Bringing new life into this world

[BobbyParticipant 140]

Now I am living back on my own.

I lived with my girlfriend half of the time for a few years. It was in a foreign country. She moved out there for a temporary job. In the end, it became too expensive for me to live out there and move back and forth every few months. Living with my girlfriend was a constant stream of her problems to deal with. I felt I was drowning. She hoards trash and has far too many possessions for the size of the home. The whole place was a mess, despite the vast amount of cleaning and tidying I did over the years. At times she would rant and shout at me for hours. In that respect, I think she got better, but she still ruined whole days by sulking.

I have my own small one-person company. It might have been possible to do some work out there, but the constant mess, the stress, the bulls~~~ problems put a stop of that. You just wouldn’t believe it, the problems, the trivial decisions she wants help with… They never stopped.

Now I moved back home, I managed to finish off a long-overdue project for my company and get it out the door. That was a relief.

A few years ago, my company had a decent, regular income. But due to several factors changing, the income has dropped significantly. Products only have a certain life-span. It is time now, that I start making new products.

I have savings, but those savings are to support myself while I get new products developed.

My girlfriend is currently living in a foreign country. How long she plans to stay out there is unknown.

Anyway in the past handful of months, she has mentioned having children. Given she is nearly forty and I am a decade older, I don’t think this would be a good idea. Having children is for people with stable jobs. There is too much risk for me. If I had a decent income and a stable, corporate job, it might be different. She also has yeast infections. Just to make things even more of a problem.

Given I am still thinking about this and am writing a post about it, this obviously has not been brushed off by my mind. I am not stupid enough to go through with this, but I somehow feel bad about it.

I’ve been reading the forum posts here for some time and watching mgtow videos on YouTube. There is much truth here, even when talking about more general points. The last point that resonated with me is that society is just people taking advantage of other people.

The thing that gets me is that I’ve always worked hard my whole life and always tried to do the best possible work. But when I worked for other people, it never got me anywhere. When I first graduated, I had to work long hours for low pay (like a lot of other people in my country in my area). The first companies I worked for had sensible products with decent managers (apart from the low pay and long hours). After that the jobs I had were either unstable or run by managers making very bad decisions or both.

Even the school I went to had rotten parts. For example, you could do a project, but the teacher would forget to hand it in to the examination board. This is just one example of many mess-ups the school made. This is just one example of how having money helps. If your parents have money you go to a good school. If they don’t, your hard work at school gets compromised by bad teachers.

Basically what I am trying to say is that I never managed to get a decent job working for other people. The only success I’ve had is setting up my own company.

I’ve also seen how life works. Everything is so much better if your parents have money and connections. You go to better schools. Teaching is so much better. You have connections and so get better jobs. Working hard just results in you being giving more work, until you break under the strain.

I really don’t want to bring a new life into this world. The whole system is rotten. Life can be good, but only if you go through the hell of school and your first corporate jobs.

Society and civilisation just seems to be about trying to get the most work out of humans for the smallest amount of money. Nobody is out there to help men. But they are there when you have money or resources to shake out of your pockets.

Why bring a new life into this world? Just let the rich people reproduce.

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22508]

Why do you still have her as a girlfriend?!?! She is a life anchor trying to take you down. Plus yeast infections dude? Cut this s~~~show loose. She uses you as her emotional tampon.

Dont be cuckolded like this anymore.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

YOU think you have a GIRLFRIEND in another country?

Wake up kid, wake the hell up.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[SwimcatParticipant 3589]

Why is this women still in your life? Get lost. Come back to us when you’ve done something about it.

[AwakenedParticipant 35200]

Let’s see, you are pushing 50 and your “girlfriend that’s pushing 40 that YOU describe accordingly;

Bobby wrote:

Living with my girlfriend was a constant stream of her problems to deal with. I felt I was drowning. She hoards trash and has far too many possessions for the size of the home. The whole place was a mess, despite the vast amount of cleaning and tidying I did over the years. At times she would rant and shout at me for hours. In that respect, I think she got better, but she still ruined whole days by sulking.

and you are still thinking about having kids with her……What do YOU SEE WRONG WITH THIS SCENARIO?????????????????????????????

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[Truthseeker82Participant 6406]

This world is one giant pile of s~~~. It doesnt need more s~~~ piled on it. MGTOW travel light and are not responsible for this sinking ship of fools.

What will bringing another life ultimately do? So you can say you left your DNA to decompose with the rest of us? I’m biding my time here. Making the best of what was given. Tell your snowflake you chose to help conserve the worlds resources. Maybe a good blowjob would suffice as that’s not the usual route for reproduction but today who the f~~~ knows.

