Breaking up safety.

[MgtowWaveParticipant 4352]

I’m starting this for guys to give guys good advice for breaking up with women without facing the woman going psycho and making life hell. I’ll have advice later.

frankly my dear i don't give a damn

[Silverstone the SecondParticipant]

A good way is to just fall off the face of the earth. I’ve done that once they were already acting psycho. Although, in this day and age it can be tough with FB and social media. Of course I’m not really on social media that much any more, so that helps.

Whatever you do, if you have personal belongings over at her place, get them first as most girls will destroy them. Any time you get into a relationship, always have an escape plan.

Feminism is a movement where opinions are presented as facts and emotions are presented as evidence.

[RoyDalParticipant]

My best results were when she broke up with me. If she thought it was her idea, things went as smoothly as conceivably possible. If I broke up with her, she hounded me to the ends of the earth.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[QuietlyquietlyParticipant 728]

Good topic, much needed. Thanks MgtowWave.

I would like to make a list of some of the dangers faced before, during and after breaking up, I suppose because forewarned is forearmed.

1. She’s already thought about breaking up with you. She thought about it before she got with you.
2. She’s already discussed it with her friends. But none of them will ever tell.
3. She has some kind of strategy already in place, and it involves her entire network to some degree.
4. Where breakups occur in a woman’s life, of paramount importance is that she comes out smelling of roses.
5. She will do whatever it takes to achieve this goal.
6. She will keep you around for as long as she feels that you are useful to her.
7. She will dump you the very second she knows you are not useful to her.
8. She has no ethics when breaking up. The only rule is that she looks good to her friends. Their acceptance of her is sacred.
9. If she doesn’t look good to her friends, she will make you look worse. The risk of losing ALL her friends is greater than the risk of losing your friendship alone.
10. Having said that, she’ll try to “stay friends” with you, which means she wins again.

In the event YOU break up with HER, the following rules apply.
11. There are no rules.
12. There are no ethics.
13. You destroyed her feelings life, you must pay by having your life feelings destroyed.
14. Imagine the worst anyone could ever do to you.
15. Bathe that idea in Grim Reaper Chili Sauce.
16. Stick pins in it.
17. Use it to pipe-clean inside your penis.
18. You still have no idea of the pain about to be inflicted on you.
19. Realize that you inflicted this pain on yourself.
20. Announce on FB that you just shoved a Chili-covered pipe-cleaner in your dick, and wonder why people aren’t sympathetic.

I too, will have some advice for trying to avoid the above…..

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

Well, they say if you want to get rid of a girlfriend, meet her on Monday and tell her how important a part of your life she is and how much you depend on her trust and support… then on Thursday, tell her you got fired and things are gonna get tough and the fancy dinners and fun times might have to stop… you may even have to sell the car… but you can work through it with her support and you’ll be okay no matter how hard it gets if you just stick together.

Then cry a bit.

She’ll be gone by Saturday.

As for me, I prefer a more direct approach… if I’m done with someone I tell them straight up… but only after I’ve gotten all my stuff safely out of her reach. My tactic is to take her out in public someplace where there are a ton of people (particularly good looking men, if possible) and a blowup would make her look bad then order a beer, look her straight in the eyes and tell her it’s done and why it’s done.

Then, no matter what she says or does, just sit there and say nothing, finish my beer, pay the tab and leave. The only twist on this would be if somehow she’d managed to leave some stuff in my house or car (which I don’t usually allow). In that case I’d pack it up in a nice looking box in a nice shopping bag (so she won’t figure out what it is until after I walk) and put it on the table when I say “We’re done. Here’s your stuff.”

[AttonParticipant]

Tell her you lost your job and are going onto welfare, problem solved.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[QuietlyquietlyParticipant 728]

So….how to avoid the psycho…..

If you make out that you are something she does not desire, as both Doc and Atton have attested to, it will make it very much easier for her to switch her feelings around. Once she does not desire you, she will not make a fuss when it ends. There are several ways of doing this (and thanks again to Doc and Atton).

1. Become needy. Cling to her, need her to emotionally support you.
2. Become poor. If you have nothing she can sponge off, she’ll soon look elsewhere.
3. Talk about stuff she really doesn’t like, and do it often.
4. Pressure her into more commitment that she can handle [Honey, I think we should get married straight away/get your name on the mortgage/buy a farm/pay off my gambling debt]
5. Disclose that you have debts that need paying off STAT, and she’s liable as well
6. Start wearing diapers.
7. Cry a lot.
8. Ask her permission to do everything.

Basically, the more uncomfortable she is in the relationship, the more likely she’ll want out. You have to make it her idea.

[XSDBSParticipant 3598]

Simple, 3 steps.
1. Stop giving a s~~~.
2. Break up with her at a public location, NOT at your/her place.
3. Sever any/all communication with her.

[BigDParticipant 3024]

1. Do it in public.
2. Film it.
3. Have a third party present whenever you talk with her

Don't stick your dick into anyone you aren't willing to put up with for eighteen years and nine months.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Don’t get involved in the first place.

I don’t think it’s possible to make an all-in-one break up guide, because there is such a wide variety of crazy, selfish, vindictiveness, and just pain evil in women. Each one requires an individual approach.

[Anonymous 42]

Give her the house, the car, the kids, the dog, the cat, the fish, your retirement, alimony, your sanity, and your life.
Remove any single one of these and you’ll be hit by a legal hurricane named after her!

Other than that, stay out of the tropical heat of female relations~~~s!

It’s like sticking your hand in a meat grinder! the answer is DON’T!

