Bright Guy finally sees the light!!!!

[Bright guyParticipant 156]

 

Hello
My Name is Bright Guy. I was a nice guy up until about 2 years ago. I stopped being a nice guy and swallowed the red pill. I have lived most of my married life as an extra in your own movie. I was always being told what to do, how to do it, when to do.. etc.. This was always followed by the “how much you suck” speech

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Being a nice guy and trying to make others happy lead me to a miserable life. Its was a  life that had no fun, constant criticism. I have found a wonderful word– NO….NO I wont do that. Another 2 word are — F~~~ You

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xdfeXqHFmPI   — a great way to live your life

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These  words have done wonders to make my life more enjoyable  after swallowing the red pill . It gives me the freedom to do what I want to do, when I want to do, and how I want to do it. If I don’t like what you have to say well—- F~~~ YOU  !!!

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Another wonderful thing I have learned along my journey is to STFU–Shut the f~~~ up. I use to have to defend, explain, make excuse, and react to everything. Learning to STFU has made my life more peaceful. When she asked for an explanation — I say nothing and just walk away. One of the side benefits is it drives her nuts.. She is looking for the reaction and I refuse to give it to her

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Silence is golden

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These words along with my actions of me quitting  taking my daily blue pill have lead me down the road toward my divorce— yes the road to freedom.  She filed first (which I am grateful for). I have to a STBXW who is always ask me to why I have not gotten a job and supported my family for the last 2 years. It has made her get off her ass and work fulltime. My 2 years of underemployment has been wonderful. It has helped me get to know my kids better. The indirect benefit is alimony and child support is based on my last 2 years of work history.  Sorry dear  no alimony– oh well. I guess that makes up for the several years of treating me like s~~~ .
I guess she was right  about Karma– what goes around comes around. She now complains about everything but I stopped paying attention to her. Yes I have know for several months she has been seeing someone else.  The thousands( yes thousands) of text message on the phone bill  in a month were the big red flag.Hell I want to shake his hand. He has done wonders for me  — he has taken the Jerry Springer train wreck off my hands .
Yes the divorce will be finalized within a few months, the house will be sold and I will have a very enjoyable life afterwards. I will have an income that will be able to support my kids instead of being a freakn built in babysitter.  I have no problem with paying child support because again its for my kids.Her days of going out will be extremely limited and she will have to become the mother she is suppose to be. Her fantasy life with her new friend will soon disappear
I will rebuild my life into one I want it be. The plan is already in motion. Material things can easily be replaced. Money  will be made with great ease and  is just another tool to make ones life more enjoyable. It will be a tough road but it will be definitely worth the time to a better life

[MadmanParticipant 772]

F~~~in A.

 

[J.D SilvernailParticipant 383]

I’m glad you swallowed the Redpill and figured out that if women want respect they will have to earn it. Keep going down this path and don’t quit. Life will get better and even more enjoyable. The secret to accomplishing anything is by being stubborn and not ever quitting.

I'm married to the game,but she broke her vows.

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