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[Just a DoormanParticipant 33]

Hey fellas, I’ve been lurking here for a few months and decided it’s time to introduce myself and maybe share some of my story.

I’m 42, I work as a driver for the big parcel company that doesn’t suck and bounce at a local bar on the weekends. I am divorced 5 years from a 17-year marriage with two (now)adult children and now I’m currently in a 3-year relationship.

I came to know about MGTOW officially when I came across Red Pill Reddit last year and I realized that there was a name attached to the way I felt regarding relationships, although I haven’t completely “gone my own way”.

I enjoy and appreciate this site and all the information made available for my perusal. Thank you so much for your hard work.

-JaD

[FullMetalExoParticipant 2383]

Ye, heh, ..maybe  I should make an Introduction myself, but I don’t know really. For better or worse I have No Story to tell yet.
I really skipped the relationships in this life, and never got past dating. I felt bad about some my decisions, but for the most part – I was right at the time, for my own sake.
Im 27, I just registered myself, same thing: so much on my mind my whole life, and this website is fun, informative and a welcoming place it seems.
I haven’t hit the Forums hard yet, Im sure to do it. Im here to learn more.

Reading the Introductions, so..
I post this, just to Welcome YOU really, I think no matter the story or lack of it, Welcoming message, is a good message.

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[KeymasterKeymaster]

Hello and welcome gents. Thanks for making an intro and make yourselves at home! Really happy you’re enjoying our site and you’re among friends.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Just a DoormanParticipant 33]

Thank you, guys!

A little about my history.

I moved to GA from the MA South Shore area when I was 18. After spreading my seed for a year, I met a Southern girl that we Yankees had fantasies about(Daisy Duke, et al) and was toast…I mean, she had me wrapped completely. Well, she got pregnant early on and I never even considered it wasn’t mine and I married her, like a “good” man would do. Our marriage was never even close to the Mendoza Line, even when things were okay. We split up numerous times and she had a f~~~ buddy almost immediately after. When time came to reconcile, I was all too willing to accept her back(I was too far gone still) and lo and behold, after a separation, she was pregnant again. I had alarm bells ringing, red flags waving and all but a cartoon sledgehammer hitting me on the head, yet I took her back again.

Fast forward a few years to ’01 and we are separated again and she’s filing for divorce(she cheated, again).I’m living in my mom’s extra room, have a s~~~ty job, a rental car an no plan of action. I’m crushed about the divorce and ready to waste away. Then, I have an amazing plan…I’ll try to get her back! I set my plan into action and I got just what I deserved. We ended up “forgetting” that the divorce was filed and it goes through. We are officially divorced. I started thinking “run! Run away now!”, but I was thinking of my kids and how some random asshole would be installed in my place and wouldn’t care for them the way I did. So I stayed, we got REMARRIED and it limped along until 2010 when I found out she was on Facebook with an alt account with the guy she previously cheated on me with and could very well be the true father of my daughter.

 

I finally had enough and left her. She filed for divorce and I gave her everything- the house, the new car, all my tools/equipment, the computers, DVDs, CDs…everything. I got a BK and my clothes, TV, PS3 and since I was a full time driver at UPS, a fat CS bill every month.

I was doing as well as possible for someone who was thrust out into a world that didn’t exist the last time I was single(1993). Then, exactly two weeks after the divorce was final, I got a call from my cousin, who was still “friends” with my ex on FB. He asked me why I let my kids move to St. Louis. I was dumbfounded. I had no idea she was planning on moving my kids away from me and she did it without even telling me AND WITH THE ASSHOLE SHE CHEATED ON ME 14 YEARS PRIOR. I spiraled out of control, lost my high paying job, shut myself down and spent a year inside my house drawing unemployment.

 

Now, I’m doing much better. The GF I have now is a little less of a PITA than a lot of woman(still a 21st century WW, tho) and I can deal with her crap without too much stress. But, I have to wonder what life would be like if I could break free 100% and live my own f~~~ing life!

[BrainPilotParticipant 7640]

Geez Doorman,
that intro hurt to read. You are in the right place. You belong here. You’ve most definitely earned it. The first thing I try to tell new members here is that things regarding relationships with women really are as screwed up as you perceive them to be. I write that often because when it initially becomes apparent, it can be difficult to believe it on the scale that it occurs. It is real, and it is exactly as you see it. We all see it the same way here.

The other thing I try to tell new members is that it will not always be this way. The red pill is powerful and the effects of it are positive and begin arriving quickly after it is taken.

Look forward to seeing your posts in other threads…

Look, it's not my fault that tornado dropped a house on your sister. Now get back on your broom and get your ass out of here... and take your monkeys with you

[Just a DoormanParticipant 33]

Thank you, BP. Everything you’ve said rings true and I believe you.

I have some stories(and I may tell one or two) that would curdle cottage cheese. I’ve watched people’s faces go to utter shock and horror when I tell them some of the things we did to each other. I don’t like recalling them, so I can keep the associated “feelings” buried down deep where they belong.

 

On the rare occasions I discuss my marriage and divorce with people, I liken it to “The War of the Roses”, without the happy ending.

[Anonymous 42]

Just a Doorman, get rid of the Door, you’re just a man, we all have the same stories about unsatisfiable women, they’re chickens, except connected by the awful devices of telecommunication. We’d be better off if women were isolated from each-other, limit the c~~~amination they spread to each-other. Face book to me; the mother of all socialistic parasitic gatherings on the planet earth. Sorry you suffered so much, that kind of s~~~ hurts a guy in places still undiscovered. I welcome your presence here, you’re among universal brothers, welcome to MGTOW……

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