who even knows if he’s the biological father. Anyway, when the kid is four years old his slut wife tells him she’s cheating again and wants to marry the newest boyfriend. He happily tells her to go and they get divorced.

He spent the rest of his life never telling the daughter why he and his wife divorced. Not a single word. The daughter grew up close with the Mom and her Step-Dad. Who paid for college? My uncle. Who paid for her wedding? My Uncle.

My Uncle is 70 now and he’s got Parkinsons. He’s been estranged from his daughter for thirty years. He got a call a few months back because his granddaughter is getting married. Guess who paid for it? My Uncle. Guess who WASN’T INVITED TO THE WEDDING HE PAID FOR?

Don’t be the better man, tell your kids the truth. Don’t let parasites leech off of you.

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