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

Quietlyquietly wrote:

Ask her permission to do everything.

This, for sure! Can you imagine how quick she will turn? Honey, can we stop at Starbucks? Sweetheart, is it okay if I get whole milk? Honey, can we sit by the window? Sweetie, can I hold your hand?

You start this some afternoon and you won’t even have a chance to get home before she dumps you. Brilliant.

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

sidecar wrote:

Don’t get involved in the first place.

“How do you survive a tornado? Don’t get hit by a tornado!”

True this, but not particularly helpful for someone who didn’t know and found themselves already in the path of one.

We can just quote the Rules of MGTOW over and over again until everyone knows and lives them but it doesn’t do much good for people coming at this new. Tips for how to extricate oneself from a relationship with a minimum of damage are useful and there are some things that are generalizable.

Or do we have so much contempt for our brothers who aren’t as far along the path as we are that we can’t even share our useful knowledge and experience with them any more?

[MgtowWaveParticipant 4352]

My rule of thumb is to slip out when she is not there if you are living together and run like hell .
My best advice is don’t be in a relations~~~ in the first place.

If you are not living together, the next time she calls you say don’t call me anymore. Or just don’t answer the phone. I have had to change my number before.

frankly my dear i don't give a damn

[MemberParticipant 323]

Stargazer wrote:

Well, they say if you want to get rid of a girlfriend, meet her on Monday and tell her how important a part of your life she is and how much you depend on her trust and support… then on Thursday, tell her you got fired and things are gonna get tough and the fancy dinners and fun times might have to stop… you may even have to sell the car… but you can work through it with her support and you’ll be okay no matter how hard it gets if you just stick together.

Then cry a bit.

She’ll be gone by Saturday.

So true…..I have lost track of all the stories I heard about a guy losing his job and then quickly after his wife or girlfriend. Not too many stick around when the free lunch is over. Sad but true. On the other hand I have known a few gals that couldn’t be driven off their men with a stick no matter what happened to them……especially the ones who were basically deadbeats. I guess there was something special about them 🙂

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Stargazer wrote:

Tips for how to extricate oneself from a relationship with a minimum of damage are useful and there are some things that are generalizable.

Except they are so generalizable as to be obvious. What’s a good idea for getting loose of one woman may well blow up in a man’s face with another. So the only truly universal rule is still: If you want to survive a tornado, don’t chase tornadoes.

If you look at the rest of the forums you’ll see I give advice when and where I can, but always specific advice for specific circumstances.

[Jack123Participant 324]

I am replying to the point made about her losing interest once the man starts to ask for permission.

In all my relationships, I’ve started by being the alpha male leading everything. This lasts for 6 months and we’re the happiest couple in the world. Then the conversation happens. The girl will tell me she wants more control over the relationship and I have always allowed it. 50/50 control pretty quickly turns into her with 100%. Then I turn to a dribbling wormy mess and she turns into a dragon from hell.

What follows is both parties thinking about breaking up for the next 1 or 2 years until the relationship is so toxic it just falls apart.

If I ever do another relations~~~ again, I’m going to hold 100% control or she gets instant dumped. Women can’t be trusted with responsibility and they certainly don’t respect men who give it to them.

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

sidecar wrote:

Except they are so generalizable as to be obvious.

Apparently not if there are still people asking how to go about it.

sidecar wrote:

So the only truly universal rule is still: If you want to survive a tornado, don’t chase tornadoes.

“Hello, poison control center? I’ve been fed rat poison and I’m starting to feel sick, what do I do?!”

“Don’t eat rat poison. Goodbye.”

Great advice. One might say such great advice as to be obvious. Just not very helpful at the moment.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Feign beta. Works like a charm. You want her to think it’s HER idea.

It’s really the only to do it in this kind of environment where there are no limits to the level of crazy s~~~ women will try to get away with when dumped. You don’t even need to be an asshole, and women write pop songs and cheer about destroying your property. Setting fire to your clothes, pouring vegetable oil on your floors, bleach on your clothes…. and all of that “BEFORE he cheats”. As if an unmarried man isn’t even permitted to shoot pool or spend time with another woman – even though you never treated her badly!

That’s the thing. Women getting behaving like f~~~ing toddlers and destroying personal property – when you never treated her badly.

So f~~~ it. “Feign beta”.

You want her to “feel sorry for you”. Shower her in compliments, tell her how much you love her 3 times a day, tell her s~~~ like “you’re the reason I breathe” and you can’t live without her. Women hate that s~~~, and the next thunderclap you hear will be the sound her vagina closing to you forever.

She will plan her departure by the end of the week, while thinking she is dumping you.

Then, when she says s~~~ like “i need time, I need space”….. REALLY dial it up. Smother her in MORE attention. Apologize for f~~~ing EVERYTHING. More texts. More phone calls., More emails. Make a you tube “i love you baby” video just like this:

••••••••

Done.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Anonymous 42]

Hey KM, that guy is f~~~ing pathetic!
My breakups were initiated mostly by (you know who) the gf, without hesitation and immediately I just simply VANISHED!
One chick p~~~ed me off so badly (not for splitting) but for having her girlfriend coach her in the other room, (long story short) I left her driveway leaving a cloud of smoke with two signature rubber strips going into the road and fishtailing down the street, the swerving got so bad I had to lock em up as I over corrected and went almost off the road! That c~~~ was second to the last before I gave up becoming emotionally attached.
To me, the modern female is nothing more than a wet heated rubber! Nothing more, nothing less….

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