[SandalsParticipant 4253]

Bobby wrote:

she has mentioned having children. Given she is nearly forty and I am a decade older, I don’t think this would be a good idea.

Are you just messing with us? Or are you off your rocker?

[SandalsParticipant 4253]

Bobby wrote:

A few years ago, my company had a decent, regular income. But due to several factors changing, the income has dropped significantly.

Like, the girlfriend factor?

Bobby wrote:

My girlfriend is currently living in a foreign country. How long she plans to stay out there is unknown.

Is she your girlfriend, or is it just your turn?

A foreign country? Are you certain she’s not banging other guys every week?

Bobby wrote:

Given she is nearly forty and I am a decade older, I don’t think this would be a good idea.

What has your experience with women been in the past fifty years? Does anything point to that this might work out?

Bobby wrote:

I’ve also seen how life works. Everything is so much better if your parents have money and connections. You go to better schools. Teaching is so much better. You have connections and so get better jobs.

Well… not so sure this is a certainty. You may be thinking that what you see on TV is reality – it isn’t. Bernie Maddoff’s son offed himself. The IVY graduates get bone-crushing jobs where they work themselves to death. Are those the great jobs you’re talking about? They also marry “educated” women who drive them to suicide or swindle them in divorce court and kidnap their children.

You said you have a job where you could work from another country. Would you really rather have a “well connected” job at some big-five firm where you work in a soul-crushing “Office Space” (the movie) environment to pay a mortgage that still leaves you broke at the end of the day?

Besides, education is flat-lined now. You can learn ANYTHING you want on the internet. What used to cost a quarter of a million dollars is now free with an internet connection.

I think you need to reorganize your priorities. Focus on yourself. You can’t help others if you’re in bad shape. The best thing you can do for this world is be good to yourself. Enjoy your freedom.

And god-almighty, don’t get this crazy bitch pregnant, unless you want to die from stress before you hit 60. Dump her ass today. If you want a child, go find some 18 year old village girl in Asia or one of the Stan countries. It’s a global world, don’t you know…?

[iMickey503Participant 12465]

Bobby wrote:

Why bring a new life into this world? Just let the rich people reproduce.

You are such a slave. Buddy, POOR PEOPLE reproduce. The Rich adopt. You think Rich people have Kids? Bro. I got some BAD news for you.

Look man, Having kids is great. It’s better having them in another country. But bro, I know the girl that you are with. AND they never change.

Brother, having kids today in the west is horrible. Good luck man. Your older then me, so I won’t give you advice. But I have lived in your shoes. Let me tell ya, what you seek is nothing she can provide. I want you to be happy man, but there is no happy route the way you want. THere is a way, but you must control it all. Your best bet is a Muslim country. And then no Blue eyed kids. S~~~y hugh?

I’m sorry man. I know what you are actually talking about. I’m sorry. I really am. Be sage out there.

You are all alone. If you have been falsely accused of RAPE, DV, PLEASE let all men know about the people who did this. http://register-her.net/web/guest/home

[JVBParticipant]

The blue pill runs thick in your veins.

Peace is > piece.

[hmskl’dParticipant 6406]

lots of white collar-ish people who want to appear rich, aren’t
they may drive late model car and live in house that stands out
almost everyone is spending more than they can actually afford

almost, everyone, month to month, fill the rental storage units
the working guy owns those storage units .. keep on filling them!
plain working guy in the worn clothes might be living under radar

[MonkParticipant 16979]

Bobby wrote:

Anyway in the past handful of months, she has mentioned having children. Given she is nearly forty and I am a decade older, I don’t think this would be a good idea.

Jeepers.

Sever all connection with her. NOW.

[AutoliteParticipant]

Awakened wrote:

Let’s see, you are pushing 50 and your “girlfriend that’s pushing 40.

Bringing another human into this phucked-up world just isn’t right. I wouldn’t do something that cruel to anybody. What sort of life would you be able to give a kid anyway? Are you gonna play touch football with him or her when they’re 10 and you’re 60???

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

I’m busy bringing all kinds of new life into this world; curiously the life is all different shades of green, and will feed me.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[narwhalParticipant]

You need to get a vasectomy as soon as possible. Don’t tell her about it, and don’t have sex with her till it’s done. Yes, you absolutely should end seeing her, but seeing as you’ve been in this crappy situation for years now, it’s doubtful you’re going to just go cold turkey like that.

You know you don’t want kids though, so get it done for you. Since she’s decided she wants kids, and she knows you’ll likely believe it’s yours and support the child, cuz your a standup guy, there is nothing stopping her from getting knocked up by anybody, or even lying on birth control. Get the vasectomy, and let her tell you she’s pregnant and confirm that she’s willing to cheat.

Ok. Then do it.

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