Blue pill story of choosing wife vs mother

[MENGINEERParticipant 583]

Co worker of mine has been taking care of his sick mother for the past year. She was having debilitating health issues and breathing problems. This guy leaves at lunch to feed his mom, takes her out to movies weekly, etc.

His wife and him go on elaborate vacations for 3-4 weeks. His mom says “when you leave on vacation I will die”.

Upon hearing this, everyone tells him go delay all vacations with the stupid wife (that does not do anything for the m.in law btw). I told him to take his mom on vacation instead since she might be on borrowed time I.e bucket list.

The dumbass goes on vacation because he “has to go he has no choice” and you guessed it..His mother passes while he is thousands of miles away.

I don’t know where to start?

 

[Anonymous 18]

“How could you be a good husband? You couldn’t even be a good son. You should have stayed if you really wanted to. Not like I had a gun to your head”.

That will do it. Hope the f~~~er gets the exact same words from his beloved wife.

[RoyDalParticipant]

If I were in your shoes, I would not stick my body parts into this hornet’s nest. I would stay out of other people’s domestic affairs, even if invited. It is not your business unless you are his therapist. Let him run his own life.

I don’t mean being callous. I mean be compassionate without meddling. He will have to go through all the traditional stages of grief and loss. You can be there for him. Ultimately, he has to go through the process himself.

Here is an edifying article on the topic: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/K%C3%BCbler-Ross_model

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

RoyDal wrote:

If I were in your shoes, I would not stick my body parts into this hornet’s nest. I would stay out of other people’s domestic affairs, even if invited. It is not your business unless you are his therapist. Let him run his own life. I don’t mean being callous. I mean be compassionate without meddling. He will have to go through all the traditional stages of grief and loss. You can be there for him. Ultimately, he has to go through the process himself. Here is an edifying article on the topic: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/K%C3%BCbler-Ross_model

Agreed NEVER EVER get involved with this type of situation.

It’s the same with couples. Side with one in times of trouble and when they make up ….. you’re the s~~~ stirrer …. and get booted.

As RD says …. be there for him ….. and no more.

[MENGINEERParticipant 583]

This man is merely a lesson to us MGTOW how a man can be brainwashed to ignore his own bloodline (or co-creator) when faced with a “queen bee” persona.

Personally I am just his friend that has seen him go thru a divorce (where he paid ~$70k) and his 2nd newest marriage. Many a beer has been thrown back to his sorry life. Just shaking my head and learn from his stupid mistakes..

Not like he will listen to me anyway..Thanks for the advice guys. 🙂

[FullMetalExoParticipant 2383]

Thank you for sharing this. Not much to add to the boys here. Brutal

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[Mango IngawayParticipant 2264]

MENGINEER wrote:

“has to go he has no choice”

“has to go he has no choice”
“has to go he has a wife”

By the way, f~~~ing hell.
Who forsakes the person who raised and fed you for so long, to go with some bitch who’d probably leave your ass the second she gets a better deal with another dude?

Heck!

It is a common failing of childhood to think that if one makes a hero out of a demon the demon will be satisfied.

[Anonymous 18]

Now that I think of it a little more … he probably had a better chance of sticking with his mom. It would have created drama but the fellow blue pill man would have retained some b~~~~ for his woman to struggle for a while to control him.

Now he will never escape his mental anguish and her ultimate win. He let his mother die so she could enjoy her vacation. Game over. A man would do that for a woman. She knows she’s got him. No more s~~~ tests required. She just earned herself a lifetime bitch until she craves a different flavored c~~~. And then once caught she can tell him what I suggested in my earlier post.

I feel his plight-to-be. I am no stronger than him to say I would have fared well. Manipulation and validation.

I just don’t play.

[33wolfmanParticipant 216]

I would be willing to bet that his mother didn’t like his wife and his wife picked up on it. When I got married my mother was highly suspicious of my wife and she tried to warn me from time to time with subtle hints and questions. Now that I’m going through a divorce and back in my hometown I find that everything my mother was suspicious about was all true. One thing I learned from this is if you have parents and females in your family that don’t like your significant other they probably have very good reasons and you should heed those reasons.

[felixParticipant 406]

MENGINEER wrote:

His mother passes while he is thousands of miles away.

I had friend that went to work one morning when his mom was in the hospital and died.  He considered that the biggest mistake he made in his life.

more throttle ..... less brakes.....

[ScandinavianParticipant 590]

“Don’t try to understand women! Women understand women and they hate eachothers guts”.

 

Read this statement a few times and let it sink in. I’m no “mommys boy”: I left at 18 and now at 36 I lived abroad almost half my life. But still my mother is the ultimate quality control; the females she approved of are the ones that have been the best girlfriends I’ve had. The ones she didn’t like were the ones that I had the most problems with. My father never had the same “finger touch” in his advice. There is something where it takes a female to know a female.

 

As for the problem in the topic: life is for the living. People dying will die, simple as that. And dead people don’t hurt, that one is for the living. So I wouldn’t condemn the guy so easily.

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